Genesis 25:19-34
Ep. 144

Genesis 25:19-34

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A Verse-by-Verse Expository Sermon on Genesis 25:19-34 from June 21.

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Chapter number 25.

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Genesis 25.

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Verse 19 through 34.

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I

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title, I don't normally put titles to my sermon.

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So y'all let me know what you think.

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Rachel, let me know what she thought, and we may not be getting anymore.

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We're going to be talking about Jacob.

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God's rogue his rascal.

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And his birth.

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All right, Genesis chapter 25

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versus 19 through 34,

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God's word says, now these are the records of the

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generations of Isaac.

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Abraham's son.

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Abraham became the father of Isaac.

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And Isaac was 40 years old when he took Rebekah, the

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daughter of Bethuel, the Aramaean, of Padam,

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the sister of Oban, the Aramaean, to be his wife.

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Isaac prayed to the Lord on behalf of

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his wife because she was barren.

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And the Lord answered him, and Rebecca, his wife, conceived.

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But the children struggled together with her, and she

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said, if it is so, why the not am I this way?

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So she went to inquire the Lord.

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The Lord said to her, 2 nations are in your womb, and

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2 peoples will be separated from your body, and one people

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shall be stronger than the other, and the older shall

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serve the younger.

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When her days to be delivered were fulfilled,

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behold, there were twins in her womb.

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Now the 1st came out, came forth red, all

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over like a hairy garment, and they named him Esau.

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Afterward, his brother came forth with his hand holding on

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to Esau's heel.

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So his name was called Jacob.

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And Isaac was 60 years old when she gave birth to them.

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When the boys grew up, Esau became a skillful hunter.

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a man of the field, but Jacob was a peaceful man living in tents.

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Now Isaac loved Esau because he had a taste for

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game, but Rebecca loved Jacob.

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When Jacob had cooked stew.

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Esau came in from the field, and he was famished, and

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Esau said to Jacob, please, let me have a swallow of

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that red stuff there, for I am famished.

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Therefore, his name was called Adom.

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But Jacob said, 1st sell me your birthright.

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Esau said, behold, I am about to die, so

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of what use then is the birthright to me.

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And Jacob said, 1st swear to me.

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So he swore to him and sold his birthright to Jacob.

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Then Jacob gave Esau bread and lentil stew, and

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he ate and drank and rose and went on his way, thus

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Esau despised his birthright.

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Let's pray.

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heaven Father, we love you and thank you for this morning again.

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We thank you for your word that you've given us to teach us your ways.

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I pray that we would listen today intently.

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You bless our minds and our hearts for your word, and the message in

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spite of the messenger, for your grace and your glory in Christ's name.

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Amen.

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All right, so we have made our way back to the

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1st section of the Old Testament.

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Remember last time we were in Amos, and now we're

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back into the Pentateuch and into the 1st book of the Bible, Genesis.

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And, uh, I know everyone's memory is real

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fresh, and, and, and remember, you remember everything.

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So about a year and a half ago, if you do remember, we

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talked about the Abrahamic covenant and

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how God, by his grace, his

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grace alone chose this man, seemingly

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random to us, from the land of Ur

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of the Chaldees, to be a nomad and

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leave his home land, to form a

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new family in a new country in the Near East, which

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we would later be called Israel, and later, our

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Lord and Savior would come from his family in that land.

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He promised that out of the nation that

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he would build out of Abraham's family, that

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blessings would come to the whole world, and we

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see that is true.

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I mean, look at all the nations and ethnic backgrounds we

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have here, not all of us are Jews.

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Um, were all kinds of mix of all kinds of different things here.

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But the blessings of God has come to the whole

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world, through the promises that he made, to Abraham,

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end in Genesis.

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And there's something about the promise

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and the situation when God made the promise to

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Abraham that is extremely remarkable.

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And we're going to see over and over again in this

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family with the promises that God makes to this family.

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But let's 1st look back and remember what that part

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of that promise was that we looked at in Genesis 15.5.

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And he took him outside.

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This is God taking Abraham outside and said, now look

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toward the heavens and count the stars, if

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you are able to count them.

