Genesis 29:31-30:24
Ep. 161

Genesis 29:31-30:24

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A Verse-by-Verse Expository Sermon on Genesis 29:31-30:24 from October 25.

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There it is.

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Okay.

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I always get on to everybody about not doing the mics right and I mess it up to you.

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All right, if you open your Bible with me in the book of Genesis chapter number 29.

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Genesis chapter 29, verse 31 is where we'll be starting.

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And we'll go down to chapter 30, verse number 24.

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I'm sorry about the mini verses, but that's the story.

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So we'll be reading a lot of that.

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And I want you to notice the title of

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the message today.

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God's that the days of God's rogue's life.

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And that should ring a bell, especially for some of you, older folk,

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which is most of us, to be honest.

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You might recognize that, and you'll see why in a 2nd.

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And with that, I'll give a disclaimer.

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We're in the Old Testament, and then the author of the

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Old Testament books inspired by the Holy Spirit

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tells things like they are.

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And so this is a PG-13 passage

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that I've tried to make PG.

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So if you get offended by the content

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of the text, I can't help you, but Philip can.

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So...

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All right, Geneson.

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Hey, would that work?

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Genesis 29, 31.

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God's word says now the Lord saw that Leia

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was unloved, and he opened her wound, but Rachel was barren.

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Leia conceived and bore a son and named

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him Reuben, for she said, because the Lord has seen my affliction,

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Surely now my husband will love me.

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Then she conceived again, and bore a son, and said, because the

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Lord has heard that I am unloved, he has

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therefore given me this son also.

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So she named him Simeon.

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She conceived again, and bore a son, and said,

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Now this time, my husband will become attached to me, because

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I have borne him three sons, therefore, he

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was named Levi.

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And she conceived again, and bore a son, and said, this time I will praise the Lord.

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Therefore, she named him Judah.

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Then she stopped bearing.

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Now, when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no

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children, she became jealous of her sister, and

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she said to Jacob, give me children, or else I die.

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Then Jacob's anger burned against Rachel, and he said,

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am I in the place of God, who has withheld you, the fruit of the womb?

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She said, here is my maid, Bilhah.

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Go in to her, that she may bear on my knees,

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that through her, I too may have children.

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So she gave him her maid, Bilhah, as a wife.

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And Jacob went in to her.

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Bilhah conceived, and bore Jacob a son.

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Then Rachel said, God has vindicated me, and has

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indeed heard my voice, and has given me a son, therefore

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she named him Dan.

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Rachel's maid Billhawk conceived again, and bore Jacob a 2nd son.

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So Rachel said, with mighty wrestlings, I have wrestled

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with my sister, and I have indeed prevailed, and

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she named him Naphtali.

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When Leia saw that she had stopped bearing, she took her maid,

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Zilpa, and gave her to Jacob as a wife.

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Layus made Zilpab war Jacob a son.

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Then Leia said, how fortunate.

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So she named him Gad.

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Layas made Zilpop wore Jacob a 2nd son.

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Then Leia said, happy am I, for women will call me happy.

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So she named him Asher.

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Now, in the days of wheat harvest.

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Reuben went and found mandrakes in the field, and

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brought them to his mother Leia.

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Then Rachel said to Leia, please, give me some of your son's mandrakes.

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But she said to her, Is it a small matter for you to take my husband?

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And would you take my son's mandrix also?

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So Rachel said, therefore, he may lie with you tonight in return

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for your son's mandrix.

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When Jacob came in from the field in the evening, then

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Leia went out to meet him and said, You must come in to

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me, for I have surely hired you with my son's mandrakes,

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so he lay with her that night.

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God gave heed to Leia, and she conceived and

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bore Jacob a 5th son.

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Then Leia said, God has given me my wages because I gave my maid to my husband.

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So she named him Issachar.

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Leia conceived again and bore a 6th son to Jacob.

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Then Leia said, God has endowed me with a good gift.

