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I always get on to everybody about not doing the mics right and I mess it up to you.

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All right, if you open your Bible with me in the book of Genesis chapter number 29.

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Genesis chapter 29, verse 31 is where we'll be starting.

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And we'll go down to chapter 30, verse number 24.

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I'm sorry about the mini verses, but that's the story.

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So we'll be reading a lot of that.

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And I want you to notice the title of

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the message today.

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God's that the days of God's rogue's life.

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And that should ring a bell, especially for some of you, older folk,

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which is most of us, to be honest.

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You might recognize that, and you'll see why in a 2nd.

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And with that, I'll give a disclaimer.

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We're in the Old Testament, and then the author of the

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Old Testament books inspired by the Holy Spirit

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tells things like they are.

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And so this is a PG-13 passage

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that I've tried to make PG.

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So if you get offended by the content

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of the text, I can't help you, but Philip can.

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So...

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All right, Geneson.

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Hey, would that work?

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Genesis 29, 31.

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God's word says now the Lord saw that Leia

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was unloved, and he opened her wound, but Rachel was barren.

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Leia conceived and bore a son and named

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him Reuben, for she said, because the Lord has seen my affliction,

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Surely now my husband will love me.

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Then she conceived again, and bore a son, and said, because the

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Lord has heard that I am unloved, he has

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therefore given me this son also.

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So she named him Simeon.

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She conceived again, and bore a son, and said,

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Now this time, my husband will become attached to me, because

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I have borne him three sons, therefore, he

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was named Levi.

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And she conceived again, and bore a son, and said, this time I will praise the Lord.

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Therefore, she named him Judah.

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Then she stopped bearing.

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children, she became jealous of her sister, and

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she said to Jacob, give me children, or else I die.

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Then Jacob's anger burned against Rachel, and he said,

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am I in the place of God, who has withheld you, the fruit of the womb?

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She said, here is my maid, Bilhah.

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Go in to her, that she may bear on my knees,

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that through her, I too may have children.

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So she gave him her maid, Bilhah, as a wife.

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And Jacob went in to her.

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Bilhah conceived, and bore Jacob a son.

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Then Rachel said, God has vindicated me, and has

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indeed heard my voice, and has given me a son, therefore

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she named him Dan.

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Rachel's maid Billhawk conceived again, and bore Jacob a 2nd son.

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So Rachel said, with mighty wrestlings, I have wrestled

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with my sister, and I have indeed prevailed, and

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she named him Naphtali.

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When Leia saw that she had stopped bearing, she took her maid,

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Zilpa, and gave her to Jacob as a wife.

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Layus made Zilpab war Jacob a son.

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Layas made Zilpop wore Jacob a 2nd son.

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Now, in the days of wheat harvest.

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Reuben went and found mandrakes in the field, and

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brought them to his mother Leia.

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Then Rachel said to Leia, please, give me some of your son's mandrakes.

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But she said to her, Is it a small matter for you to take my husband?

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So Rachel said, therefore, he may lie with you tonight in return

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for your son's mandrix.

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Leia went out to meet him and said, You must come in to

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me, for I have surely hired you with my son's mandrakes,

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so he lay with her that night.

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bore Jacob a 5th son.

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God gave heed to her, and opened her womb.

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and said, God has taken away my reproach.

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Let's pray.

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Heavenly Father, we love you and thank you for your mercy on us this morning,

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allowing us to be here, to worship you, Lord.

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I pray that you bless your message, inspire the messenger, your

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word to our minds, our hearts, and to our lives, in Christ's name.

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So as we go through this story, as we've been going

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through of Abraham's grandson, Jacob,

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the deceiver, the supplanter, the the the

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heel grabber, the the biggest thing,

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the the number one thing that that we should have seen, I

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should have brought out in all the previous messages, and it will bring out over

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and over again, because this is the story that that this

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is the point that the word is trying to get across,

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is that that God's sovereignty and his his providence

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his hand is working in each of our lives,

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in every circumstance, that all of

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the events that we have gone through in Jacob's

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life so far, except for Jacob's vision

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of the latter that went up to heaven, and the

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angels were going up and down on it, have been every day,

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normal human things and events,

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human happenings.

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We all have gone through the same life events.

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His birth, and then squabbles over inheritance.

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Has anyone had to deal with that before?

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We haven't had to deal with the marriage problems of having four wives,

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but we've all dealt

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with that if we've been married, running from your twin

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brother because he wants to kill you.

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That one, maybe not so much.

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if we've had siblings.

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That's very common for all of us to go through.

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But all through the events of Jacob's life.

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We have seen God's hand working,

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weaving that tapestry that he is creating.

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He spoke to Rebecca and gave her a dream.

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He gave him a vision, and sometimes, indirectly,

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as in the previous passage where his name

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wasn't even mentioned when dealing with Rachel.

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God's hand has been working to

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his end, and for his purpose, and

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no matter what the situation was, God's

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will was always done.

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Now, we get the benefit of seeing the

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whole story, we can read all of

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the chapters that have to do with Jacob's life, and we can

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read all that happens afterwards, up until Christ,

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the lion of Judah comes on the scene,

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and we can see the big picture

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ourselves.

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and Leia, and Zilpah, and Bilhah, and

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Isaac, and Laban, and all of them didn't

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have that benefit.

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They didn't get to see the whole picture.

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one day at a time, just like we have to live

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through our lives.

