Ruth 1:8-22
Ep. 119

Ruth 1:8-22

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A Verse-by-Verse Expository Sermon on Ruth 1:8-22 from December 28.

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if you'll open with me to the book of Ruth,

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where there's no mistakes in the book of Ruth,

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praise God, Romans, Ruth, Romans, Ruth, Ruth

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chapter one, we're going to read the whole

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chapter, but focus on verses eight through 22.

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Continuing from the last time we were here,

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God's words is now it came about in the days

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when the judges governed that there was a

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famine in

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the land. And a certain man of Bethlehem in

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Judah went to sojourn in the land of Moab with

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his

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wife and his two sons. The name of the man was

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Alemelech, and the name of his wife Naomi. And

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the names of his two sons were Mahon and Chile

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an, Ephrathites of Bethlehem and Judah. Now

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they entered

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the land of Moab and remained there. Then Ale

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melech, Naomi's husband, died and she was left

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with her

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two sons. They took for themselves Moabite

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women as wives. The name of the one was Orpah,

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and the

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name of the other Ruth. And they lived there

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about 10 years. Then both Mahon and Chilean

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also died,

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and the woman was bereft of her two children

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and her husband. Then she arose with her

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daughters-in-law,

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that she might return from the land of Moab,

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for she had heard in the land of Moab that the

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Lord

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had visited his people and giving them food.

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So she departed from the place where she was,

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and her two daughters-in-law with her, and

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they went on the way to return to the land of

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Judah.

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And Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, "

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Go, return each of you to her mother's house.

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May the Lord deal kindly with you as you have

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dealt with the dead and with me.

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May the Lord grant that you may find rest each

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in the house of her husband." Then she kissed

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them,

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and they lifted up their voices and wept. And

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they said to her, "No, but we will surely

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return

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with you to your people." But Naomi said, "Ret

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urn, my daughters. Why should you go with me?

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Have I yet sons in my womb that they may be

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your husbands? Return, my daughters. Go, for I

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am too

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old to have a husband. If I said I have hope,

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if I should even have a husband tonight, and

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also bear

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sons, would you therefore wait until they are

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grown? Would you therefore refrain from

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marrying?

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Know, my daughters, for it is harder for me

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than for you. For the hand of the Lord has

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gone forth

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against me." And they lifted up their voices

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and wept again. And Orpah kissed her mother-in

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-law,

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but Ruth clung to her. Then she said, "Behold,

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your sister-in-law has gone back to her people

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and her gods. Return after your sister-in-law

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." But Ruth said, "Do not urge me to leave you

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or turn back from following you for where you

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go, I will go. And where you lodge, I will

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lodge.

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Your people shall be my people and your God my

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God. Where you die, I will die. And there I

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will

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be buried. Thus may the Lord do to me and

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worse, if anything but death parts you and me

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."

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When she saw that she was determined to go

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with her, she said no more to her. So they

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both went

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until they came to Bethlehem. And when they

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had come to Bethlehem, all the city was

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stirred because

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of them. And the women said, "Is this Naomi?"

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She said to them, "Do not call me Naomi, call

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me Mara,

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for the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with

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me. I went out full, but the Lord has brought

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me back

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empty. Why do you call me Naomi? Since the

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Lord has witnessed against me, and the

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Almighty has

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afflicted me." So Naomi returned and with her

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Ruth, the Moabitus, her daughter-in-law, who

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returned

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from the land of Moab, and they came to Beth

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lehem at the beginning of barley harvest. Let's

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pray.

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Our Lord, we pray that you bless your word to

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our minds and to our hearts today. Maybe we

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change

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and bring you glory for it. Bless the message

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in spite of the messenger in Christ's name.

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Amen."

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And there's so often a false picture of what

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Christians are supposed to be.

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We're supposed to be smiley, happy people

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holding hands. That's the image that is out

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there. And I

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think there's even a show about smiley, happy

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people out there that show the realities of

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some

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people who claim to be Christians out there.

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But of course, that picture is sometimes pro

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pped up by

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false teachers in our time that portray the

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gospel of Christ as a gospel that brings

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prosperity and health and wealth and good

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things. So if you're a Christian, then you'll

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always be

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healthy and you'll always be wealthy if you

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are right with God. The so-called health and

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wealth

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gospel started from a movement that's called

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the Word of Faith movement. And it's spreading

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around the globe. Maybe you've seen the

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straight up demonic behavior of the so-called

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pastor,

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Kenneth Copeland, or the, have you laughed at

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the antics of a man called Jesse DePlanus

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that claim that if you have the right amount

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of faith, if you do the right things, if you

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are

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right with God, then you can claim wealth and

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you can claim healing over sickness and

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healing over

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pain. But that's not just something that these

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greedy shysters of pastors are out there ped

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dling

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this false gospel of wealth and prosperity.