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Now my husband will dwell with me because I have borne him 6 sons.

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So she named him Zebulun.

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Afterward, she bore a daughter and named her Dinah.

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Then, God remembered Rachel, and

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God gave heed to her, and opened her womb.

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So she conceived, and bore a son,

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and said, God has taken away my reproach.

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She named him Joseph, saying, May the Lord give

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me another son.

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Let's pray.

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Heavenly Father, we love you and thank you for your mercy on us this morning,

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allowing us to be here, to worship you, Lord.

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I pray that you bless your message, inspire the messenger, your

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word to our minds, our hearts, and to our lives, in Christ's name.

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Amen.

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So as we go through this story, as we've been going

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through of Abraham's grandson, Jacob,

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the deceiver, the supplanter, the the the

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heel grabber, the the biggest thing,

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the the number one thing that that we should have seen, I

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should have brought out in all the previous messages, and it will bring out over

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and over again, because this is the story that that this

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is the point that the word is trying to get across,

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is that that God's sovereignty and his his providence

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his hand is working in each of our lives,

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in every circumstance, that all of

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the events that we have gone through in Jacob's

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life so far, except for Jacob's vision

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of the latter that went up to heaven, and the

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angels were going up and down on it, have been every day,

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normal human things and events,

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human happenings.

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We all have gone through the same life events.

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His birth, and then squabbles over inheritance.

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Has anyone had to deal with that before?

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Family issues, marriage problems.

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We haven't had to deal with the marriage problems of having four wives,

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but we've all dealt

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with that if we've been married, running from your twin

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brother because he wants to kill you.

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That one, maybe not so much.

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But we've had trouble with our siblings, I'm sure,

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if we've had siblings.

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That's very common for all of us to go through.

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But all through the events of Jacob's life.

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We have seen God's hand working,

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weaving that tapestry that he is creating.

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And sometimes he worked directly in Jacob's life.

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He spoke to Rebecca and gave her a dream.

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He gave him a vision, and sometimes, indirectly,

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as in the previous passage where his name

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wasn't even mentioned when dealing with Rachel.

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But all of every aspect of their lives.

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God's hand has been working to

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his end, and for his purpose, and

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no matter what the situation was, God's

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will was always done.

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Now, we get the benefit of seeing the

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whole story, we can read all of

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the chapters that have to do with Jacob's life, and we can

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read all that happens afterwards, up until Christ,

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the lion of Judah comes on the scene,

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and we can see the big picture

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ourselves.

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But, but, Jacob, and Rachel, and Rebecca,

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and Leia, and Zilpah, and Bilhah, and

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Isaac, and Laban, and all of them didn't

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have that benefit.

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They didn't get to see the whole picture.

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They lived through the circumstances

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one day at a time, just like we have to live

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through our lives.

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So when we left last time, Jacob had worked seven

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years in order to marry the love

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of his life, the one who was just so beautiful to

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him, Rachel, but found after

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the wedding, and the marriage feast, as

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the narrator put it in Genesis 29:25.

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So it came about in the morning,

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Behold, it was Leia.

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He had married the wrong sister, because of the trickery,

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and the lying, and the deceitfulness of Laban.

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Now, when we read that, especially

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how the word puts it, behold, it was Leia, surprise.

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I always kind chuckle at it.

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But if you think about it, to Jacob and to Leia,

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it was no laughing matter.

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Leo was used by her father.

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Her whole life was used by her father as

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a trick to get Jacob, to trick

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him into working another seven years, and building

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Labon's family empire.

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And Jacob, obviously, didn't want to marry Leia,

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but they were married now, and he had to work another seven years to marry Rachel.

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This is an unimaginable situation to me.

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How difficult would it be to be thrown into

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an unwanted marriage as the husband, and

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as Leia, as well?

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Can you imagine your husband, not

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wanting to marry you in the first place, not growing to not want

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to marry you, but from the very beginning of your marriage, especially

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by trickery.

