Ephesians 5:18
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Ephesians 5:18

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A Verse-by-Verse Expository Sermon on Ephesians 5:18 from June 8.

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If you have your Bibles, turn with me to Ephes

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ians chapter 5 and verse number 18.

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We continue to work our way through this

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section that began in chapter 4 and verse 1.

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Maybe we could, there's a lot of ways we could

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summarize or characterize this section. Maybe

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one

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way we could do that is principles of

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Christian living would be a good one. Ephes

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ians 5.18 is an

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important verse that certainly brings about

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controversy and differences of opinion in the

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first part of the verse and in the second part

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of the verse we get one of the most

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significant

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commands that is given in the New Testament.

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So let's read verse 18 together. It says,

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"And do not get drunk with wine, for that is

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dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."

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Being filled with the Spirit is a command here

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for every Christian and the verses that follow

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that go all the way up through chapter 6 and

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verse number 9. Paul is going to describe for

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us

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how the filling of the Spirit affects you, how

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it affects all your relationships,

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how it affects your attitude each and every

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day. He's going to show you how you'll sing

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songs, hymns,

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and spiritual songs coming up, how it will

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affect other people around you, how it will

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affect you

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in your home as he goes over husbands and

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wives and children, how it will affect you in

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the workplace

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by way of application when we get to that

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section on servants and masters. The filling

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of the Spirit

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will affect every relationship that you are

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involved in. Now remember in the last three

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verses

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we talked about walking wisely. Remember

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walking being a pattern of life. So let's just

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for the

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sake of context here go back and read the

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previous three verses that lead us into our

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verse for today,

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verse 18. Look back starting in verse 15 and

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we'll read through verse 17 and think about

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what we

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talked about as we went through these verses

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expositionally. Verse 15, "Therefore be

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careful

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how you walk, not as unwise men, but as wise,

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making the most of your time,

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because the days are evil. So then do not be

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foolish, but understand what the will of the

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Lord

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is." And then he goes right into verse 18.

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Look at it, right into verse 18, "And do not

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get drunk

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with wine, for that is dissipation, but be

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filled with the Spirit." And so in addition to

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what has

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already been said, the final element of this

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wise walk in context is to be filled with the

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Spirit.

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But before we get to that part of the verse,

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this verse is in two parts. We first need to

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deal with

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this first part, verse 18, "And do not get

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drunk with wine, for that is dissipation." Now

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when it comes to drinking alcohol, some people

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say Christians should never drink alcohol

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ever at any time. It's always wrong all the

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time. "Totaler" is a nickname still used today

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that came out of the temperance movement that

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moved into the prohibition era in the 1800s,

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that term meaning total abstinence from

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alcohol. Others say Christians can drink

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alcohol in

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moderation. The Bible is clear that God's

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people drank wine. So let me make a blanket

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general statement, which should be clear,

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which should be obvious, and that you have all

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no doubt

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probably heard before. "Drinking alcohol is

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not a sin, getting drunk is."

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I don't think that's too hard to understand to

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you. Is anybody, is that complicated for

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anyone

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here? Okay? Verse 18, look at it again, "And

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do not get drunk." You see that? Doesn't say

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do not drink.

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Also another general statement I want to make

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is for us to remember, when studying the Bible

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,

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you've heard me say this many times and you

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will again, context is king, right? Just don't

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pull a

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passage out and go wherever we want to with it

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. Context within a passage, within a chapter,

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within an epistle for that matter. So another

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element to understand here is that in context

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clearly what the apostle Paul is doing here is

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he is making a contrast. And the contrast that

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he is

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making is between drunkenness and being filled

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with the spirit. Now, keep that in your

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thinking

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right there and we're going to get to the

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context part a little later. For now, let's

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keep dealing

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with this issue of Christians and drinking

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alcohol. The fundamentalist movement of the

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late 19th century and on into the 20th century

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in many ways put a very legalistic mindset

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into

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the psyche of the church, especially the

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American church in general, in three ways.