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This belief has actually made it sometimes in

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lesser forms, not as blatant forms, but into

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everyday churches. There's a part of the

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Southern

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Baptist Convention called Lifeway, and they

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have this research, it's called Lifeway

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Research,

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and they do polls getting opinions from

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different people out there. And in 2023,

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they did a poll of Protestant churches or

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Christians, professing Christians in America.

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And more than half of these Protestant church

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goers say that their church teaches that God

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will

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bless them if they give more money to the

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church and to charities. Three out of four at

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75% of

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the people that they polled said that they

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believe God wants them, but it is his plan for

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them,

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for them to prosper financially. And many

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believe that they have to do something,

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they have to live a certain way, they have to

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do certain things in order to receive those

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material

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blessings that they think God has promised

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them. But is that the right idea that we

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should have

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as Christians? Is that what God's word, what

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the Scripture teaches us, that we should

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follow and

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believe? Last month, we saw that many in Naomi

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's time believe that the same exact thing, only

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they

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didn't claim to worship Yahweh, that the God

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of Israel, the God of the Bible, they worship

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ed a

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false idol that is called Baal, and in many

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different variations of those idols depending

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on the land. And the desired outcome for them

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was different. We want health and we want

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prosperity

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because we generally have things so easy. They

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were concerned with rain, Baal brought the

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rain,

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and that rain brought fertility for their

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crops and for their animals and for their

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wives. And we

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just want cash and cars and private jets if

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you're the right pastor. But the fundamental

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belief

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that if you do something, that God will bless

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you or that a God will bless you with whatever

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is the same between them back there in ancient

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times and those people who claim that today.

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If we want to be materially blessed, we have

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to do something. We have to believe a certain

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thing.

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We have to appease God to get it. But how does

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this square up with your life,

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with your experience? And can you imagine the

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pain? If you actually believe this word of

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faith,

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that you name it and claim it and you live a

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certain way, what happens when you name it and

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claim it and you live that way and you still

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don't get the health and you still don't get

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the wealth

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and prosperity. It's very damaging to the

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people who believe that. But not only does it

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not square

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up with our experience, it doesn't square up

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with scripture. Suffering is the reality of

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suffering

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is talked about constantly in scripture and in

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all kinds of suffering, whether it's health

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or whether it's pain from persecution. And it

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's one of the clearest things that scripture

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talks

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about over and over and over again. We have

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the book of Job. We have Joseph. We have Ruth

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here,

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David, Jeremiah, Peter, John and Paul and many

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more lives that are retold in accounts in

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scripture

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that we have accounts of their lives that are

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full of suffering and pain. And those examples

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replete through scripture go directly against

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this false gospel, this false teaching of the

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prosperity gospel that we have today. But the

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bitter providence of God, as we described last

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time,

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is not capricious. It's not whimsical. He's

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just not up there laughing at us and saying,

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well, I wonder what's going to happen if I

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throw this stumbling block in front of him. He

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's up

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there doing it on purpose and for a reason.

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Like Brother Kyle, if you remember, talked

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about us

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through Paul's letter to the Thessalonians,

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everything he does, the suffering included,

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is on purpose. He uses the trials and the

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sufferings in our lives to mold us and to make

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us more into

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the image of Christ. And ultimately, even

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though it eventually improves our lives here,

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ultimately,

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he uses the suffering in our lives for his

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glory. And that's one of the main lessons that

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we're

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supposed to get out of this book of Ruth. As

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we continue to go through the story of Naomi

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and Ruth

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will see that. And remember from last time, we

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saw that they began full, that Naomi had a

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husband,

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that Naomi was blessed with two sons. And they

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obviously had some kind of means in their life

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,

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because when God's judgment came on the land

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of Israel through famine, they were able to

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move

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into the land of Moab that just anybody wouldn

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't be able to afford the travel. And then her

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sons

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were blessed with wives. And we talked about

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Orpah and Ruth, and everything seemed to be

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going well

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until her husband died. She was left a widow.

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And then after that, both of her sons died,

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verse five says then both Milan and Killian

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also died. And the woman was bereft of her two

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children

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and her husband. She went from fullness to

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emptiness. The Bible uses the word bereft,

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which means left behind, left with nothing.