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And he said to him, so show your descendants be.

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Now, unfortunately for God,

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Abram may have been the wrong

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man from the error of the Chaldees to pick because there was an issue.

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There was an issue with Abram and

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fulfilling this promise to have a nation

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and descendants as many of the stars are from the sky.

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And Genesis 151.

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It says after these things, the word of the Lord came to Abram

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in a vision saying, do not fear, Abram, I am a shield to you.

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Your reward shall be very great.

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Verse two, Abram said, O Lord, God, what will you give me?

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Since I am childless.

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Abram and his wife Sarai were

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barren, childless.

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They had fertility issues.

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And on top of that, at this point,

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even though they weren't able to have kids in the past, now they were very old.

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Abraham in his 90s.

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But God didn't make it promise

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that he doesn't keep.

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God keeps every promise that he makes.

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And this was certainly the case, because even with their barrenness,

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and even in their old age, God

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blessed them with a son that they named Isaac.

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And all who would come after everything

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we read in the Old Testament about the Hebrew people,

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all of them come from this promise that

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God kept to Abraham.

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And by extension of that promise,

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All of us who are in the faith, are

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recipients of that promise, and that covenant that he

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made to Abraham as well, through Christ,

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the promised seed, that God brought

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through Abraham's family that blessed

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the whole world.

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So Abraham gets several chapters

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starting, I think in verse 12, and going all

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the way up here into the 20s, but Isaac, his

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son, the promised son only gets 2 chapters devoted to him.

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Chapter number 24, and then again, in chapter number 26.

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And most of that was explaining how Abraham

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found him a wife of his own family in

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Rebecca.

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But uh, Jacob,

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on the other hand, gets about 10 chapters.

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So a lot of the Old Testament account of Abraham's

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family is devoted to Jacob, and then into

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Jacob's son and Joseph.

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But as usual, the Bible gives

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a very detailed account of

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not only the good things about these men

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and women, and the storied

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life of Jacob is told in great detail with all the blemishes,

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that in the deformities that he had, and

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those are in the forefront of these accounts.

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So, in other ancient literature, when

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there's a, they're trying to create a mythology or

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a fairy tale, the protagonist, the main characters,

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are usually portrayed as Supermen, uh,

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with, that they can just destroy armies by themselves with

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one spear, or, and they can, they, they don't make any mistakes.

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They always do the right thing.

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But in the scripture, it's a little different.

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There's no filter.

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Here.

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We have Jacob, as we'll see, full

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of issues and deformities and blemishes,

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and scripture brings those out.

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In fact, a lot of his blemishes are brought out

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more and more detail than the good things about him.

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But because of this, we are

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able to relate with Jacob and to really

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relate to the stories and the accounts of his life

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here in scripture.

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And so were all the people

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who were reading it at first.

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Jacob is God's rascal.

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He's God's rogue.

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He's a man who uses treachery and

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deceit to get ahead.

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But God uses the clay of

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Jacob's life to make a beautiful sculpture that

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we can mire as we read and study his story in

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this history of redemption, his part in it.

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And with this, we can really be

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thankful, because we are all made out of

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the same clay.

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We're all a mess.

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Our God's rogue gallery of sin

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and complication that God uses in the

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same way that God used Jacob's life,

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blemishes in all.

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And fortunately for us, even though we're kind of the same,

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most of us here in Podunk, uh, central

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Louisiana, um, are

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complicated on a much less, a much

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smaller scale than Jacob was.

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And our blemishes aren't going to be recorded in scripture

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for 1000000s and 1000000s of people throughout time to

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be recorded and to read.

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So just like the birth of Isaac,

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where Sarah and Abraham were barren,

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and they prayed, and God told them that he would have a

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son, and they were old, and they still had a son.

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The things in Jacob's life, his life started out very

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complicated, but not too complicated for

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the God of the universe, the sovereign over

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all things, including the reproductive

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system of men and of women.

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He is able to use this rogue in

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Jacob to carry out all his plans and to

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bring about this great nation and his plan of redemption.

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So let's begin and look at Jacob's life, and

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see how this covenant that God made to Abram,

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who later become Abraham, would be

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worked out through Jacob's life, even with all the complications

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that were given in Jacob's life.