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So Jacob has to work another seven years for

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Labon, to marry the love that the

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one he wanted to marry in the first place, Rachel.

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And when he does, his feelings,

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obviously, weren't the same for Rachel,

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as they were for Leia, or vice versa.

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He didn't want Leia as a wife.

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He loved Rachel.

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Now, as the name of the sermon

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implies that there's a genre of television

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that is based on romantic drama

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and daily cliffhangers that

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get you to watch the next day.

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And this is the soap opera.

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And the soap opera thrived off of this

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type of drama, the same drama that we see in our

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text today, Jacob and

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his wives found themselves in the

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midst of a soap opera style drama.

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But this passage tells that story in

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a very real and a matter of fact way.

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Our story moves its focus from what happened to

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Jacob to what's happening between the

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two sister bride of Jacob.

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And in the beginning, the very start of Jacob's family.

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And again, this family would eventually become the

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12 tribes of Israel, and it would lead

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to God, the coming of God,

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the Son, into our world.

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So let's look at the pain and the suffering

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of the trials and the drama that these two sisters

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had to go through as they started their new

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families with Jacob.

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And we'll see exactly how God works through those

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trials, to weave that tapestry of

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his plan, and how he redeems the

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trials and the suffering that Leia and Rachel had to experience.

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In the first part, in the last section of chapter

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29, we see that God sees Leia's

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longing, verse 31.

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Now, the Lord saw that Leia was unloved.

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And he opened her womb, but Rachel was barren.

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Le conceived and bore a son and named him Reuben,

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for she said, because the Lord has seen my affliction.

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Surely now, my husband will love me.

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Then she conceived again, and bore a son, and said, because the Lord has

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heard that I am unloved, he has therefore given

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me this son also.

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So she named him Simeon.

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She conceived again, and bore a son, and said, Now this time, my

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husband will become attached to me, because I have borne

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him three sons, therefore he was named Levi.

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And she conceived again and bore a son, and said, this time,

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I will praise the Lord.

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Therefore, she named him Judah, then she stopped

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bearing.

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Leia was the firstborn sister.

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But she was always considered second in Jacob's eyes to Rachel.

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And I have mixed feelings about this situation.

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I don't know how I'd react if I had

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been put in Jacob's shoes.

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If I was given the wrong sister, if I had expectations

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of marrying one person, and on the

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wedding night, I found out that I married a different person.

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And this is so far out of our cultural

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understanding of our mindset as

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modern Western people

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that I don't even know how much.

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We can imagine ourselves to be in this

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situation, as we try to put ourselves in Jacob and Rachel and Leia's shoes.

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I don't know if I could picture it.

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So I don't know if I blame Jacob for being disappointed,

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or for loving Rachel, more than Leia,

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but for the situation to be as bad

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as it seemed, especially for Leia,

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he definitely wasn't in the right and

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how he handled it, either.

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So it's kind of one of those life situations where

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there's the big gray area.

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But God saw her.

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He saw the plight that she was in the pain that

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she was feeling, and he caused her to become pregnant.

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He opened her womb, but he closed Rachel's womb.

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That the Bible is aware of the physical mechanics

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of conception of pregnancy and of birth.

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But it also knows, ultimately, the

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one who opens and closes the womb is God.

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And so God blesses Leia with four sons at

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this time, and she names them all as

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a prayer to God.

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And we need to read these

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names and her description of why she named these

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four sons the way that she did as a cry out to God.

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The pain.

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Just read the names, and read the descriptions, and

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imagine how you would feel if you were writing these prayers.

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The 1st son is named Reuben.

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And his name is a play on the word that means to

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look, or to see.

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And she says that she names him this because she says,

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Yahweh has seen her affliction.

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Then her second son is Stimian.

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His name sounds like the word for to hear,

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or to listen.

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So Yahweh has heard that she was unloved.