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Poor Naomi had nothing left, but to make her

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way back

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to Bethlehem as we saw today. And if you

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remember on that path, she started to try to

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convince her

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two daughters-in-law that they should go back

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into their own homes and they should look for

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husbands to remarry to take care of, because

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she had no expectations of anything where she

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was going.

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There was no way for her to prosper as a widow

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in her own land. The bitterness of suffering

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had fallen on to Naomi, on to Orpah, and on to

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Ruth. But we will see the hand of God as we go

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through the rest of the book of Ruth, shown to

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them in response to Ruth's faith and her

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loyalty

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out of nothing but the hand of the Holy Spirit

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. It's such an amazing story how this works.

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But

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we're still in the empty part. We're still in

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the suffering part of the book of Ruth in this

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first

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chapter. And I want to show that every single

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one of us must have faith even through the

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bitterness

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and the bitter providences of God. And that

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the first way is by not turning back like Orp

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ah

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did, verses 8 through 14. We'll read it again.

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And Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law,

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"Go, return each of you to her mother's house.

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May the Lord deal kindly with you as you have

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dealt

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with the dead and with me. May the Lord grant

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that you may find rest each in the house of

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her

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husband." Then she kissed them and they lifted

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up their voices and wept. And they said to her

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,

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"No, but we will surely return with you to

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your people. But Naomi said, 'Return my

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daughters.

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Why should you go with me? Have I yet sons in

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my womb that they may be your husbands? Return

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my

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daughters. Go, for I am too old to have a

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husband. If I said I have hope, if I should

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even have a

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husband tonight and also bear sons, would you

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therefore wait until they are grown? Would you

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therefore refrain from marrying? No, my

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daughters, for it is harder for me than for

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you. For the hand

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of the Lord has gone forth against me." And

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they lifted up their voices and wept again.

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And Orpah

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kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to

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her. One of the key things, and one of the

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main reasons

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why so much suffering is laid out, is spelled

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out in Scripture, is that we have the benefit

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of seeing the rest of the story. We get to see

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, spoiler alert, that in the end of the book of

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Ruth,

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Naomi goes from emptiness that we see here in

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chapter one, back to fullness again, through

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the

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hand and providence and blessing of God. And

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we see in the book of Job, that Job loses

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everything

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that he has. He loses his health. He loses his

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family. But in the end of Job, everything is

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restored. In fact, everything was restored

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double portion of what he had when he started.

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And in the New Testament, we see Stephen.

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Stephen is talking to the leaders of the Jews,

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and they're telling him to stop preaching the

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gospel. And he boldly proclaims the gospel to

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them.

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And their response is to take him out into the

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streets and to stone him, to persecute him,

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make him cause him suffering, even unto death.

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But in his dying moments, the Lord opens his

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eyes,

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and he's able to see the end that he will be

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going into glory. He sees Christ seated on the

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throne

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in heaven. So he gets to see through his

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suffering that the final hope. So we learn

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through all these

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accounts so that when we go through those

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sufferings, those pains, those trials, we as

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believers know,

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like Stephen, suffering was not the end for

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him. And that gives us the true hope to see

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through this

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this temporary light affliction that Paul said

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, toward the weight of glory that is coming

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afterwards,

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thanks to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

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But the three ladies and the story that we

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have of them,

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they didn't see that right now. They didn't

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know the end of the story yet. They were

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living through

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it in HD 3D, that they were going through the

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pain in real time. And so Naomi, in the midst

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of her

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bitterness, she tries to convince Orpa and

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Ruth to return back home. They had no hope in

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her mind

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and her experience and her understanding.

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There was no hope for them where they were

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going. They

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were on the path back to Bethlehem. And every

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once in a while, on their travel back, they

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would just

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stop and she would try to convince them to go

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back. And they would all just sit there and

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sob and weep

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on the side of the road. We try to convince

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them to go and try to find a husband back in

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their own

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country so that she, that they wouldn't end up

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being destitute like she surely would be as a

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widow

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back in Bethlehem. But on the path back, both

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of them, Orpa and Ruth, so they wouldn't

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return

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back to their country. Verse 10, it says, "And

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they said to her, 'No, but we will surely

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return with you

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to your people.'" So both Orpa and Ruth told

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Naomi, they made it clear that they were going

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to stay

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with her in her trouble and her trials. But

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then Naomi turns the heat up again and really

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starts

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to try to convince them. She was an old widow.

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She reminds them she has no hope to get a

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husband.

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And even if she were to have a husband, she

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didn't have much hope of having children.