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The 1st one is the complication of Jacob's

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family tree versus 19 or 20.

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Now, these are the records of the generations of Isaac, Abraham's son.

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Abraham became the father of Isaac, and Isaac was 40 years

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old when he took Rebecca, the daughter of Bethuel,

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the Aramaean, of Pedan Aram,

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the sister of Loban, the Aramaean, to be his wife.

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If you're familiar with your own family

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tree, your family history, you are surely

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aware of complications that exists in it.

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All of us have that odd crazy person,

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that an uncle from a long time ago, our

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aunt, that was not all there, and maybe

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made the newspaper for this or for that, or maybe

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there was a tragic story in your family history,

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that maybe you learn about later, or maybe you were closely related to.

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And sometimes, we all have real

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heroes in our family trees, people that are

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strong, men and women of honor and character that

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we can look back and copy.

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The family trees in scripture are no different.

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And the book of Genesis, especially, has a bunch of

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these family trees, these histories

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of families.

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In fact, as you go through the book of Genesis,

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it is divided by these family

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trees, they're in this 1st verse

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of our passage, the Hebrew word Tolodoff is

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used when it talks about generations or the descendants of.

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And so these are the generations of Isaac.

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And you will see that over and over again.

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So the people have divided the book of Genesis up with that toledoth,

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that Hebrew word that means generations of,

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this is the family tree of this man or that man.

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And so Jacob's account begins to

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be told with the lineage, up to that

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point, starting with Isaac and going back to Abraham.

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And this is an important thing

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for us to realize, especially in scripture, especially

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in Genesis, because the direct recipients

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of the book of Genesis, the ones that it was originally

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given to by the author Moses, were

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a people who just came out of Egyptian slavery

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of 400 years.

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Now, I don't know about you.

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Maybe you have been connected to your family for a couple generations.

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I know we have some great, great grandparents here in the room.

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And so, But

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I don't know past a couple of my generations back.

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So imagine going back 400 years.

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Where did you come from?

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Who are you exactly?

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Um, the the Jews, the

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Hebrew people, uh, were not always Egyptian slaves.

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And so Moses, through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit,

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wrote this book down to show all the way back to the beginning, where

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do you, who are you and where did you come from?

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Where are you supposed to be now that God has rescued

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you through the exodus, from Egyptian slavery?

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And now if we zoom out, it's

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important to us, as we see the things that were

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written to these ex-Egyptian slaves, to show

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them who they were, it's important to see that from

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the beginning of Genesis, and to the end of

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Genesis, when the Hebrew people become Egyptian slaves,

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that God made promises to their

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ancestors, Abraham, was the Egyptian, the Hebrew

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people's ancestor, and now they would be able to start

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connecting the dots

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to see that he was keeping his promises even

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hundreds of years later, even through the pain and

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the trial, the complication of

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Egyptian slavery.

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And so as they read it, as we read this book and

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these stories and accounts, we can see the bigger picture that

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God is trying to paint of his faithfulness

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and of the story.

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So there's a lot more here than

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just one lifetime than the problems

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that Jacob runs into in his life.

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He is put into the middle of a family that

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is already there, and so many other things around

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him, are influencing who he is, and

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what he is to do.

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And that's what Jacob had

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to go live into.

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He was the son of the son of the man

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who God made a personal promise

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to in an audio visual way.

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If you remember the story of cutting the cows

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in half, and then the fire

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and the smoke smoking pot, walking through

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them, confirming the covenant that God made with Abraham

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personally.

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And there's not been anyone else who had that type of covenant

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made with him in the way that God made that covenant

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with Abraham.

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And Jacob is only two generations

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removed from Abraham.

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That's a lot to live up to as your family.

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So maybe you have some stories about

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your grandfather or your father, that make

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you proud, that make it difficult for you to walk into,

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in their shadow, or maybe, as Philip

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mentioned this morning, maybe there's hard stories.

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Maybe your father acted shamefully

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or embarrassingly to you.

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And Jacob had both.