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Drinking, smoking and dancing. If you're a

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lifelong Baptist especially, right? You know

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those are the

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big three. Now, dealing with those issues in

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an unbiblical way has caused some major

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problems

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in the church that still exist to those days,

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things like those three issues equated with

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salvation. As long as I'm not doing those

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things, I'm good to go. It's led to a lot of

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doctrinal

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confusion. It's led to not understanding Sola

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Fide. You combine that with Charles Finney and

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the

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sawdust trail and walked the aisle and prayed

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the prayer. And then that got labeled, equated

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with

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salvation, just praying the prayer as if you

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could do this magical prayer that's found

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nowhere in the

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Bible, the sinner's prayer. And boom, you got

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your stamp, go live how you want to. So there

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's a lot

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of problems that came out of the fundamental

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ist movement in both the 19th and 20th century

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still

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exist today. Now, we've learned in these

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previous verses leading up to this one, don't

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be a fool.

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Right? We just read it. Be wise. Don't be a

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fool. Understand what the will of God is for

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your life.

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And now, don't be drunk. Be filled with the

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Spirit. And let me tell you from

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personal experience with myself and with

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others, the biggest fool, the most unwise

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person

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is any person at the moment that they are good

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and drunk. That's the biggest fool that there

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is.

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One of the most embarrassing things that

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anyone can ever witness in human history

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is drunk middle-aged white people trying to

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dance to rap music.

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Once you see it, you can't unsee it.

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I mean, every second of looking at that is the

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cringiest cringe at the highest level of

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cringe

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that there is. Okay? So, the clearest way to

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act like a complete fool is to get drunk.

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I've been drunk many times. I've dealt with

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drunk people many times before salvation,

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before I met Christy. I can't, I don't have to

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go back and really think about,

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I don't know why I moved around so much. I

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probably lived, I'm not even joking,

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probably 15 different apartments and rent

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houses and stuff. I just was constantly always

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moving.

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I don't even know why that was, but I can't

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even count the number of times police called

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out

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to wherever I was because we were parting in

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heart all the time, which would result in all

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manner

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of things. I got so many stories you wouldn't

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even believe. I've forgotten half of my

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stories,

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probably by now. And let me tell you that all

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that you have to do is deal with a drunk

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person when

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you are not drunk to ascertain how stupid it

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is to get drunk. You ever dealt with a drunk

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person

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when you're not drunk? Biggest fool there is,

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you're dealing with them. On the other hand,

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Paul is teaching us the wisest person who does

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the will of God is the person who is filled

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with the Spirit. And that's the comparison

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here. Being filled with the Spirit is the will

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of God

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and is wise. Being drunk is obviously stupid

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and foolish. Not only that, but I don't have

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to tell

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you, I don't have to go through the litany of

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problems that alcoholism has caused in our

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country

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and in our world, do I? The abuse of alcohol r

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ips apart families. The abuse of alcohol and

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alcoholism causes a chronic problem of

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domestic abuse in our land. It destroys

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careers. I could

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stand up here for an hour and give you the

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ripple effect of the disastrous examples of

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the result

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of alcoholism. And for sure, that is partly

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what Paul has in mind with this verse, the

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negative

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effects of the abuse of alcohol. So first, I

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want to do this. I want to look at this from

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a couple of angles. I want to look at it from

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this angle first. In a general sense, I think

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Paul is

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saying, look, if you're looking for joy and

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you're looking for escape from your problems

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in comfort

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and contentment, don't look for it at the

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bottom of a Bible. Seek all that in being

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filled with the

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Spirit, because that's the only place you're

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ever truly going to find those things.

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Everybody wants

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to be happy. Is there anybody you've ever met

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who wants to be miserable all the time? And

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guess what?

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God wants his people to be happy and joyful

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and content with their lives, even when he

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brings

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suffering for your sanctification into your

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life. Because as Christians, we know our joy

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is not

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based on our circumstances. Our joy is in

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Christ, the one who gets us through the

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circumstances for

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our good and his glory. And the Beatitudes,

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every time Jesus says that word, "blessed,"

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like "blessed"

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are the peacemakers, the word for "blessed,"

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there is "happy." You can go read that in

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Matthew now,

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the Beatitudes. Every time you see "blessed,"

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"happy," in Ecclesiastes, the Preasures looks

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at life,

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and there's a point where he says there is a

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time to laugh. Time for joy. The Bible says,

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"A merry heart does good like a medicine."