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And in order for she were to have a husband

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and to have children immediately,

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they would have to wait for them to grow up to

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be their husbands. And so in her mind,

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there was no hope for them either if they

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followed her back. So she ends her argument in

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verse 13

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by saying, "No, my daughters, for it is harder

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for me than for you, for the hand of the Lord

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has gone forth against me." The NASB is the

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version that we're using. And it uses the word

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here,

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"It is harder for me than for you." But it's

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important for us to note here and to remember

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for later that the word is better translated

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as bitter. It's more bitter for me than for

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you.

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The ESV says that it's exceedingly bitter for

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me. Naomi is letting it all out. She's

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explaining to

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them their whole situation. She is mourning

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her own loss and the bitter providence of God.

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She's given an uncensored account of her

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feelings to her daughters-in-law trying to

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convince them

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to go back to their land. She's really

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expressing pain in her own words. She doesn't

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hide her feelings.

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She doesn't have a pretense of trying to look

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more spiritual than she actually is. She is

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angry

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and she is hurting and she is mourning and

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grieving what she has lost. There is a time

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to soldier on through pain, but there's also a

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time to weep for your loss. And in our culture

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,

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we have almost forgotten that. Naomi didn't

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show any pretense. She was being open and bare

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and

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mourning to her daughters-in-laws. But how

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many times do we go to funerals and experience

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loss

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in our culture? Our culture does. And they try

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to erase the pain, the grief by calling it

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just

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a memorial service or a celebration of life.

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And it's good to remember our loved ones that

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have

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passed. It's good to celebrate the life they

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had, but it's also right to really grieve and

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mourn

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like Naomi was here. And we're missing that

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because we don't want to remember and realize

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that death

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is real and will be for all of us. As

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believers, if you're a Christian, Paul

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commands us in Romans

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12-15 to rejoice with those who rejoice, to we

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ep with those who weep. If you remember from E

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cclesiastes,

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the preacher tells us in chapter 3 verse 4,

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there's a time to weep and a time to laugh,

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a time to mourn and a time to dance. But there

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's a Christian way to express these feelings

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and not

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to sin while we weep and grieve. Paul told the

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Thessalonians that we express grief in a

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different

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way than the world and the unbeliever does.

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Chapter 4 verse 13 of 1 Thessalonians, "But we

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do not want

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you to be uninformed brethren about those who

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are asleep, those who have died, so that you

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will

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not grieve as do the rest who have no hope."

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He's not saying you won't so you won't grieve,

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period.

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He's saying that you don't grieve in the same

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way as those who have no hope. We grieve

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differently

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because we have hope. We don't lie to

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ourselves and to each other that this world of

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sin and this

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world of suffering, this world of pain is all

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that there is because we know that there is

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something

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past this world and that is what gives us hope

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. And so we have Orpa and we have Ruth and Orpa

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looked at the suffering and she looked at what

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Naomi said that there's no hope for her in the

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land of

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Bethlehem and she didn't have hope either. She

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turned back. She started on the path to Beth

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lehem

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but then she decided to go back to her land of

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Moab to find a husband and to worship her old

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God.

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If she was going to survive she would have to

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make her own way. Look at verse 14, "And they

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lifted up

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their voices and wept again and Orpa kissed

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her mother-in-law but Ruth clung to her and

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then she

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said, 'Behold, this is Naomi, your sister-in-

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law has gone back to her people and her gods

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return

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after your sister-in-law.' They cried some

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more. Orpa kissed her mother-in-law on the

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cheek and

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then she left and that is the last we heard of

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Orpa. Maybe she did end up going home and

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marrying

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again and marrying someone who's wealthy, her

21:13

prince charming. Maybe she had a bunch of kids

21:16

and

21:16

lived happily ever after until old age. We don

21:20

't know but we know that she went back to Moab

21:24

and she went back to Kimash, her old false

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gods instead of Yahweh and the false God Kim

21:31

ash could

21:32

never offer her true hope and through the end

21:35

of this life and into the next. We all have

21:39

suffering

21:40

that we have to endure. We have to pass

21:42

through in in this life that God has given us

21:46

and some

21:46

suffering is so hard that it brings us to what

21:49

we call a crisis of faith. Jesus told the par

21:54

able of

21:54

the sower in Mark chapter 4. He talked about

21:57

the different types of seed as the gospel is

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planted

22:00

and one of those seeds was sown on rocky

22:03

ground and it wasn't able to grow deep roots

22:07

and when

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the sun came up Christ said that it scorched

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the plants and the plants withered away. His

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apostles,

22:14

his disciples asked him to explain what he

22:16

meant by this story in Mark 4.16. He describes

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this

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this seed that was planted on shallow rocky

22:22

ground. He says in a similar way, these are

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the ones on

22:26

whom seed was sown on the rocky places who

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when they hear the word immediately receive it

22:31

with joy

22:32

but they and they have no firm root in

22:35

themselves but are only temporary then when

22:38

affliction or

22:39

persecution arises because the word

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immediately they fall away. This is what

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happened to Orpo.