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Abraham did such things that

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were worthy of honor and looking up to, but he

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also did some blemishes and pimples

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him himself.

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Both of them, Isaac and

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Abraham, Jacob's ancestors, our father and

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grandfather, were men of God,

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but also were sinners, and that is clearly listed

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out in scripture, if you read their accounts.

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But God used the good, and the bad,

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and the ugly, to sculpt an amazing story, that

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we're still reading and leaning from today, and

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this little Near Eastern family, that we can still marvel

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out, marvel at how God worked through their lives and through their families.

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And he is still doing that today, no matter what

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your history is, what your family tree is, God is still working

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through our lives.

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And this is the illustration, an example of just that.

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Our lives, our families.

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A lot of times they're a mess, right?

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There's always something going on, something's going wrong.

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But God, in those messes,

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God takes those complications and straightens

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it out and works it all out, he has promised to

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work it all out so that in eternity, all those messes

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will be turned into his glory.

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And he does that through his covenants, his promises,

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to us and his people, and through the gospel

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of Jesus Christ.

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So this 1st part of the story,

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of the birth of God's robe, Jacob.

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And we see that he was born into a lot.

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There was a lot there for him to live

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up to as the grandson of Abraham

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and the son of Isaac.

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And the 2nd thing I want us to look at is that his birth

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was complicated.

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His family was complicated, and his birth was complicated.

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Verse 21.

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Isaac prayed to the Lord on behalf of

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his wife, because she was barren, and the Lord answered

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him, and Rebecca, his wife, conceived, but

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the children struggled together within her, and she said,

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If it is so, why then

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am I this way?

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So she went to inquire of the Lord?

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The Lord said to her, 2 nations are in your womb, and

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2 peoples will be separated from your body, and one

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people shall be stronger than the other, and the older shall serve the younger.

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When her days to be delivered were fulfilled, behold,

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there were twins in her womb.

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Infertility has been a constant problem,

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not just in our times, but in families going

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back, even to, as we discussed, Abraham and Sarah.

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And it seems to be,

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especially for the 1st family of the Hebrews, a

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constant, consistent problem.

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Abram and Sarai, now Isaac and Rebecca

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were experiencing the same problem.

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Rebecca was barren.

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She could not conceive a child.

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And then in the future, Jacob himself

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would experience the same issues with his wife, Rachel.

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And so there's a pattern that

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is arising here.

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And every time there's a pattern in scripture, we need to pay attention to it.

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Why would God, out of his grace,

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choose a whole family that would constantly

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have problems, conceiving children,

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if he was promised to make a

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nation as abundant as the stars in the sky and the sand

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on the seashores from that family?

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Remember, not too long ago, we went over the

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story in John chapter 9 of the

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man born blind, right?

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And the disciples had come to Jesus, and there

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was this man that was born blind, and they asked him, you know, who sinned?

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Did his parents sin, that he would deserve to be born blind?

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Was it punishment to his parents, that he was born blind, or

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is it some sin that he would later commit, that God made him blind for that sin?

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That was the thinking of the time, that they had.

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Well, Jesus responded in John 9, verse 3.

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He says it was neither that this man sinned, nor

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his parents, but it was so the works of God

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might be displayed in him.

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God sovereignly used the blindness,

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the disease of that man, in his

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life, all the hardship that man went through from the time

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he was born until the time that Christ healed his blindness,

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was all for the purpose that Christ

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would use his life and his healing as an

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illustration of Christ bringing us from

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darkness, the blindness of sin into the light of salvation.

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And he used the barrenness of

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this 1st family, as an illustration that

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God is faithful to keep his promises, in spite

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of everything on the outside, that it may look.

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It may look impossible on the outside, but

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God was the one who has specifically

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making these families have babies.

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Now, Isaac had a half brother.

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Remember?

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Abram, when they were

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getting old, and God obey this promise, he took matters into

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his own hands, and Sarai gave him Hagar,

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her slave, to be one of his wives,

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and that she would conceive a child who would be

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an heir to Abram, in spite of what God said.

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And his Isaac's half brother, Ishmael,

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had the opposite problem of Isaac

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and Rebecca.