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And then Levi, his name sounds like

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the word for it to be joined, or to be put

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together, because it says that she hopes that

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now that she's had three sons, that her

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husband would become attached, or joined with her.

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But apparently not, because she just comes to the fourth

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son, a Judah, and his word,

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his name sounds like the word for to be celebrated.

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And so she names him because at this

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She says, I will just praise the Lord.

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None of this worked.

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I'm just going to praise the Lord.

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So, at this time, they didn't have baby books or

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baby name books, what to name your boy

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in 2026, all

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of the names that she gave to her boys,

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were cries from her heart to God, called

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out to him from her broken heart.

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And God was bringing her answers to

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her longing heart by giving her sons,

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but also, she was looking at

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those the birth of these boys as the solution to her problem.

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Maybe if I have another boy.

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He'll love me.

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Maybe if I have another one, he'll listen to me.

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He'll see me.

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But God was using this to show her that the

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final solution, the solution to her problems and

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her pain and her suffering, wasn't just having boys.

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Jacob would never really come to love her in

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the way that she wanted.

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We can see that as we go through the story, that

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Jacob, in his old age, would

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love Rachel and her sons more than Leia,

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and her sons.

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But God was watching out for her.

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She felt unloved, but she really wasn't,

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because God loved her.

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God heard her, and answered her prayers.

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Her sons would become as unloved as

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she was, would become the heads of

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12 tribes of Israel.

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And specifically, the two names that should stick out to you

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the most, or not necessarily Reuben and Issachar, or Simeon here.

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It's Levi, and Judah, that

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her sons would be the start of the priestly

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line of Israel, and the

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royal line of Israel, that David and

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Solomon would come from, and eventually Jesus

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Christ himself would come from.

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She didn't see all that.

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She didn't know that this was how God was loving her, but

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God was loving her.

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God was listening to her, and God was seeing her.

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And Jesus, himself, exemplifies

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the same pattern of hearing the needy,

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of hearing and looking out for the

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unloved and the downtrodden as we see as we

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read the gospels.

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Those who were under the feet of the wicked of the

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world, those who were missing the point, as

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Lazarus was about to be resurrected, he

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wept for the same God,

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who heard the prayers of this unloved

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bride, hears the prayers of

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persecuted and suffering saints.

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Keep heart.

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If you were given of

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the ability to see far enough in the future, you,

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too, would see how God is using your trials,

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your suffering, and your pain to work out his

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will, and to paint the picture of his world in

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a way that brings him glory.

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And although we can't see it now, ultimately are

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good in him.

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We cannot see that, as Hebrew says, with our eyes,

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yet, we have to see that by faith, at

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the moment, but eventually, faith will become sight.

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And we'll be able to see that in perfect HD quality.

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So Leia, unloved Leia.

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God heard her.

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God listened to her.

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Now, the next part of our story, where

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Rachel and Leia, take things into their own hands.

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Chapter 30, verses one through 21,

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We'll read verses 1 through 13.

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Now, when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children.

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She became jealous of her sister.

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And she said to Jacob, Give me children, or else I die.

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And Jacob's anger burned against Rachel.

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And he said, am I in the place of God, who has withheld

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from you the fruit of the womb?

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She said, Here.

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Here's my maid, Bilhah, go in to her, that she may

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bear on my knees, that through her, I, too, may have children.

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So she gave him her maid, Bilhah as a wife, and Jacob went in to her.

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Bilhah conceived and bore Jacob a son.

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Then Rachel said, God has vindicated me, and has indeed

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heard my voice, and has given me a son.

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Therefore, she named him Dan.

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Rachel's maid, Bill Hawk, conceived again, and bore Jacob a 2nd son.

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So Rachel said, with mighty wrestlings, I have wrestled

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with my sister, and I have indeed prevailed, and

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she named him Naphpali.

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When Leia saw that she had stopped bearing, she took her

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maid Zilpah, and gave her to Jacob as a wife.

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Leia's maid, Zilpah, bore Jacob a son.