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That's true. John says in 1 John 1 verse 4,

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"These things we write so that our joy may be

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made complete." But God wants us to find the

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resource for true joy in the right place and

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not in the wrong place, not the artificial way

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.

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People, now, they abuse alcohol for different

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reasons in the same way that people abuse

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alcohol,

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I'm sorry, drugs for the same reason. And a

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big one for both is this. They want to be

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happy,

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but their circumstances make them miserable.

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And so they put themselves into a stupor

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with drugs or alcohol so they don't have to

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face their circumstances while they're in that

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drunken

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stupor. People want comfort, they want

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happiness, but they got problems. Alcohol and

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drugs for that

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matter is a way to escape in those moments.

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There's even a whiskey called Southern Comfort

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.

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Do you drink a whole bottle of that in one

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sitting? Let me tell you, you'll be anything

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but comfortable.

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I can promise you. And what Paul is saying

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here is who is the comforter, the Holy Spirit.

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Be filled with the Spirit. Getting drunk is

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never the remedy for the cares of life ever.

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In fact,

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the track record is clear. All it ever really

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does is cause more problems. And it's so crazy

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,

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just like I used to be and I see people now.

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It causes some problems and they just keep

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going

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back to it. Like ramming their head in a brick

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wall. And let me add, alcoholism and drug

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addiction

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are not diseases. Cancer is a disease. You don

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't catch alcoholism. You don't catch drug

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addiction.

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It's a choice. It's a sin. It's a

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manifestation of depravity. It's a sin that

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needs to be confessed

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and dealt with as a sin, not secular therapy.

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I went to rehab four different times. It never

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did me any good, not one bit of good, that

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four trips to the rehab helped me. And I did a

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lot of

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group therapy, which I hated every single

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second of. The only way to find true joy,

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comfort, happiness,

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contentment in this life is to be filled with

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the Spirit. Every illustration that I could

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find

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in the Bible of drunkenness is a disaster. Now

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, I won't go down a long line of litany for

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time's

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sake, but just go check out what happened to

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Noah when he got drunk. Or how about Lot? Y

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ikes!

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That one is really bad. The people in the

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church at Corinth got drunk and desecrated the

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Lord's table

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and God made some of them sick. Some of them

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he executed on the spot. We read that every

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time

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we do the Lord's table. And drunkenness has

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always been associated closely with all sorts

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of immorality. Why? Because it dulls the

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senses. It brings about unrestrained reckless

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behavior,

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loose lips, loss of inhibitions, and behaving

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in a way that you would not normally behave

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when not being drunk, right? Several times in

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Scripture when there is a list given

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of the characteristics of the people who will

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not be entering the kingdom of heaven like,

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you know,

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covetous idolater, multiple times drunkards.

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Now, let's be clear. Is it possible for a

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Christian to get drunk? And if you get drunk,

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are you going to lose your salvation? No.

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What those lists are saying is that it's true

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of a Christian that they are not a drunkard as

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a

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pattern in their life, as all of those listed

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are meaning that. Getting drunk for the

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Christian

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is to be dealt with just like any other sin.

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You repent. You ask God to forgive you.

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Preach the gospel to yourself. Get back up on

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the horse and you ride again. And I'm not

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trying to

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minimize sin. God will chasing you. He will

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bring circumstances into your life that are

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not good

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for your good. And if you hear me say that and

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you say, okay, you walk out here and you say,

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okay, preacher said, it's okay for me as a

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Christian to get drunk once in a while. And

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all

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I got to do is just run over there and ask for

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forgiveness. And I'm good. Then let me tell

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you

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something. You haven't heard or understand a

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lot of my preaching and you need to get with

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me because

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there's a lot you're not understanding about

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sanctification. If that's how you hear me say

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that.