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And Genesis 25, 13, it says, these are

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the names of the sons of Ishmael, by

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their names in the order of their birth.

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Nebayoth, the firstborn of Ishmael,

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and Kadar, and Abbeel, and Mipsum, and

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Mishma, and Dumah, and

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Tamah, Juter, Nayfish, and Kadama.

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So, he had 12 kids.

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The opposite.

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Isaac and Rebecca couldn't have one, but Ishmael,

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who was not the one the promised would go through, was able to

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have a whole baseball team.

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It was easy for him and his wife.

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Wouldn't it been easier for God, just

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to go ahead and use Ishmael, like it was Abram and Sarah's

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plan in the 1st place.

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But no, God would use the once baron

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Sarah, who had become Sarah, to

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fulfill his promise by her conceiving and burying a child.

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And Isaac now knew that story.

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He knew where he came from.

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And I'm sure Abraham told him over and over

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again around the fire, this is what God had done

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for us, you are a gift of God, and he gave him the

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promises that God had made.

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But now Isaac was struggling and suffering

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with the same problem, Isaac and Rebecca.

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And so the only thing that Isaac could do

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is to go to God and pray, and this is so good.

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Genesis 25, 21, Isaac prayed to

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the Lord on behalf of his wife, because she was barren,

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and the Lord answered him, and Rebecca, his wife conceived.

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Now, my Hebrew is a little rusty, so

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I have to use other smarter people than me for reference,

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but one of them talked about how this

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phrase prayed to the Lord on behalf of his

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wife means that he prayed in front of his wife.

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In the presence of Rebecca, is where he prayed.

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He was leading his family, and going to God in faith,

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for the issue that they were having.

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They were praying together.

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And he was comforting his wife by praying for, and

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that is a good lesson for all of us, husbands.

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He was doing this for a long time.

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praying and waiting for God to answer.

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Verse 20 says that when they were married, Isaac was 40 years old.

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And then in verse 26, when he had the twins,

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it said that he was 60 years old.

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So this is Isaac praying on

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behalf of in front of his wife for 20

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years for God to answer his prayer.

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And that is a great example and encouragement to

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us, that if we go before the Lord in faith, and

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we pray, and we wait on the Lord to answer, he will always

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come through according to his will.

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And I'm sure during that period of 20 years

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of praying for a child, it

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may have seemed hopeless to them.

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There was no chance, externally, that they could

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see for them to have a child, much

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less for Isaac to be part of

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that line that would father nations of people.

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But this is how God works over

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and over and over again.

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He uses the weakness of us, the weakness

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of his people, to show that he is strong.

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He uses the hopelessness of

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our situation sometimes to push us to him,

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and to force us, to hope in

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him as the only one who has the solution for

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our problems.

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And we're all of us, in here today, examples of that, in

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one way or the other.

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We're quite an unimpressive lot.

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You know, I don't plan the psalms.

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I mean, I plan the psalms, but there we go one after the other.

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And this morning, the psalm was talking about how the

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situation, and of course, the one who

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interprets the psalm and puts it into English for us, interprets

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it into the church as it should be, but

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it talks about how much the church struggles and

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how much pain the church is and how unimpressive the church is.

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And that is the case, especially

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in certain periods of time.

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But the church has an almighty God,

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as our source of strength and hope, no matter what

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the situation looks like on the outside.

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And I found this illustration, and I thought it was fitting.

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If you could put yourself into the place of a

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boss or a manager who had the job of

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hiring someone to fulfill a position that

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required public speaking.

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And in walks a young man who

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stutters, and on top of the stuttering,

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he has a lisp.

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And then nothing on his resume seemed impressive.

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He doesn't have a degree.

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He's never been to college.

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And one of his reference references,

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told you that in one of his first times doing

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public speaking, he fainted out

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of fear of public speaking.

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But what if I told you that

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you were interviewing a young Winston Churchill,

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one of the greatest public speakers of history,

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especially recent history.

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And that's how the church is right now,

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in our form now, we're not bad impressive.

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But one day, when we're fully sanctified,

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when we're fully glorified, and we're fully prepared in

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front of our Lord Savior, Jesus Christ, by his grace through

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his salvation, we will be very

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impressive for his glory.