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So when we left last time, Jacob had worked seven

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years in order to marry the love

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of his life, the one who was just so beautiful to

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him, Rachel, but found after

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the wedding, and the marriage feast, as

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the narrator put it in Genesis 29:25.

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So it came about in the morning,

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Behold, it was Leia.

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He had married the wrong sister, because of the trickery,

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and the lying, and the deceitfulness of Laban.

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how the word puts it, behold, it was Leia, surprise.

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I always kind chuckle at it.

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it was no laughing matter.

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Leo was used by her father.

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a trick to get Jacob, to trick

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him into working another seven years, and building

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Labon's family empire.

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but they were married now, and he had to work another seven years to marry Rachel.

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This is an unimaginable situation to me.

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an unwanted marriage as the husband, and

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as Leia, as well?

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wanting to marry you in the first place, not growing to not want

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to marry you, but from the very beginning of your marriage, especially

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by trickery.

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Labon, to marry the love that the

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one he wanted to marry in the first place, Rachel.

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obviously, weren't the same for Rachel,

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as they were for Leia, or vice versa.

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Now, as the name of the sermon

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implies that there's a genre of television

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that is based on romantic drama

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and daily cliffhangers that

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get you to watch the next day.

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And this is the soap opera.

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And the soap opera thrived off of this

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type of drama, the same drama that we see in our

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text today, Jacob and

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his wives found themselves in the

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midst of a soap opera style drama.

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a very real and a matter of fact way.

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Our story moves its focus from what happened to

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Jacob to what's happening between the

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two sister bride of Jacob.

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And in the beginning, the very start of Jacob's family.

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12 tribes of Israel, and it would lead

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to God, the coming of God,

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the Son, into our world.

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So let's look at the pain and the suffering

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of the trials and the drama that these two sisters

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had to go through as they started their new

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families with Jacob.

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trials, to weave that tapestry of

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his plan, and how he redeems the

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trials and the suffering that Leia and Rachel had to experience.

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In the first part, in the last section of chapter

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29, we see that God sees Leia's

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longing, verse 31.

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Now, the Lord saw that Leia was unloved.

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Le conceived and bore a son and named him Reuben,

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for she said, because the Lord has seen my affliction.

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Surely now, my husband will love me.

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Then she conceived again, and bore a son, and said, because the Lord has

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heard that I am unloved, he has therefore given

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me this son also.

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So she named him Simeon.

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She conceived again, and bore a son, and said, Now this time, my

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husband will become attached to me, because I have borne

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him three sons, therefore he was named Levi.

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I will praise the Lord.

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Therefore, she named him Judah, then she stopped

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bearing.

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Leia was the firstborn sister.

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But she was always considered second in Jacob's eyes to Rachel.

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And I have mixed feelings about this situation.

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I don't know how I'd react if I had

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been put in Jacob's shoes.

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If I was given the wrong sister, if I had expectations

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of marrying one person, and on the

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wedding night, I found out that I married a different person.

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understanding of our mindset as

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modern Western people

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that I don't even know how much.

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situation, as we try to put ourselves in Jacob and Rachel and Leia's shoes.

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I don't know if I could picture it.

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or for loving Rachel, more than Leia,

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but for the situation to be as bad

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as it seemed, especially for Leia,

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he definitely wasn't in the right and

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how he handled it, either.

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there's the big gray area.

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He saw the plight that she was in the pain that

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she was feeling, and he caused her to become pregnant.

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He opened her womb, but he closed Rachel's womb.

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That the Bible is aware of the physical mechanics

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of conception of pregnancy and of birth.

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one who opens and closes the womb is God.

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And so God blesses Leia with four sons at

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this time, and she names them all as

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a prayer to God.

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And we need to read these

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names and her description of why she named these

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four sons the way that she did as a cry out to God.

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The pain.

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Just read the names, and read the descriptions, and

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imagine how you would feel if you were writing these prayers.

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The 1st son is named Reuben.

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And his name is a play on the word that means to

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look, or to see.

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And she says that she names him this because she says,

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Yahweh has seen her affliction.

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Then her second son is Stimian.

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His name sounds like the word for to hear,

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or to listen.

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So Yahweh has heard that she was unloved.

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And then Levi, his name sounds like

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the word for it to be joined, or to be put

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together, because it says that she hopes that

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now that she's had three sons, that her

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husband would become attached, or joined with her.

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But apparently not, because she just comes to the fourth

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son, a Judah, and his word,

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his name sounds like the word for to be celebrated.

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And so she names him because at this

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She says, I will just praise the Lord.

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None of this worked.

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I'm just going to praise the Lord.

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So, at this time, they didn't have baby books or

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baby name books, what to name your boy

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in 2026, all

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of the names that she gave to her boys,

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were cries from her heart to God, called

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out to him from her broken heart.

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And God was bringing her answers to

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her longing heart by giving her sons,

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but also, she was looking at

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those the birth of these boys as the solution to her problem.

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Maybe if I have another boy.

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He'll love me.

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Maybe if I have another one, he'll listen to me.

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He'll see me.

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But God was using this to show her that the

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final solution, the solution to her problems and

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her pain and her suffering, wasn't just having boys.

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Jacob would never really come to love her in

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the way that she wanted.

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Jacob, in his old age, would

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love Rachel and her sons more than Leia,

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and her sons.

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But God was watching out for her.

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She felt unloved, but she really wasn't,

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because God loved her.

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God heard her, and answered her prayers.

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Her sons would become as unloved as

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she was, would become the heads of

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12 tribes of Israel.