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Then Leia said, how fortunate.

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So she named him Gad.

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Leia's made Zilpah bore Jacob a 2nd son.

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Then Leia said, happy am I, for women will call me happy.

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So she named him Asher.

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So now, Leia was distraught in

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the previous passage, and God heard her, but now, Leia

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is looking at her sister with the eyes of jealousy.

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She's got Jacob's love, but her sister is

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having all the babies, and she is barren.

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Leia had four sons, and Rachel hasn't

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been able to conceive the first child.

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So she complains to Jacob at her wits

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end, Give me children, or

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else I die.

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Now, I can imagine Jacob looking over at

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the four children, sons that he just had with

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Leia, and say, Look, it ain't me.

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It ain't my fault, but he

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doesn't do a very good job of talking gently

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with his distraught and irrational wife.

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He says, Look, who do you think I am?

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Why are you blaming me?

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Is God is the one who gives children

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and stops from having children?

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And here, in this passage, we have another one of

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those, especially Old Testament, but biblical repetitions of stories.

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And if you remember, there was

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someone else in this family that was having problems

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conceiving children, and God had

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promised them, Abraham and Sarah, that

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they would have a son in their old age.

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But Sarah didn't believe God.

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She laughed when she heard what he said.

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So she took matters into her own hands,

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and gave her servant, Hagar, to

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Abram, in order that they would have

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a child.

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And so this, again, is a different culture, a different

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time, a very ancient culture, and this was a standard practice,

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whenever the

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children weren't coming, and there

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was their need for an heir to pass the inheritance

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of all of your possessions to, the

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wife would give a servant to the husband,

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to Mary, and have a child.

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But that child wouldn't be the child of that

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woman in the eyes of the world, that bond servant.

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She would be like the adopted child of the masters.

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And that child would get the inheritance and would be

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raised as one of their own children.

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So the Bible tells us the same thing happens here.

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Rachel is barren, she wants children, so she gives

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Jacob, her servant, Dihah,

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as a wife, and Bilhah has a son that

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would be raised as Jacob, and Rachel's son.

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So, now, I can imagine my

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response to this happening in our times, but

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Rachel's response is completely different from what

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my response would be, and Genesis 30 verse 6, she says,

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then Rachel said, God has vindicated me.

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And has indeed heard my voice and has given me a son.

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Therefore, she named him Dan.

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So I can't imagine that I would have looked at this as

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a victory, or a triumph, that

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my servant had a child with my husband,

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but it's a different time, and a different culture.

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The Bible is simply telling us what happened.

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This is not the Bible's plan for how to deal

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with infertility, right?

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This is not a prescription for how we are to deal

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with barrenness.

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It is just stating the facts of what happened in the story.

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And the fact that it's repeating the facts

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that happened in two separate stories, Abram

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and with Jacob and Rachel,

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is telling us something.

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But Rachel is excited at the news

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that her servant, Bilhah, is having a son.

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And so she names her son through Bilhad,

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Dan, which sounds like he judged.

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You can hear the emotions and the spirits

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of these two different women.

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Laius names were just cries

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and calling out for help and pain.

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But Rachel's, the names that she names

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her children through her servant,

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are, I'm getting back at you, Leah.

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So listen, the name Dan sounds like

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the word for he judged.

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She feels that God has been the judge between

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them two, and found that Rachel must

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be okay, because he gave her a son too.

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Does that make sense?

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Just imagine that your names were back and

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forth between your family and her whole life, you'd have to remember

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all the squabbles, dysfunction and mess, for sure.

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So this is mighty presumptuous on her part, right?

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That God has judged my situation, and I'm doing okay.

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And we've all been there before.

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But then Bilha has another son, and she names

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the second son, Naphtali,

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and his name means to wrestle.

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Rachel thought that she was in a match with her sister,

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and a fight with her sister, and that she had won.

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So she names her second son, Naftali.