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But what I am saying is this, is that if

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getting drunk is a pattern of your life,

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you're giving evidence that you never really,

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truly have been born again. In fact, look

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again

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at that word, verse 18, dissipation. That's

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not a word we normally hear. Do not get drunk

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with

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wine for that is dissipation. That word is

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defined as reckless or wasteful behavior. But

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it's also

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translated in other translations as excess and

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debauchery. In general, if you broaden this

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word out, if you understand this word from the

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Greek and in the big picture, really what it

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is,

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is it is a destructive way of living, meaning

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dissipation. It's not just getting drunk, but

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it's

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the broader consequences of drunkenness upon a

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person's life. That is dissipation.

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Scripture's clear. If you're characterized as

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a drunkard,

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you're not in the kingdom. Now let me give you

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another angle in context.

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All that I've just said is not the main point

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of what Paul is saying. Okay. Now, all that I

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just

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said is true. All that I just said is a good

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application of understanding what Paul is

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saying

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here. But Paul's main point, remember he's

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writing to the church at Ephesus in the first

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century,

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Paul's main point here is religion. And what

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do I mean by that? Well, remember we went over

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the

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intensity of the pagan religion that existed

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in the city of Ephesus at this time. And dr

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unkenness

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was associated with pagan religion. Remember,

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many of these Christians in the church at Eph

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esus,

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the Gentiles, not the Jews, of course, but

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these Gentile Ephesians had come out of pagan

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religion.

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And the pagans believed that to commune with

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the gods, you had to put yourself into a dr

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unken

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stupor to get to the highest level of

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communion with the gods. This was part of what

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was called

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the mystery religion. It started off part of

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the roots of the Greek and Roman mythological

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systems.

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They believed you could achieve and commune

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with the gods through achieving a state of ec

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stasy.

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That's been occurring all throughout human

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history with both drugs and alcohol.

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There are shamans right now today. In America,

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and you can go down to South America, who will

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take

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you on a trip. They supervise it through the

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use of drugs like ayahuasca and DMT and

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mushrooms.

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And when you go, I've listened to people who

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have done this and they all have the same

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kind of trip. They go to meet these ascended

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masters, these beings that give them a higher

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form of life. And then it starts to turn dark

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at some point. Timothy Leary, if you know that

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name,

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was thought of as the father of LSD in the

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1960s. What did he preach? Well, you need to

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take this

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LSD to reach a higher level of consciousness.

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And we see the disastrous effects that that

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had

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upon the culture in America here in the 60s.

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Eastern mysticism, the occult in many forms

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all

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advocate this. It's nothing new. It comes

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right out of the history of paganism, which

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was happening

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right here in the city of Ephesus with alcohol

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. All forms of this are completely demand.

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The Greek word pharmacia from where we get our

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word pharmacy originally used to refer to the

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use

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of drugs and rituals is also translated in the

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New Testament as sorcery, witchcraft. It's

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always

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warned against. Don't do this. Any so-called

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God, little G, or ascended master that you

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might

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meet up with in an altered state of

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consciousness, no matter how they present

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themselves, is a demon,

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period, every time. It's an old play from the

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demonic realm. They've been repeating it over

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and over and over in different forms and ways,

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all through history. And at Ephesus at this

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time,

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Greek mythology was in play. I'm sure you're

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all familiar with the top God in Greek

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mythology, Zeus.

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Nothing more than the satanic counterfeit of

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God the Father. And this demonic

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religion that developed, which is in full

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bloom by the time we get to Paul writing this

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letter,

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was that human beings again could rise to

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commune with the pantheon of Greek gods,

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all of them by reaching this state of ecstasy.

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And you got there, and it was wild in these

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temples,

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wild orgies, every kind of perversion that you

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could possibly think of. They had this crazy,

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wild dancing madness that they would do,

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people wringing their heads around and all the

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rest.

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And how did it all get induced? It all got

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induced by drunkenness. Every kind of wildness

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that you

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can think of, that you could possibly think of

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, was all happening at the same time in these

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temples.