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And specifically, the two names that should stick out to you

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the most, or not necessarily Reuben and Issachar, or Simeon here.

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It's Levi, and Judah, that

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her sons would be the start of the priestly

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line of Israel, and the

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royal line of Israel, that David and

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Solomon would come from, and eventually Jesus

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Christ himself would come from.

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She didn't see all that.

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She didn't know that this was how God was loving her, but

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God was loving her.

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God was listening to her, and God was seeing her.

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And Jesus, himself, exemplifies

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the same pattern of hearing the needy,

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of hearing and looking out for the

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unloved and the downtrodden as we see as we

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read the gospels.

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Those who were under the feet of the wicked of the

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world, those who were missing the point, as

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Lazarus was about to be resurrected, he

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wept for the same God,

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who heard the prayers of this unloved

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bride, hears the prayers of

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persecuted and suffering saints.

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Keep heart.

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If you were given of

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the ability to see far enough in the future, you,

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too, would see how God is using your trials,

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your suffering, and your pain to work out his

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will, and to paint the picture of his world in

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a way that brings him glory.

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And although we can't see it now, ultimately are

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good in him.

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We cannot see that, as Hebrew says, with our eyes,

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yet, we have to see that by faith, at

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the moment, but eventually, faith will become sight.

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And we'll be able to see that in perfect HD quality.

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So Leia, unloved Leia.

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God heard her.

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God listened to her.

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Now, the next part of our story, where

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Rachel and Leia, take things into their own hands.

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Chapter 30, verses one through 21,

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We'll read verses 1 through 13.

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Now, when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children.

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She became jealous of her sister.

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And she said to Jacob, Give me children, or else I die.

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And Jacob's anger burned against Rachel.

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And he said, am I in the place of God, who has withheld

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from you the fruit of the womb?

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She said, Here.

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Here's my maid, Bilhah, go in to her, that she may

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bear on my knees, that through her, I, too, may have children.

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So she gave him her maid, Bilhah as a wife, and Jacob went in to her.

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Bilhah conceived and bore Jacob a son.

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Then Rachel said, God has vindicated me, and has indeed

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heard my voice, and has given me a son.

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Therefore, she named him Dan.

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Rachel's maid, Bill Hawk, conceived again, and bore Jacob a 2nd son.

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So Rachel said, with mighty wrestlings, I have wrestled

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with my sister, and I have indeed prevailed, and

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she named him Naphpali.

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When Leia saw that she had stopped bearing, she took her

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maid Zilpah, and gave her to Jacob as a wife.

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Leia's maid, Zilpah, bore Jacob a son.

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Then Leia said, how fortunate.

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So she named him Gad.

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Leia's made Zilpah bore Jacob a 2nd son.

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Then Leia said, happy am I, for women will call me happy.

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So she named him Asher.

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So now, Leia was distraught in

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the previous passage, and God heard her, but now, Leia

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is looking at her sister with the eyes of jealousy.

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She's got Jacob's love, but her sister is

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having all the babies, and she is barren.

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Leia had four sons, and Rachel hasn't

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been able to conceive the first child.

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So she complains to Jacob at her wits

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end, Give me children, or

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else I die.

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Now, I can imagine Jacob looking over at

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the four children, sons that he just had with

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Leia, and say, Look, it ain't me.

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It ain't my fault, but he

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doesn't do a very good job of talking gently

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with his distraught and irrational wife.

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He says, Look, who do you think I am?

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Why are you blaming me?

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Is God is the one who gives children

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and stops from having children?

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And here, in this passage, we have another one of

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those, especially Old Testament, but biblical repetitions of stories.

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And if you remember, there was

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someone else in this family that was having problems

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conceiving children, and God had

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promised them, Abraham and Sarah, that

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they would have a son in their old age.

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But Sarah didn't believe God.

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She laughed when she heard what he said.

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So she took matters into her own hands,

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and gave her servant, Hagar, to

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Abram, in order that they would have

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a child.

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And so this, again, is a different culture, a different

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time, a very ancient culture, and this was a standard practice,

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whenever the

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children weren't coming, and there

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was their need for an heir to pass the inheritance

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of all of your possessions to, the

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wife would give a servant to the husband,

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to Mary, and have a child.

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But that child wouldn't be the child of that

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woman in the eyes of the world, that bond servant.

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She would be like the adopted child of the masters.

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And that child would get the inheritance and would be

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raised as one of their own children.

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So the Bible tells us the same thing happens here.

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Rachel is barren, she wants children, so she gives

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Jacob, her servant, Dihah,

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as a wife, and Bilhah has a son that

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would be raised as Jacob, and Rachel's son.

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So, now, I can imagine my

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response to this happening in our times, but

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Rachel's response is completely different from what

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my response would be, and Genesis 30 verse 6, she says,

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then Rachel said, God has vindicated me.

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And has indeed heard my voice and has given me a son.

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Therefore, she named him Dan.

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So I can't imagine that I would have looked at this as

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a victory, or a triumph, that

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my servant had a child with my husband,

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but it's a different time, and a different culture.

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The Bible is simply telling us what happened.

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This is not the Bible's plan for how to deal

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with infertility, right?

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This is not a prescription for how we are to deal

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with barrenness.

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It is just stating the facts of what happened in the story.

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And the fact that it's repeating the facts

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that happened in two separate stories, Abram

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and with Jacob and Rachel,

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is telling us something.

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But Rachel is excited at the news

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that her servant, Bilhah, is having a son.