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Now, I enjoy all kinds of different music and

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one of them is a genre called

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funk, right?

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I love that driving baseline and a tempo.

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There's a band called Wolfpeck.

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They post stuff on YouTube, and they have this 15 minute long

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video, and the name of the video is,

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it gets funkier, but every time it gets

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funkier, it gets funkier.

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So every 30 seconds to a minute, that the

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song just starts getting faster and funkier,

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as it goes on.

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It escalates throughout the 15 minutes, right?

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And that's what these sisters are doing, with

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each batch of children that they're having, the

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stuff is escalating, and the fights are escalating.

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See, Leia had four sons, and then she stopped bearing.

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And now Rachel was having children through her servant.

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She does the next logical thing to do.

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She wants to take it up a notch.

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She wants it to get funkier.

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So she gives her servant to Jacob to

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have children through, right?

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So, Leia had four, and Rachel gives

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her servant to Jacob.

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And now Leia's like, well, if she's doing it, I'm going

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to give my servant to him too.

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This is an all out spat between the two sisters

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and Jacobs in the middle of it all.

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So, so, so Leia gives Zilpah, her servant,

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to Jacob, to have sons with, and the

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1st son she has is named Gad, which

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means fortune.

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And then she has another son, and Leia

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names him, Asher, or Happy.

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And now this is a strange story to our ears.

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But it's about to get even stranger.

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in what Ralph Davies, a commentator called Mandrake

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Madness.

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The next part of our passage, verse 14, says, Now,

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in the days of wheat harvest, Reuben went and

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found mandrakes in the field, and brought them to his mother Leia.

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Then Rachel said to Leia, Please give me some of your son's mandrikes,

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but she said to her, Is it a small matter for you to take my husband?

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And would you take my son's mandrakes also?

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So Rachel said, therefore, he may lay with you tonight

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in return for your son's mandrix.

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When Jacob came in from the field in the evening, then

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Leia went out to meet him and said, You must come in to me,

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for I have surely hired you with my son's mandrix.

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So he lay with her that night.

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God gave heed to Leia, and she conceived and bore Jacob a fifth son.

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Then Leia said, God has given me my wages, because

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I gave my maid to my husband.

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So she named him Issachar.

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Le conceived again, and bore a sick son to Jacob.

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Then Leia said, God has endowed me with a good gift.

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Now my husband will dwell with me, because I have

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borne him six sons.

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So she named him Zebulun.

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Afterward, she bore a daughter, and named her Dinah.

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So, this is a very telling it like it

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is, earthy story that we're going through here.

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Leia's oldest, Reuben, find some mandrakes

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in the field, while they're at the wheat harvest.

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And he brings them to Leia.

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So now the kids are involved in the spat as well.

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So mandrakes, if you didn't know, are

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a plant that flowers are very beautiful blue

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flower in the winter.

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But towards the end of the summer, they give fruit.

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And at the time, they were thought to be a natural

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remedy that did two things.

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One was an aphrodisiac, and

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the second thing was a natural remedy

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for infertility.

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So Rachel hasn't been able to have her own children yet.

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So she really wants these mandrakes to be

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able to have her own.

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So we may laugh at the idea

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of these ancient, you know, these crazy people, all these natural remedies

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and myths and stuff that they believe.

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Well, let me tell you, we have our own myths about food

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and natural remedies ourselves.

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I mean, have you ever been accosted by a church lady

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that sells essential oils?

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If you sell essential oils, I'm sorry, but it's

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the same thing in my mind.

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Okay?

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So, here we are, and we see

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the crux of the issue in Leia's

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mind, when this battle over Jacob,

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is she believes that Rachel has

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taken her husband.

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He was Leia's first, no matter that it was

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done against Jacob's will and by deception.

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So Rachel negotiates a trade to lay it.

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Look, if you give me those

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mandrakes, I'll let you

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guys get together tonight.