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As soon as this true suffering happened to her

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she fell away. She had the faith that was

22:55

shallow

22:56

like this rocky soil. It was only skin deep.

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She married a Hebrew and so she followed the

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Hebrew

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God because that's what her husband did but

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when he was taken away her faith left as well

23:09

and she

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turned back to her old country. We brothers

23:13

and sisters need to have faith that's deeper

23:17

than

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Orpus. If we're going to have faith and go

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through this suffering and bring glory to God

23:23

through his bitter providences we need to not

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turn back like Orpo. When the suffering comes

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make sure your faith is deep enough to stand

23:33

through the scorching sun of pain and grief.

23:36

We get the the truth and the reality of what

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God has showed us what Christ has done for us

23:43

down

23:43

deep into our marrow so that when we are cut

23:46

when we we're injured by the suffering of this

23:49

life

23:49

that the gospel fills our veins again with

23:52

hope and faith through the suffering. We we

23:56

have faith

23:56

but not turning back like Orpo but also by

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remaining faithful like Ruth verse 14 through

24:04

18

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and they lifted up their voices and wept again

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and Orpo kissed her mother-in-law but Ruth cl

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ung

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to her then she said behold your sister-in-law

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has gone back to her people and her gods

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return

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after your sister-in-law but Ruth said do not

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urge me to leave you or turn back from

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following you

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for where you go I will go and where you lodge

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I will lodge your people shall be my people

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and your God my God where you die I will die

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and there I will be buried thus may the Lord

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do to me

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and worse if anything but death parts you and

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me and when she saw that she was determined to

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go

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with her she said no more to her Ruth did the

24:47

exact opposite of her sister-in-law Orpo she

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also lost her husband she also lost everything

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that she had but she committed to go with

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Naomi

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to the strange land that she didn't know these

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are two widows and at this time that was one

25:04

of the

25:04

hardest lives to live was a life of a widow

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with with no husband or family to protect you

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to no

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governmental programs to get you through the

25:15

time of hardship they would have to rely on

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what

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they could scrounge up for their sustenance

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from the goodness of others as we will see in

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in the

25:25

future but there was something different about

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Ruth's response that she would remain faithful

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to Naomi no matter what out of out of love but

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there is also an air of hope that the way that

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she

25:38

makes her confession is interesting and and it

25:42

has an air of hope in it the author says that

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Ruth

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clung to Naomi and this is not an

25:49

insignificant word this word is used several

25:52

times in the Old

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Testament and in Genesis the husbands and

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wives are to leave their parents homes and

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cling to one

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another that's the same word the Hebrews were

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commanded to cling to Yahweh in Deuteronomy 10

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20 you shall fear the Lord your God you shall

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serve him and cling to him you shall swear by

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his name this is the language of covenant and

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and Ruth is using this language that the Moab

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itus

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that the one who worshipped a Ba'al named Kam

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ash is displaying something that is supposed to

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be

26:29

characteristic of the people of Yahweh that

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that she she uh Naomi tries to compel Ruth to

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to leave

26:37

to to leave her and go back with Orpah but

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Ruth would have nothing of it she clung to

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Naomi and

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then she makes this famous promise to Naomi

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and it's the the language of it is very

26:53

interesting

26:54

verse 16 but Ruth said do not urge me to leave

26:57

you or turn back from following you for where

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you

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go I will go and where you lodge I will lodge

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your people shall be my people and your God my

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God where you die I will die and there I will

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be buried thus may the Lord do to me and worse

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if

27:15

anything but death parts you and me this is

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the language again of covenant if you remember

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we

27:22

looked at the Abrahamic covenant and what what

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God did when he made that covenant with

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Abraham he

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had Abraham take these animals and and put

27:30

them in a row and cut them in half and make a

27:33

path between

27:33

them and then the the the firepot and then the

27:36

torch went between those animals remember and

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that signified God making a covenant with

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Abraham and if if the picture that is there in

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this covenant

27:49

ceremony is that if if God were to go back on

27:52

his word if he was to to break his promise to

27:55

break

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his covenant with Abraham and his descendants

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may God be sliced in half like those animals

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and Ruth says that here where I where you die

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I will die and there I will be buried thus may

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the Lord do to me and worse if anything but