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And so she names her son through Bilhad,

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Dan, which sounds like he judged.

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You can hear the emotions and the spirits

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of these two different women.

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Laius names were just cries

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and calling out for help and pain.

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But Rachel's, the names that she names

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her children through her servant,

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are, I'm getting back at you, Leah.

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So listen, the name Dan sounds like

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the word for he judged.

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She feels that God has been the judge between

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them two, and found that Rachel must

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be okay, because he gave her a son too.

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Does that make sense?

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Just imagine that your names were back and

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forth between your family and her whole life, you'd have to remember

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all the squabbles, dysfunction and mess, for sure.

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So this is mighty presumptuous on her part, right?

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That God has judged my situation, and I'm doing okay.

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And we've all been there before.

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But then Bilha has another son, and she names

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the second son, Naphtali,

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and his name means to wrestle.

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Rachel thought that she was in a match with her sister,

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and a fight with her sister, and that she had won.

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So she names her second son, Naftali.

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Now, I enjoy all kinds of different music and

508
00:27:00,666 --> 00:27:03,666
one of them is a genre called

509
00:27:03,666 --> 00:27:04,733
funk, right?

510
00:27:04,933 --> 00:27:08,133
I love that driving baseline and a tempo.

511
00:27:08,533 --> 00:27:10,400
There's a band called Wolfpeck.

512
00:27:11,900 --> 00:27:14,966
They post stuff on YouTube, and they have this 15 minute long

513
00:27:14,966 --> 00:27:18,200
video, and the name of the video is,

514
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,266
it gets funkier, but every time it gets

515
00:27:21,266 --> 00:27:23,000
funkier, it gets funkier.

516
00:27:23,766 --> 00:27:26,766
So every 30 seconds to a minute, that the

517
00:27:26,766 --> 00:27:30,133
song just starts getting faster and funkier,

518
00:27:30,133 --> 00:27:31,799
as it goes on.

519
00:27:32,299 --> 00:27:35,766
It escalates throughout the 15 minutes, right?

520
00:27:36,733 --> 00:27:39,799
And that's what these sisters are doing, with

521
00:27:39,799 --> 00:27:42,966
each batch of children that they're having, the

522
00:27:42,966 --> 00:27:46,733
stuff is escalating, and the fights are escalating.

523
00:27:46,866 --> 00:27:50,766
See, Leia had four sons, and then she stopped bearing.

524
00:27:51,133 --> 00:27:54,666
And now Rachel was having children through her servant.

525
00:27:55,099 --> 00:27:57,066
She does the next logical thing to do.

526
00:27:57,266 --> 00:27:58,633
She wants to take it up a notch.

527
00:27:58,933 --> 00:28:00,299
She wants it to get funkier.

528
00:28:00,866 --> 00:28:03,900
So she gives her servant to Jacob to

529
00:28:03,900 --> 00:28:05,700
have children through, right?

530
00:28:06,366 --> 00:28:09,433
So, Leia had four, and Rachel gives

531
00:28:09,433 --> 00:28:11,000
her servant to Jacob.

532
00:28:11,533 --> 00:28:14,533
And now Leia's like, well, if she's doing it, I'm going

533
00:28:14,533 --> 00:28:15,799
to give my servant to him too.

534
00:28:15,866 --> 00:28:19,099
This is an all out spat between the two sisters

535
00:28:19,099 --> 00:28:21,066
and Jacobs in the middle of it all.

536
00:28:21,500 --> 00:28:25,166
So, so, so Leia gives Zilpah, her servant,

537
00:28:25,166 --> 00:28:28,466
to Jacob, to have sons with, and the

538
00:28:28,466 --> 00:28:31,566
1st son she has is named Gad, which

539
00:28:31,566 --> 00:28:32,900
means fortune.

540
00:28:33,066 --> 00:28:36,133
And then she has another son, and Leia

541
00:28:36,133 --> 00:28:38,700
names him, Asher, or Happy.

542
00:28:39,500 --> 00:28:42,633
And now this is a strange story to our ears.

543
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,766
But it's about to get even stranger.

544
00:28:47,900 --> 00:28:50,900
in what Ralph Davies, a commentator called Mandrake

545
00:28:50,900 --> 00:28:52,000
Madness.

546
00:28:54,299 --> 00:28:57,533
The next part of our passage, verse 14, says, Now,

547
00:28:57,566 --> 00:29:00,933
in the days of wheat harvest, Reuben went and

548
00:29:00,933 --> 00:29:04,566
found mandrakes in the field, and brought them to his mother Leia.

549
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,533
Then Rachel said to Leia, Please give me some of your son's mandrikes,

550
00:29:08,533 --> 00:29:12,599
but she said to her, Is it a small matter for you to take my husband?

551
00:29:13,466 --> 00:29:16,233
And would you take my son's mandrakes also?

552
00:29:16,933 --> 00:29:20,066
So Rachel said, therefore, he may lay with you tonight

553
00:29:20,066 --> 00:29:22,400
in return for your son's mandrix.

554
00:29:22,933 --> 00:29:26,599
When Jacob came in from the field in the evening, then

555
00:29:26,599 --> 00:29:29,599
Leia went out to meet him and said, You must come in to me,

556
00:29:29,599 --> 00:29:33,433
for I have surely hired you with my son's mandrix.

557
00:29:33,433 --> 00:29:35,099
So he lay with her that night.