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So she traded a night with her husband for

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these mandrix, because she was so desperate,

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that even though she said that it was good,

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and it was great, it was a gift, that she had

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kids through her servant, she really wanted them

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herself.

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But the problem is, it backfired.

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It does go to Jacob that night, but she conceives

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and has more sons.

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She has two more sons and a daughter in Dinah.

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She has Issachar, which means to hire.

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She sees that this fifth son is

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a wages for her giving her servant

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to Jacob to have another son.

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Then she has Zebulun, the sixth, which means residence.

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And this may be the saddest of all.

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She's still longing for her husband to love her.

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She thinks now that she's had six sons for him, that

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he'll take up residence.

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They'll be joined together, that he'll endure and

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dwell with her, that he'll finally accept her as his wife.

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Now, in Dinah, a daughter.

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whose name means to plead, or to fight.

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All of this back and forth, all of this drama,

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that is taking things into their own hands.

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All this stuff that went back and forth between Leia and Rachel,

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and mandrix, and crying, and servants, having babies in my place.

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But all the time that they were doing all of these things in

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their own power, in their own ways.

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God was still listening.

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Rachel complained about her life for

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the lack of having children.

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And she was desperate when she gave her maid to Jacob

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to have children with.

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She was desperate when she sold a knight with Jacob for

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this natural remedy for infertility.

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Leia gave her servant to Jacob to despite Rachel.

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Can you imagine the position that she was in, and the pain in

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that family that they were in?

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She bought a knight with her own husband.

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All of these things, these machinations, and plans,

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and stuff, if they were doing in the background, to fulfill their

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desires by their own wills, their own ways, uh,

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were also, at the same time, praying,

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and asking God to intervene,

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so that Rachel could have children.

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And so Leia would be loved by her husband.

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It was a mixture of unbelief.

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We know Leia was looking to Yahweh because of

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the names of her children, and

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all of us, as we pray, and

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as we live our lives, mix, trust,

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and unbelief, mix,

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doing things correctly, understanding things correctly,

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believing correctly, and a

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mixed bags of cultural influences that we

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have, and we think that influence our mind, and what we believe

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and what we see, and what we understand,

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all of us are a mixture of

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things in the same way.

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as Leia and Rachel.

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We take things into our own hands.

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How many times, have we seen God answer

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in spite of this?

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in our own lives.

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How many times, have we been just an absolute complete

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disaster of a person and a sinner,

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but God still listens to us and

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answers our prayers in ways that we can't even understand

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or imagine?

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Aren't you glad that our perfection, and that

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our perfect obedience is not to require,

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to God being able to hear us, to

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that we're able to go before the

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throne of God based on Christ's perfection, and

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Christ's righteousness in our place?

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What a blessing that is.

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And Rachel really finds out that this is true in

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the very last part of our passage.

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Rachel finds God's timing, verses 22

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through 24, then God remembered Rachel, and

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God gave heed to her and opened her womb.

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So she conceived and bore a son, and said, God has

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taken away my reproach.

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She named him Joseph, saying, May the Lord

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give me another son.

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Behind the scenes of all of this.

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There's something much bigger and greater than the drama that was happening.

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I read this illustration, as I was studying, that

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the actor, Marlon Brando, was filming

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his very first film that he acted with in 1950

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called The Men.

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And in that film, he played a World War II veteran

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that had lost a use of his legs in the war and

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became a paraplegic, so as he prepared and

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studied for the role, he lived several

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weeks himself in a wheelchair, and he hung

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around other World War II veterans that

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became paraplegic, so he could properly act in the role.

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So one day, him and a couple of his new friends

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in their wheelchairs.

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him in his wheelchair, went to a bar.

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And there was a lady that worked with

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the Salvation Army that came to the bar to get waste paper for

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whatever reason, and she saw all

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the people in wheelchairs there, and she

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raised her hands and prayed, oh, Lord, grant

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that these men may be able to walk again.