28:12

death parts you and me Ruth said no matter

28:15

what happens

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I'm sticking with you I'm making this covenant

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and and may God kill me if I break my promise

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to

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you this is a beautiful picture and then she

28:26

says where you'll be where you're buried I'll

28:28

be buried

28:29

not even death is going to separate us there's

28:32

a beautiful picture of of real faith that Ruth

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had

28:36

as she expressed in her clinging and sticking

28:40

with Naomi even to the end Ruth isn't in it

28:44

for

28:44

prosperity or for health she was going into

28:47

the unknown in Bethlehem she was going into

28:50

what seemed

28:51

was a situation with no hope but she promised

28:54

and out of of pure love and in care for her

28:57

mother-in-law she promised never to leave her

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she completely turned away from her old life

29:05

and went on to a new life in Bethlehem Naomi

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trusted God even in this bitter suffering and

29:13

and in her

29:14

life and in the past she had pointed Ruth to

29:18

her God to Jehovah to Yahweh and one of the

29:22

things

29:22

that God uses in these suffering times to

29:25

bring glorify glory to himself is that our

29:29

response

29:30

to the suffering and our faith and hope in the

29:34

suffering points back to him points back to

29:36

his

29:37

goodness and how he gets us through these

29:40

suffering times if you remember Moses led the

29:43

people of

29:45

God out of slavery out of Egypt and when they

29:49

had gone out of Egypt and through some of the

29:52

wilderness they they meet up again with Moses'