558
00:29:36,066 --> 00:29:40,033
God gave heed to Leia, and she conceived and bore Jacob a fifth son.

559
00:29:40,933 --> 00:29:44,066
Then Leia said, God has given me my wages, because

560
00:29:44,066 --> 00:29:45,933
I gave my maid to my husband.

561
00:29:46,333 --> 00:29:48,000
So she named him Issachar.

562
00:29:48,866 --> 00:29:52,166
Le conceived again, and bore a sick son to Jacob.

563
00:29:52,633 --> 00:29:55,200
Then Leia said, God has endowed me with a good gift.

564
00:29:55,333 --> 00:29:58,400
Now my husband will dwell with me, because I have

565
00:29:58,400 --> 00:29:59,466
borne him six sons.

566
00:29:59,966 --> 00:30:01,633
So she named him Zebulun.

567
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,433
Afterward, she bore a daughter, and named her Dinah.

568
00:30:06,299 --> 00:30:09,366
So, this is a very telling it like it

569
00:30:09,366 --> 00:30:13,033
is, earthy story that we're going through here.

570
00:30:14,166 --> 00:30:17,766
Leia's oldest, Reuben, find some mandrakes

571
00:30:17,766 --> 00:30:20,700
in the field, while they're at the wheat harvest.

572
00:30:21,733 --> 00:30:24,433
And he brings them to Leia.

573
00:30:24,500 --> 00:30:27,133
So now the kids are involved in the spat as well.

574
00:30:28,166 --> 00:30:32,000
So mandrakes, if you didn't know, are

575
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,066
a plant that flowers are very beautiful blue

576
00:30:35,066 --> 00:30:36,200
flower in the winter.

577
00:30:36,733 --> 00:30:39,799
But towards the end of the summer, they give fruit.

578
00:30:40,866 --> 00:30:44,033
And at the time, they were thought to be a natural

579
00:30:44,066 --> 00:30:45,700
remedy that did two things.

580
00:30:45,966 --> 00:30:49,133
One was an aphrodisiac, and

581
00:30:49,166 --> 00:30:52,500
the second thing was a natural remedy

582
00:30:52,500 --> 00:30:54,766
for infertility.

583
00:30:55,099 --> 00:30:59,133
So Rachel hasn't been able to have her own children yet.

584
00:30:59,700 --> 00:31:02,700
So she really wants these mandrakes to be

585
00:31:02,700 --> 00:31:04,200
able to have her own.

586
00:31:05,466 --> 00:31:08,599
So we may laugh at the idea

587
00:31:08,599 --> 00:31:12,066
of these ancient, you know, these crazy people, all these natural remedies

588
00:31:12,066 --> 00:31:14,466
and myths and stuff that they believe.

589
00:31:14,766 --> 00:31:17,933
Well, let me tell you, we have our own myths about food

590
00:31:17,966 --> 00:31:19,900
and natural remedies ourselves.

591
00:31:20,066 --> 00:31:23,066
I mean, have you ever been accosted by a church lady

592
00:31:23,066 --> 00:31:24,333
that sells essential oils?

593
00:31:24,599 --> 00:31:27,666
If you sell essential oils, I'm sorry, but it's

594
00:31:27,666 --> 00:31:29,000
the same thing in my mind.

595
00:31:29,299 --> 00:31:29,766
Okay?

596
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,333
So, here we are, and we see

597
00:31:33,333 --> 00:31:36,833
the crux of the issue in Leia's

598
00:31:36,866 --> 00:31:40,266
mind, when this battle over Jacob,

599
00:31:40,266 --> 00:31:43,500
is she believes that Rachel has

600
00:31:43,500 --> 00:31:45,000
taken her husband.

601
00:31:45,866 --> 00:31:48,933
He was Leia's first, no matter that it was

602
00:31:48,933 --> 00:31:52,500
done against Jacob's will and by deception.

603
00:31:53,233 --> 00:31:56,533
So Rachel negotiates a trade to lay it.

604
00:31:56,599 --> 00:31:59,833
Look, if you give me those

605
00:31:59,833 --> 00:32:03,133
mandrakes, I'll let you

606
00:32:03,133 --> 00:32:04,400
guys get together tonight.

607
00:32:05,066 --> 00:32:08,200
So she traded a night with her husband for

608
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,700
these mandrix, because she was so desperate,

609
00:32:11,700 --> 00:32:14,700
that even though she said that it was good,

610
00:32:14,700 --> 00:32:17,700
and it was great, it was a gift, that she had

611
00:32:17,700 --> 00:32:20,766
kids through her servant, she really wanted them

612
00:32:20,766 --> 00:32:22,200
herself.

613
00:32:23,700 --> 00:32:27,066
But the problem is, it backfired.

614
00:32:27,666 --> 00:32:31,099
It does go to Jacob that night, but she conceives

615
00:32:31,099 --> 00:32:33,266
and has more sons.

616
00:32:34,033 --> 00:32:37,466
She has two more sons and a daughter in Dinah.

617
00:32:37,866 --> 00:32:41,033
She has Issachar, which means to hire.

618
00:32:41,766 --> 00:32:46,133
She sees that this fifth son is

619
00:32:46,166 --> 00:32:49,400
a wages for her giving her servant

620
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,233
to Jacob to have another son.

621
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,233
Then she has Zebulun, the sixth, which means residence.

622
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,833
And this may be the saddest of all.

623
00:32:59,533 --> 00:33:03,266
She's still longing for her husband to love her.