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So when Brando heard her praying this prayer, he

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got up and walked around and she

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nearly fainted, seeing her prayer actually worked.

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She didn't know what was happening behind the scenes, but

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she also didn't completely trust that her prayer was real, right?

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Because she got surprised.

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There's always a bunch happening behind the

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scenes that we are not aware of.

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And we're always, always a

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part of God's bigger plan.

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God promised Abraham that his seed would

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be multiplied throughout the earth, that they would be greater than

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the number of the grains of sand and the sea and

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the stars in the heavens.

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And then Abraham had Isaac, one son.

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Well, maybe that one son would have a bunch of sons.

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And it would be the fulfillment to God's promise.

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No?

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Isaac had Esau and Jacob.

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And the lion went through one son, Jacob,

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as we have seen.

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These aren't big families, especially at the time.

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that you would think, in our mind,

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that it would take for this promise to be fulfilled.

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But now, Jacob has 11

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sons and one more to come later.

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But was this the way?

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If you were God, that you would plan

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to have this all go down, or wives,

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two of them, servants of two sisters, one of the

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sisters, unwanted, and unloved.

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Not at all, all behind the scenes.

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God was working to where he is now.

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All the ups and downs, all the backwards

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and forwards, and the strife and the fighting, and then the

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end of this chapter, after all that, God

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remembers Rachel.

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One of the best phrases in scripture.

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One of the most beautiful phrases is God remembered.

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10 sons and a daughter, have been born, and

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none of them were hers directly.

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But finally, she conceived, and God

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gave her a sign.

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All of the heartache that she had been through, all

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the contrivances, and the planning, and the scheming,

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that she suffered over, and

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it happened in God's time anyway, right?

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There's a lesson in that somewhere for us.

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And so here, Joseph has a name that means something, too.

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Joseph's name means to let him add more.

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And Joseph would become a great man and

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be a significant part of the Bible story in

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himself.

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But it looks that through this name that Leia

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is learning herself, when she

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named Joseph, let him add more, it

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is a prayer that said, Hey, God, can I have another one, please?

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Right?

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Can I have another son?

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And she eventually would in Benjamin.

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No more contrivances are said to take place after this.

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about them conceiving children.

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It looks like that Rachel had finally learned

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the lesson here, to wait on God and wait

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on his timing.

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And that is wisdom.

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As God remembered her.

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Remember, that he remembers you as,

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well, we've seen everything here.

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All the soap opera ups and downs that the fighting

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between husbands and wives, the bedroom, rivalry,

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the covenant family, and all of its dysfunctional

41:49

glory, especially as we started in the beginning of Jacob's life.

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There's a whole lot of dysfunction.

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But in spite of all the bickering and the striving, the

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grief and anguish, attention, Yahweh,

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has never once been unfaithful to keep his promises.

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Through all of it, and in all of the story, and the rest of Jacob's

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life, and into his children's life, and into the life of

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the children of Israel, and into the church, and into

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the future,

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God is maintaining his plan, and

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his purposes, and our job is

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to look at these passages, and the absolute craziness

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that's going on, and look through that, and see

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that God always keeps his

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promises, that God has a plan,

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and is working it out, and that this soap

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opera of Jacob's lives,

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it actually shouts the faithfulness of God to

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keep his promise in spite of dysfunction

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and mess, and sin, and physical

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problems, and any problem.

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God will always keep his promises.

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We cannot mess it up.

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No matter how hard we, or someone else tries, to mess it up.

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God will always keep his promises,

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God remembers us, and that things work

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out in his timing for his glory and for our good.

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Let's pray.

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Pray Father, we love you and thank you.

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Now, we can rest in the fact that you will always keep

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your promises, that you've showed us over and over in

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just the life of this first couple of families of your people,

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that you are faithful

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to your word every single day and every single time.

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May we rest and keep our hearts in that, Lord,

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not take that for granted.

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Bless us for your glory in Christ's name.

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Amen.

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Amen.