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And that's how Isaac and Rebecca were.

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They couldn't even have a kid.

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And especially at that time, that was how

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you were someone.

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That was how you grew your family economy.

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The Belgian confession says

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this about God's church on this earth, and it really matches with

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the song we read in song.

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It says, this church has existed from the beginning of the world

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and will be to the end.

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For Christ is an eternal king who

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cannot be without subjects.

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This holy church is preserved by God

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against the fury of the whole world, although

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for a while, it may look very small and

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as extinct in the eyes of man.

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Our only hope and strength, for all of our

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existence, is in the Lord Jesus Christ,

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God the Father, and the power of His Holy Spirit,

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who protects the church, even when it looks bleak.

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But the problem of conception

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wasn't the last problem that Rebecca had with her babies.

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So God answered their long

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prayer and waiting time with Rebecca

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conceiving and becoming pregnant.

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And it turns out that not only did he

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answer their prayer for a child, he answered their prayer

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for two children all at once.

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And these two children were quite

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the lively pair even before birth.

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Verse 22 says, but the children struggle together within her.

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And she said, if it is so,

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why then am I this way?

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So she went to inquire of the Lord, that

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struggling together within her, could be translated

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as smashing into one another.

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inside.

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So Rebecca goes to God, and

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praise again to him, and listen

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to what she says that I can barely get out, and it's that way on purpose.

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If this is from you, which it obviously is,

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because we couldn't conceive, then why is it so hard?

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Why does it hurt?

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And she says it even in the Hebrew,

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according to what I read, it's kind of jumbled.

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She's saying this in the midst of her pain.

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And when she can't even get the words out from this pregnancy.

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So we obviously know that

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this pregnancy is from you because we couldn't conceive.

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But now that you've given us this joy

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and this blessing, why does it hurt so much?

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Why is it so hard to

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be pregnant with your blessing?

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And I want you to remember that question,

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even though you may not be able to remember how it is, she said it

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in her inner pain, because that'll

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probably a question, you will be asking yourself throughout your life.

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If this is your will, God.

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If this is what you have for me to do, why is it so hard

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and why does it hurt?

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And always remember that God

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answered Rebecca in verse 23.

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The Lord said to her, 2 nations are in your womb,

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and 2 peoples will be separated from your body, and

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one people shall be stronger than the other, and the older shall

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serve the younger.

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So he said, one of the reasons you're hurting is because

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there's two, not just one in there.

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We have ultrasounds now, but Rebecca had

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God himself tell her that she was having twins,

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and they weren't just going to be twins.

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He's extending his promise through them.

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He called them in this verse to nations

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are growing up inside of you.

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And there would be the start of the nation of Israel

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and the nation of Adam.

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Or, as we like to say, Edom.

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And so let us know again, that God is

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in control of all the outcomes.

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He adds another twist to his

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promise.

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He says that the older will

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serve the younger.

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And this puts the

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general thinking and the culture of the time on its head.

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The older was always the one who got the biggest

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blessing, who received the double portion

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of the inheritance, and that the younger

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would serve the older as a

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general rule.

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But God says, no, I'm going to show you, it's from me.

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I'm gonna place that on its head.

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The older will serve the younger.

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And we can make, and we must make a connection

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between how God works in Rebecca's

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life, through those two boys, into even into his

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church today, and he does it over and over and over again.

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This is just one example.

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New Testament gives us a great example of this, of

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how even we are like this in

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1 Corinthians 127, but God has chosen the

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foolish things of the world to shame the wise.

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And God has chosen the weak things of the world, a shame the

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things which are strong, and the base things of the world, and

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the despised, God has chosen, the things that are not, so

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that he may nullify the things that are, so that no man

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may boast before God.

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If this isn't how God worked.

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Then we would have no hope, because there's no great

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people in here, there's no shining examples

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of goodness in here.

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There's no world leaders that are in this

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church, but God has saved us, in

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our baseness, in our foolishness, in our poverty,

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in our difficulties, to show that

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he is God, and that he deserves the glory,

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not us, and anything that we've done, and it's the same thing

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with Jacob and Esau.