624
00:33:04,166 --> 00:33:07,500
She thinks now that she's had six sons for him, that

625
00:33:07,500 --> 00:33:08,833
he'll take up residence.

626
00:33:09,299 --> 00:33:12,766
They'll be joined together, that he'll endure and

627
00:33:12,799 --> 00:33:17,066
dwell with her, that he'll finally accept her as his wife.

628
00:33:17,966 --> 00:33:20,233
Now, in Dinah, a daughter.

629
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,799
whose name means to plead, or to fight.

630
00:33:25,866 --> 00:33:29,299
All of this back and forth, all of this drama,

631
00:33:29,299 --> 00:33:32,366
that is taking things into their own hands.

632
00:33:33,666 --> 00:33:37,133
All this stuff that went back and forth between Leia and Rachel,

633
00:33:37,166 --> 00:33:41,133
and mandrix, and crying, and servants, having babies in my place.

634
00:33:42,366 --> 00:33:45,500
But all the time that they were doing all of these things in

635
00:33:45,500 --> 00:33:47,966
their own power, in their own ways.

636
00:33:48,299 --> 00:33:49,666
God was still listening.

637
00:33:50,833 --> 00:33:53,900
Rachel complained about her life for

638
00:33:53,900 --> 00:33:55,533
the lack of having children.

639
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:59,233
And she was desperate when she gave her maid to Jacob

640
00:33:59,233 --> 00:34:00,366
to have children with.

641
00:34:00,733 --> 00:34:04,799
She was desperate when she sold a knight with Jacob for

642
00:34:04,799 --> 00:34:07,433
this natural remedy for infertility.

643
00:34:08,233 --> 00:34:11,400
Leia gave her servant to Jacob to despite Rachel.

644
00:34:12,566 --> 00:34:15,566
Can you imagine the position that she was in, and the pain in

645
00:34:15,566 --> 00:34:18,433
that family that they were in?

646
00:34:18,500 --> 00:34:21,066
She bought a knight with her own husband.

647
00:34:21,599 --> 00:34:25,133
All of these things, these machinations, and plans,

648
00:34:25,166 --> 00:34:28,300
and stuff, if they were doing in the background, to fulfill their

649
00:34:28,300 --> 00:34:32,933
desires by their own wills, their own ways, uh,

650
00:34:32,966 --> 00:34:36,266
were also, at the same time, praying,

651
00:34:36,266 --> 00:34:39,366
and asking God to intervene,

652
00:34:39,366 --> 00:34:41,633
so that Rachel could have children.

653
00:34:41,766 --> 00:34:44,333
And so Leia would be loved by her husband.

654
00:34:45,066 --> 00:34:48,133
It was a mixture of unbelief.

655
00:34:48,500 --> 00:34:51,866
We know Leia was looking to Yahweh because of

656
00:34:51,866 --> 00:34:55,099
the names of her children, and

657
00:34:55,099 --> 00:34:58,166
all of us, as we pray, and

658
00:34:58,166 --> 00:35:01,400
as we live our lives, mix, trust,

659
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,533
and unbelief, mix,

660
00:35:04,533 --> 00:35:08,333
doing things correctly, understanding things correctly,

661
00:35:08,366 --> 00:35:12,266
believing correctly, and a

662
00:35:12,266 --> 00:35:15,400
mixed bags of cultural influences that we

663
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,800
have, and we think that influence our mind, and what we believe

664
00:35:18,966 --> 00:35:22,333
and what we see, and what we understand,

665
00:35:22,333 --> 00:35:25,400
all of us are a mixture of

666
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:26,599
things in the same way.

667
00:35:27,500 --> 00:35:29,133
as Leia and Rachel.

668
00:35:29,300 --> 00:35:31,533
We take things into our own hands.

669
00:35:32,699 --> 00:35:35,833
How many times, have we seen God answer

670
00:35:35,833 --> 00:35:38,166
in spite of this?

671
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,199
in our own lives.

672
00:35:41,300 --> 00:35:44,533
How many times, have we been just an absolute complete

673
00:35:44,533 --> 00:35:47,766
disaster of a person and a sinner,

674
00:35:47,766 --> 00:35:51,000
but God still listens to us and

675
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,433
answers our prayers in ways that we can't even understand

676
00:35:54,433 --> 00:35:55,566
or imagine?

677
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,866
Aren't you glad that our perfection, and that

678
00:35:58,866 --> 00:36:02,099
our perfect obedience is not to require,

679
00:36:02,099 --> 00:36:05,099
to God being able to hear us, to

680
00:36:05,099 --> 00:36:08,099
that we're able to go before the

681
00:36:08,099 --> 00:36:11,400
throne of God based on Christ's perfection, and

682
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,933
Christ's righteousness in our place?

683
00:36:14,599 --> 00:36:16,166
What a blessing that is.

684
00:36:16,933 --> 00:36:20,699
And Rachel really finds out that this is true in

685
00:36:20,699 --> 00:36:22,366
the very last part of our passage.

686
00:36:23,699 --> 00:36:27,066
Rachel finds God's timing, verses 22

687
00:36:27,066 --> 00:36:30,233
through 24, then God remembered Rachel, and

688
00:36:30,266 --> 00:36:33,433
God gave heed to her and opened her womb.

689
00:36:34,166 --> 00:36:37,166
So she conceived and bore a son, and said, God has

690
00:36:37,166 --> 00:36:39,400
taken away my reproach.