29:55

father-in-law Jethro in Exodus 18 8 Moses told

30:00

his father-in-law all that the Lord had done

30:02

to Pharaoh and to the Egyptians for Israel's

30:04

sake

30:05

all the hardship that had befallen them on the

30:08

journey and how the Lord had delivered them

30:11

and this led Jethro to say in a couple verses

30:13

later in verse 11 now I know that the Lord is

30:16

greater than all the gods indeed it was proven

30:19

when they dealt proudly against the people J

30:22

ethro

30:23

worshipped Yahweh because of Moses' testimony

30:26

of the hardship they had in the desert and the

30:29

wilderness that God led his people through

30:33

Paul the apostle was imprisoned in Rome and he

30:37

wrote the

30:37

book of the letter to the Philippians and he

30:40

said this in chapter 1 verses 12 to 14 now I

30:43

want you

30:44

to know brethren that my circumstances have

30:47

turned out for the greater progress of the

30:49

gospel now he

30:50

was imprisoned in Rome and but he says his

30:53

circumstances are turning out for the greater

30:56

progress of the gospel so that my imprisonment

30:59

in the cause of Christ has become well known

31:02

throughout the whole Praetorian Guard and to

31:05

everyone else and that most of the brethren

31:07

trusting in the Lord because of my imprison

31:09

ment have far more courage to speak the word of

31:11

God

31:12

without fear how will God use the suffering in

31:17

our lives how will God use our response to

31:21

that suffering we don't know exactly how God's

31:25

going to use those things in every

31:27

circumstance

31:27

and sometimes we won't even know until we get

31:31

to that final hope and glory but we we trust

31:35

that he

31:36

will and he does in every single circumstance

31:39

remember he is not capricious he is not wh

31:43

imsical

31:43

and and just experimenting with our lives he's

31:47

doing everything on purpose and for his glory

31:51

and so we look at Ruth's testimony through

31:54

this again at this time she didn't know the

31:56

end of the

31:56

story and how God was going to work it out we

31:59

get to see the rest of the story but when we

32:01

look at

32:01

her faith and the way that she responded to

32:04

the suffering in her life and that her love

32:07

for Naomi

32:08

we can get an example of how we can continue

32:11

to have faith even in the bitter providences

32:13

that God places in our lives but then we get

32:17

the last part of the passage today and we go

32:20

back to

32:21

Naomi we can continue to have faith by not

32:24

listening to the unfaithful around us verses

32:27

19

32:28

through 22 so they both went until they came

32:31

to Bethlehem they made it and when they had

32:33

come to

32:33

Bethlehem all the city was stirred because of

32:37

them and the women said is this Naomi she said

32:40

to them

32:40

do not call me Naomi call me Mara for the

32:43

Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me I

32:47

went out full

32:48

but the Lord has brought me back empty why do

32:50

you call me Naomi since the Lord has witnessed

32:53

against

32:53

me and the Almighty has afflicted me so Naomi

32:57

returned and with her Ruth the Moabitis her

33:00

daughter-in-law returned from the land of Moab

33:03

and they came to Bethlehem at the beginning

33:05

of barley harvest Ruth was determined as we

33:09

have seen to stay with Naomi until the very

33:13

end she

33:14

promised her that fact so they make it back to

33:17

Naomi's home in Bethlehem and their return

33:22

caused

33:23

quite a stir among the locals all the the

33:25

women gathered around all the gossip said man

33:29

Naomi's

33:30

back did you hear she has nothing anymore she

33:33

lost her husband she lost her sons and and now

33:37

she's back this can't be Naomi and for

33:39

whatever reason when I read this when I was

33:42

studying this

33:43

I just picture this this Disney cartoon scene

33:46

where all the town people are singing a song

33:49

is I don't

33:49

know why that that was free that was extra can

33:52

you imagine what they were saying maybe you've

33:56

been that gossip I can't believe this happened

33:59

to Roger Dale or whatever you know people are

34:03

talking about you what did they do what what

34:06

did Naomi do to deserve this judgment on her

34:10

life

34:10

maybe she worshiped Kamash in Moab you're not

34:13

supposed to go then live in Moab are you I

34:17

knew

34:17

that when they were left this was going to

34:20

happen to to them I said that at the time that

34:21

God was

34:22

going to punish them it's like that time when

34:25

the disciples asked Christ about the man that

34:28

was born

34:29

blind and said well did he sin or did his

34:32

parents sin Naomi responded to them she said

34:36

in verse 20

34:37

she said that to them do not call me Naomi

34:41

call me Mara for the Almighty has dealt very

34:44

bitterly

34:44

with me I went out full but the Lord has

34:47

brought me back empty why do you call me Naomi

34:50

since the

34:50

Lord has witnessed against me and the Almighty

34:53

has afflicted me you see the name Naomi means

34:56

pleasant it means sweet and happy and

35:00

certainly what had happened to her in her life

35:04

by by losing

35:04

her husband and losing her sons and and coming

35:08

back in in poverty wasn't pleasant for her and

35:11

so

35:11

she said don't call me that anymore call me

35:15

Mara Mara means bitter she was not swayed by

35:18

the gossip

35:19

even though she was hurting in her suffering

35:22

but she realized that this has come from Yah

35:26

weh

35:26

Shaddai God Almighty that's what she says God

35:29

has brought me to this the Almighty has has

35:32

brought

35:32

this to me and she bends the knee even in this

35:36

time realizing that the sovereign Almighty God

35:40

the the L Shaddai is the one that is is

35:43

bringing this in her life Shaddai is is one of

35:47

the names

35:48

that God revealed to his people through the

35:50

Old Testament maybe you've heard L Shaddai

35:53

before but

35:55

when he was dealing with Abraham when he's

35:57

dealing with Isaac and Jacob the the early

35:59

fathers of the

36:00

the Hebrew people the the Jewish nation he

36:03

told he used that name with with Abraham when

36:06

he was

36:07

promising him a child in his old age he used

36:10

it with Jacob when Jacob sent his children

36:14

away to

36:14

Egypt to get grain because there was a famine

36:17

in the land and then he used it with Joseph