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He uses the hardness of Rebecca's pregnancy.

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He uses the turning around of the

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cultural norms here to grow

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his people, and to show them his hand is

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over and in everything.

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She said, if it is so, why then am

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I this way?

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Because God is showing her this

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very important truth.

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So Jacob had a complicated family tree.

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He had a complicated birth story, and

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then finally, he had a complicated brother.

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And Esau, verse 25.

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Now the 1st came forth red,

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all over like a hairy garment, and they named him Esau.

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Afterward, his brother came forth with his hand holding

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on to Esau's heel.

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So his name was called Jacob, and Isaac was 60

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years old when she gave birth to them.

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When the boys grew up, Esau became a skillful hunter,

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a man of the field, but Jacob was a peaceful man,

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living in tents.

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Now, Isaac loved Esau because he had

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a taste for game, but Rebecca loved Jacob.

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To say that the relationship between

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these two fraternal twins was

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complicated is kind of an understatement, and

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their relationship will be iffy all throughout their

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lives into adulthood.

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So Moses here, the author of Genesis

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through the Holy Spirit, gives us a lot of details here to

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show us exactly how different these two brothers were.

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They look different.

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They enjoy different things.

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And one of them was favored by uh,

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Isaac and one of them was favored by Rebecca.

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So a couple of these things that I just want to go

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over before we're done, to show

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their differences is 1st their names.

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Esau came out covered in thick,

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red hair, that the word Esau

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looks like a play on the Hebrew word for felt.

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And so it looked like he was already covered

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in a felt clothing.

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But he came out first, but then Jacob

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came out right after Esau, with his hand around

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his heel, trying to pull him back in so he could be first.

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And so, uh, it looks

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like Jacob was the instigator of all the struggles

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that Rebecca had in in utero.

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And he was named for this act of grabbing

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on to Esau's heel.

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And they probably meant it kind of jokingly

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and cute when they named him that.

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But it sounds like the

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word for heel.

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Jacob sounds like the Hebrew word for healed.

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But later, other people

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would use that name because it sounds like another

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Hebrew word that means to supplant or to trip.

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And so the, the, the idea

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is that we're in a race and and

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Tim is is going right in front of me.

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In order for me to get ahead, I stick my

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foot out and heal him.

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I trip him up so that I

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can be the winner of the race.

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And this is very fitting for who Jacob is.

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Jacob is a deceiver.

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He's a supplanter.

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He twists things and schemes things so

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that he can be on top.

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As you'll see, if you read the story of Jacob.

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And the 2nd thing I want to bring out is

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they both have a unique personality and

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kind of a unique system of faults in

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their life, they're more disposed to.

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their personality failures kind

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of come out over and over again in the 10 chapters

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of Jacob's life.

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Esau was a man with no foresight.

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He was apathetic about the future.

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He could care less about what was coming up next.

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All he thought about was right here and right now.

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He didn't care about the gifts of God.

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Imagine being a part of that family, especially that close, where

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the promise was made, that it was going to be your family that

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was going to father this great nation.

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Esau could care less about what God said about his family.

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He was living for right now, and we see that.

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That fact demonstrated in this story of

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Jacob and Esau and the stew.

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Esau was out in the field, either hunting or

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working in the garden.

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But he forgot to look to the future.

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He didn't even think about dinner.

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as being in the future.

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So he came back completely unprepared for the end

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of the day, and when he returns, he found Jacob cooking

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a red stew.

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verse 30, Esau said to Jacob, please, let

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me have a swallow of that red stuff there.

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For I am famished.

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Therefore, his name was called Edam.

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And he didn't know what the stuff was.

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He didn't know what Jacob was cooking.

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All he knew is that he was hungry right now, at

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that very moment, and he wanted that stew.

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No, he needed to have that stew or he would die.

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So that the little heel grabber, Jacob, scheme to plan in his mind.

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He says, okay, sure, bro.

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I'll give you some of this stew.

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All you got to do is trade me for your

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birthright.

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That doesn't sound like a fair deal to me.