691
00:36:40,099 --> 00:36:43,099
She named him Joseph, saying, May the Lord

692
00:36:43,099 --> 00:36:44,599
give me another son.

693
00:36:45,900 --> 00:36:48,166
Behind the scenes of all of this.

694
00:36:48,599 --> 00:36:52,800
There's something much bigger and greater than the drama that was happening.

695
00:36:53,766 --> 00:36:57,500
I read this illustration, as I was studying, that

696
00:36:57,500 --> 00:37:00,500
the actor, Marlon Brando, was filming

697
00:37:00,500 --> 00:37:03,666
his very first film that he acted with in 1950

698
00:37:03,666 --> 00:37:05,400
called The Men.

699
00:37:06,199 --> 00:37:09,433
And in that film, he played a World War II veteran

700
00:37:09,433 --> 00:37:12,966
that had lost a use of his legs in the war and

701
00:37:12,966 --> 00:37:16,033
became a paraplegic, so as he prepared and

702
00:37:16,033 --> 00:37:19,400
studied for the role, he lived several

703
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,466
weeks himself in a wheelchair, and he hung

704
00:37:22,466 --> 00:37:25,599
around other World War II veterans that

705
00:37:25,599 --> 00:37:30,433
became paraplegic, so he could properly act in the role.

706
00:37:30,500 --> 00:37:33,599
So one day, him and a couple of his new friends

707
00:37:33,599 --> 00:37:35,033
in their wheelchairs.

708
00:37:35,766 --> 00:37:38,300
him in his wheelchair, went to a bar.

709
00:37:39,266 --> 00:37:42,266
And there was a lady that worked with

710
00:37:42,266 --> 00:37:45,400
the Salvation Army that came to the bar to get waste paper for

711
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,833
whatever reason, and she saw all

712
00:37:48,866 --> 00:37:52,699
the people in wheelchairs there, and she

713
00:37:52,699 --> 00:37:56,066
raised her hands and prayed, oh, Lord, grant

714
00:37:56,066 --> 00:37:58,233
that these men may be able to walk again.

715
00:37:59,900 --> 00:38:03,266
So when Brando heard her praying this prayer, he

716
00:38:03,266 --> 00:38:06,433
got up and walked around and she

717
00:38:06,433 --> 00:38:09,599
nearly fainted, seeing her prayer actually worked.

718
00:38:10,699 --> 00:38:14,000
She didn't know what was happening behind the scenes, but

719
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,933
she also didn't completely trust that her prayer was real, right?

720
00:38:17,466 --> 00:38:18,533
Because she got surprised.

721
00:38:18,666 --> 00:38:21,666
There's always a bunch happening behind the

722
00:38:21,666 --> 00:38:24,133
scenes that we are not aware of.

723
00:38:24,433 --> 00:38:28,099
And we're always, always a

724
00:38:28,099 --> 00:38:29,599
part of God's bigger plan.

725
00:38:29,900 --> 00:38:33,500
God promised Abraham that his seed would

726
00:38:33,500 --> 00:38:36,500
be multiplied throughout the earth, that they would be greater than

727
00:38:36,500 --> 00:38:39,733
the number of the grains of sand and the sea and

728
00:38:39,733 --> 00:38:41,766
the stars in the heavens.

729
00:38:42,433 --> 00:38:46,199
And then Abraham had Isaac, one son.

730
00:38:46,833 --> 00:38:49,866
Well, maybe that one son would have a bunch of sons.

731
00:38:50,233 --> 00:38:52,333
And it would be the fulfillment to God's promise.

732
00:38:52,466 --> 00:38:52,900
No?

733
00:38:53,533 --> 00:38:55,933
Isaac had Esau and Jacob.

734
00:38:56,833 --> 00:38:59,966
And the lion went through one son, Jacob,

735
00:39:00,500 --> 00:39:01,699
as we have seen.

736
00:39:02,599 --> 00:39:05,166
These aren't big families, especially at the time.

737
00:39:06,433 --> 00:39:10,199
that you would think, in our mind,

738
00:39:10,199 --> 00:39:13,066
that it would take for this promise to be fulfilled.

739
00:39:13,833 --> 00:39:17,066
But now, Jacob has 11

740
00:39:17,066 --> 00:39:19,766
sons and one more to come later.

741
00:39:21,066 --> 00:39:22,699
But was this the way?

742
00:39:22,933 --> 00:39:26,733
If you were God, that you would plan

743
00:39:26,733 --> 00:39:30,000
to have this all go down, or wives,

744
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:33,000
two of them, servants of two sisters, one of the

745
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,166
sisters, unwanted, and unloved.

746
00:39:36,033 --> 00:39:39,433
Not at all, all behind the scenes.

747
00:39:39,966 --> 00:39:43,400
God was working to where he is now.

748
00:39:45,500 --> 00:39:48,733
All the ups and downs, all the backwards

749
00:39:48,733 --> 00:39:51,800
and forwards, and the strife and the fighting, and then the

750
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,033
end of this chapter, after all that, God

751
00:39:55,033 --> 00:39:57,366
remembers Rachel.

752
00:39:58,033 --> 00:40:00,666
One of the best phrases in scripture.

753
00:40:00,866 --> 00:40:04,766
One of the most beautiful phrases is God remembered.

754
00:40:05,833 --> 00:40:09,199
10 sons and a daughter, have been born, and

755
00:40:09,199 --> 00:40:11,133
none of them were hers directly.