36:20

when Jacob prophesied that that Joseph would

36:24

be fruitful and the code of many colors and he

36:27

would

36:27

rule over the other sheaves and and if you

36:30

remember the story of Joseph Joseph really had

36:33

the trust

36:34

in this promise everything about the light his

36:36

life that happened up until the point of God's

36:39

blessing was not pleasant was not fruitful he

36:42

went to prison for something he didn't do he

36:45

stayed

36:46

in prison when he was forgotten there but but

36:49

in the end of it God blessed Joseph in a great

36:52

way

36:53

so when God uses this term Shaddai which means

36:56

something like a mountain something immovable

36:59

he's expressing something about who he is he's

37:02

expressing that that that God is at his best

37:06

when we are at our worst and this is the name

37:10

that Naomi specifically uses when she's

37:14

describing

37:15

the the bitter circumstance that that God's

37:18

unfolding plan in her life had happened maybe

37:22

it seems like Naomi is just being bitter when

37:25

she says call me Mara which means bitter and

37:29

she's agreeing with the Gossips around her but

37:32

I don't think she is I think she's recognizing

37:35

that that down here in human responsibility

37:39

land from her human perspective that what the

37:41

preacher said in Ecclesiastes remember in in

37:44

chapter 1 verse 14 he says I've seen all the

37:47

works

37:48

which have been done under the sun and behold

37:51

all is vanity and striving after a wind and

37:55

that she

37:55

would have to wait for the El Shaddai for Yah

37:58

weh Shaddai to to see and learn what the

38:01

preacher

38:02

himself learned in Ecclesiastes 11 five just

38:05

as you do not know the path of the wind and

38:08

how

38:08

bones are formed in the womb of a pregnant

38:10

woman so you do not know the activity of God

38:13

who makes

38:14

all things you know Rachel makes all kinds of

38:17

Rachel my wife not the Rachel of the Bible she

38:20

makes all kinds of crafts and all kinds of

38:22

things with her hands and it mazes me because

38:25

I can't

38:26

do any of that everything that I touch is ugly

38:28

sometimes the things that she does don't turn

38:31

out too well but usually it's something that's

38:34

amazing and beautiful but every single thing

38:39

that Yahweh Shaddai touches everything he

38:43

creates everything he makes in the end turns

38:46

out beautiful

38:48

and glorious but sometimes they're like the

38:51

the tapestries Rachel hasn't made a tapestry

38:54

yet

38:54

but if you look at the bottom of the tapestry

38:57

all you see is this this tangle of seemingly

39:01

unrelated

39:02

colors and loose ends and knots in it you can

39:05

't tell what it's going to be but if you turn

39:08

the

39:08

tapestry around and look at the top from from

39:12

the top you see the beautiful colors and the

39:14

beautiful

39:15

image that is created by all those loose ends

39:17

that don't look like they mean anything on the

39:20

bottom

39:21

but when you look at at the top everything

39:23

comes together and it makes sense and that

39:26

Naomi's life

39:27

here and that the rest of the book especially

39:29

when we get to the last chapter you'll see

39:32

that now

39:32

we've got the loose ends and tangles in our

39:35

life don't call me Naomi call me Mara because

39:37

I've been

39:38

dealt a bitter hand from the providence of God

39:41

but when we get to the end we'll see the glory

39:43

of

39:44

his plan that affects even us to this day

39:48

remember Peter when Christ was taken from the

39:52

Garden of

39:53

Gethsemane he didn't understand what was

39:55

happening before that he told Christ and look

39:58

if we go back

39:58

to Jerusalem you're just going to throw your

40:01

life away what is this all for but after the

40:04

resurrection

40:04

Peter saw what the reality was and all the

40:08

loose ends and and knots that he couldn't

40:10

understand

40:11

before the resurrection made complete and

40:14

perfect sense after the end Ruth said the same

40:18

thing

40:18

it didn't make sense to her verse 21 I went

40:21

out full but the Lord has brought me back

40:23

empty why do

40:24

you call me Naomi since the Lord has witnessed

40:26

against me and the Almighty the should I has

40:29

afflicted me and what we'll see as we go

40:32

through the rest of the book is how the should

40:34

I turns it

40:36

around and what we can't make happen he makes

40:38

happen the praise God that she didn't listen

40:42

to

40:42

all those naysayers around her that that

40:44

couldn't believe that this was how she ended

40:47

they didn't

40:47

know the end of the story yet and she had hope

40:50

as we'll see through even her suffering our

40:55

flock

40:55

as brother Kyle called us much of God's word

40:59

has been given to us not just to help us

41:03

through our

41:04

suffering but to point us through our

41:07

suffering to our gracious Yahweh should I our

41:10

God Almighty

41:11

everything that God does is for a reason and

41:14

even though it may look like a mess right now

41:17

it is on

41:18

purpose he is truly working through every

41:22

situation that we have as his children

41:25

for his glory and this is a call for each of

41:29

us as his flock as as brothers and sisters

41:32

in his church to to have faith and to rest in

41:36

that faith and Yahweh even through times of

41:40

pain

41:40

to to be like Ruth and cling to him instead of

41:45

being like Orpah and turning away and I can't

41:49

express enough how the rest of the book if I

41:52

can can bring it out of there we'll show that

41:56

and it

41:56

really is good but if you you don't know

42:00

Christ this hope is not yours this suffering

42:04

and the

42:04

sin of this life is the best you will

42:07

experience as Philip said before church so

42:11

turn from the old

42:13

life and the old gods like Ruth and turn to

42:16

the new country and the true God by placing

42:19

your faith

42:19

in the God who saved the God who provides and

42:23

the God who is the rock our L should I let's

42:27

pray

42:27

Holy Father we praise you and love you for

42:30

your goodness and we praise you for your

42:32

sovereignty

42:33

and I pray that we will learn that even in the

42:35

the bitter sovereignty the bitter bitter prov

42:37

idence

42:37

to to bring you praises thank you for the book

42:40

of Ruth thank you for this morning and for

42:42

your glory

42:42

in Christ's name amen