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I might give you a couple bucks for a bowl of stew, especially

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if I'm only asking for a swallow of stew,

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but my birthright.

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The reality that I'm the oldest and I

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get the double inheritance.

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I'm not going to give that up for us, but Esau could

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care less about any of that stuff.

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Anything that it meant to be in his family, his

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family name, his family honor, who he was, all

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he cared about, was right now he was experiencing a

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pretty extreme hunger.

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He sacrifices the future on

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the altar of the right now.

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And this is a constant theme

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for Esau's life.

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And this became such a joke to

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the people around them that they started calling

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him a Dom, which just means red.

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And so every time somebody would call him red,

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they weren't talking about his hair, they were talking about the red

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stew that he traded his birthright

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for in shame.

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But as usual, when people don't

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think about the future, and then they get to the future, and

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bad stuff happens, what do they do?

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They don't blame their lack of foresight or wisdom or care.

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They blame someone else, or something else,

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and that is exactly what Esau does in verse 34.

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Then Jacob gave Esau bread and lentil stew, and he

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ate and drank, and rose and went on his way.

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Thus Esau despised his birthright.

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Esau is the quintessential secular man.

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He is given not just a birthright as

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a child of Abraham.

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He is given a birthright as a child of God in

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the sense that all men are images of

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a holy God.

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He looks at the creation and he says,

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no, God.

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I'd rather do what I want to do right now than

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to think about the future.

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And this is exactly what the author of

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Hebrews, which should be the next book you preach through, says

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about Esau in chapter number 12,

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verse 15, see to it that no one comes

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short of the grace of God, that no root of

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bitterness, springing up causes trouble, and by

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many be defiled, that there be no immoral or

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godless person like Esau, who sold

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his own birthright for a single meal.

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Another word for godless here is

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profane, or useless, or

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pointless, a profane, useless,

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pointless, godless person, living

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their life as if their life had no purpose

41:54

and no point doing whatever they wanted to

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do right now.

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And this is the life that we

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see Esau here, living.

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But we also get a glimpse of the scheming

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of Jacob here.

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We've got these two brothers, the secular Esau

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and the conniving Jacob, the red

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and the old heel grabber supplanter.

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So what has God to do with

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all this complicated mess?

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How is he going to work out his plan of redemption

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and his plan of covenant with Abraham through

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this mess?

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Well, maybe you feel

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a similar way about the circumstances of your life.

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I know there are some circumstances in my life right now that

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are very difficult and very complicated.

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But we do what Isaac and Rebecca do.

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We pray, and we wait, and we look at these examples here

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in scripture, as the example of what

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God can do in our lives.

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As he works out, all this mess that we make into

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a straight line that goes straight to glory in heaven,

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through Christ, and through his truth.

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God loves.

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This is what he does.

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He loves to work in real people's lives,

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and show himself almighty,

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and show himself sovereign over everything.

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He takes the material that he has,

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this mess that we are, that Jacob was, and

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molds it into a family, that one day would

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be as numerous as the stars of the sky, and

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as many as the strains of sand by the seashore,

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all for his glory, even though they worked so

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hard against them sometimes.

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He worked all that out to

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fulfill his promise to Abraham, and to us,

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through Abraham.

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And one day, through Christ, all of our messes and

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complications, all of our problems will be worked

43:55

out in Christ Jesus for eternity, before the face of God.

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And things that we don't understand now,

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we'll be able to look back on and say, I

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see now how you were weaving and working that

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out through my life.

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And now you've brought it into this glorious place.

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That is the promise for all of us.

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And that is just a little bitty example seen

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in the life, the birth of Jacob and

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his family there.

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So let's remember that as we live our lives,

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as we face the trials and struggles and hardships of our life.

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Let's remember that God is always faithful, and he always

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keeps his promises, even when we don't understand.

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Let's pray.

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And, Father, we love you and thank you for your mercy on us.

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What a great God you are, a sovereign God, who loves

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us for reasons we don't understand, but because of your grace,

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because of your mercy, you're even using us to fulfill your plans.

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I praise you for that.

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I pray that you bless us as we leave for your glory in Christ's name.

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Amen.