756
00:40:12,133 --> 00:40:15,266
But finally, she conceived, and God

757
00:40:15,266 --> 00:40:16,633
gave her a sign.

758
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,533
All of the heartache that she had been through, all

759
00:40:20,533 --> 00:40:23,599
the contrivances, and the planning, and the scheming,

760
00:40:23,599 --> 00:40:26,666
that she suffered over, and

761
00:40:26,666 --> 00:40:30,333
it happened in God's time anyway, right?

762
00:40:31,233 --> 00:40:34,400
There's a lesson in that somewhere for us.

763
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,433
And so here, Joseph has a name that means something, too.

764
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:44,133
Joseph's name means to let him add more.

765
00:40:45,599 --> 00:40:49,199
And Joseph would become a great man and

766
00:40:49,199 --> 00:40:52,633
be a significant part of the Bible story in

767
00:40:52,633 --> 00:40:53,966
himself.

768
00:40:54,066 --> 00:40:57,433
But it looks that through this name that Leia

769
00:40:57,433 --> 00:41:00,433
is learning herself, when she

770
00:41:00,433 --> 00:41:03,800
named Joseph, let him add more, it

771
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,866
is a prayer that said, Hey, God, can I have another one, please?

772
00:41:07,500 --> 00:41:07,933
Right?

773
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,266
Can I have another son?

774
00:41:09,500 --> 00:41:11,900
And she eventually would in Benjamin.

775
00:41:12,500 --> 00:41:16,333
No more contrivances are said to take place after this.

776
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,666
about them conceiving children.

777
00:41:18,966 --> 00:41:22,199
It looks like that Rachel had finally learned

778
00:41:22,199 --> 00:41:25,266
the lesson here, to wait on God and wait

779
00:41:25,266 --> 00:41:26,699
on his timing.

780
00:41:26,966 --> 00:41:28,599
And that is wisdom.

781
00:41:29,066 --> 00:41:30,433
As God remembered her.

782
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:34,366
Remember, that he remembers you as,

783
00:41:34,366 --> 00:41:38,599
well, we've seen everything here.

784
00:41:39,133 --> 00:41:42,133
All the soap opera ups and downs that the fighting

785
00:41:42,133 --> 00:41:45,900
between husbands and wives, the bedroom, rivalry,

786
00:41:45,900 --> 00:41:49,133
the covenant family, and all of its dysfunctional

787
00:41:49,166 --> 00:41:53,666
glory, especially as we started in the beginning of Jacob's life.

788
00:41:53,699 --> 00:41:55,733
There's a whole lot of dysfunction.

789
00:41:56,466 --> 00:41:59,833
But in spite of all the bickering and the striving, the

790
00:41:59,833 --> 00:42:03,066
grief and anguish, attention, Yahweh,

791
00:42:03,066 --> 00:42:07,033
has never once been unfaithful to keep his promises.

792
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:11,099
Through all of it, and in all of the story, and the rest of Jacob's

793
00:42:11,099 --> 00:42:14,166
life, and into his children's life, and into the life of

794
00:42:14,166 --> 00:42:17,300
the children of Israel, and into the church, and into

795
00:42:17,300 --> 00:42:18,433
the future,

796
00:42:18,500 --> 00:42:21,599
God is maintaining his plan, and

797
00:42:21,599 --> 00:42:24,666
his purposes, and our job is

798
00:42:24,666 --> 00:42:28,099
to look at these passages, and the absolute craziness

799
00:42:28,099 --> 00:42:31,233
that's going on, and look through that, and see

800
00:42:31,233 --> 00:42:34,333
that God always keeps his

801
00:42:34,333 --> 00:42:37,633
promises, that God has a plan,

802
00:42:37,633 --> 00:42:41,000
and is working it out, and that this soap

803
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,233
opera of Jacob's lives,

804
00:42:45,199 --> 00:42:48,666
it actually shouts the faithfulness of God to

805
00:42:48,666 --> 00:42:51,966
keep his promise in spite of dysfunction

806
00:42:51,966 --> 00:42:55,566
and mess, and sin, and physical

807
00:42:55,566 --> 00:42:57,733
problems, and any problem.

808
00:42:58,199 --> 00:43:00,900
God will always keep his promises.

809
00:43:01,199 --> 00:43:03,766
We cannot mess it up.

810
00:43:04,766 --> 00:43:08,900
No matter how hard we, or someone else tries, to mess it up.

811
00:43:09,199 --> 00:43:12,199
God will always keep his promises,

812
00:43:12,199 --> 00:43:15,433
God remembers us, and that things work

813
00:43:15,433 --> 00:43:18,800
out in his timing for his glory and for our good.

814
00:43:18,900 --> 00:43:19,433
Let's pray.

815
00:43:20,300 --> 00:43:22,400
Pray Father, we love you and thank you.

816
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,599
Now, we can rest in the fact that you will always keep

817
00:43:26,599 --> 00:43:30,066
your promises, that you've showed us over and over in

818
00:43:30,066 --> 00:43:33,233
just the life of this first couple of families of your people,

819
00:43:33,266 --> 00:43:34,933
that you are faithful

820
00:43:35,166 --> 00:43:38,300
to your word every single day and every single time.

821
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,400
May we rest and keep our hearts in that, Lord,

822
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:42,900
not take that for granted.

823
00:43:42,966 --> 00:43:44,633
Bless us for your glory in Christ's name.

824
00:43:44,699 --> 00:43:45,133
Amen.

825
00:43:45,733 --> 00:43:46,199
Amen.