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A high point, when everybody was good and

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loaded, everybody was good and wasted, plaster

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ed and drunk,

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they would eat the flesh of the mystic bull

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that they would bring into the temple, the raw

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flesh

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of this bull. And they would all call out to

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the God Dionysus. At that time they viewed him

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as in

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control of the earth, and they would call out

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to him, "Come thou Savior." That was their

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worship.

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And Dionysus was known as the God of Wine, the

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Roman name for him, the Latin name you might

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be

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familiar with, Bacchus, the God of Wine. Every

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single Sunday night before Fat Tuesday in the

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city of

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New Orleans is the biggest Margie-Graw Parade,

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the Bacchus Parade. Been to it many times,

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very drunk

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and very high. So Bacchus is still around

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today. They even have him on the float, and

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there's

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always a celebrity that's the king of the

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parade or queen of the parade. So understand,

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when Paul

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is telling these Ephesians, "Don't be drunk

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with wine," he's not just only dealing with a

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social

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problem, though he is, he's dealing with a

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theological problem as well from what these

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Ephesians had come out of. This is way deeper

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than just fun and games. This is Satan's

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counterfeit

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in these temple religions. This is how he was

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capturing minds and bodies in this system

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through

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this method of drunkenness, which causes a

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person to lose all their natural inhibitions

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and act in

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a totally unrestrained way from how they would

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normally behave when not being drunk.

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And what Paul is saying to this church is, "

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Look, a lot of you have a background

25:39

of communing with the so-called gods through

25:43

drunkenness, and I'm saying to you, if you

25:46

really

25:46

want to commune with the one true God, don't

25:49

get drunk with wine like you used to do in

25:52

those

25:52

temple worship services. Be filled with the

25:54

Spirit." That's what he's saying. This is a

25:58

great truth that

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certainly just is applicable to us today, just

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in a different way. "Instead of seeking joy,

26:06

contentment, happiness artificially through

26:09

alcohol, enter the presence of God through the

26:11

filling of the Spirit." Because again, it's

26:13

the only place where it's found. You can go

26:15

try whatever

26:16

you want to try from the world's perspective,

26:19

from a man-centered way. You're not going to

26:22

find joy,

26:23

contentment, happiness. Now, let's shift gears

26:27

. While drunkenness is a sin,

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God forbids it. We have repeated warnings.

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There are many of them in the Bible. You can

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just

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go look them up. For time's sake, I didn't

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list a bunch of them, but at the same time,

26:45

at the same exact time, alcohol is commended

26:49

in the Bible, and it's not a sin to drink it.

26:54

It's commended as something good. In fact, in

26:57

Exodus 29 and Leviticus 23, the people are

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commanded to

27:01

bring drink offerings of, guess what, wine.

27:06

Alcoholic wine wasn't Welch's. It was wine. In

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Judges 913,

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there's a parable. Jotham is giving of trees

27:21

asking for a king. Is there asking for a king?

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Look what he says, "But the vine said to them,

27:27

'Shall I leave my new wine which cheers God

27:30

and men

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and go to wave over the trees?'" And Psalm 104

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-15 starts out with this, "and wine which makes

27:40

man's

27:40

heart glad." So, there is a way to enjoy the

27:44

goodness of God with alcohol that produces

27:47

gladness

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without getting drunk. Isaiah 55, he actually

27:53

uses wine here in Isaiah 55-1 as an example

27:58

when he's giving a salvation invitation. Look

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what he says, "Oh, everyone who thirsts come

28:03

to the

28:03

waters and you who have no money come buy and

28:07

eat, come buy wine and milk without money and

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without

28:11

cost." And you know, Jesus changed the water

28:15

into wine, the wedding feast in Cana. Again,

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this was not non-alcoholic grape juice. In

28:25

fact, the head waiter of that wedding was

28:28

amazed in

28:29

verse 10. Look what he says in John chapter 2.

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He said, "Every man serves the good wine first

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,

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and when the people have come and drunk freely

28:38

, then he serves the poor wine,

28:39

but you have kept the good wine until now."

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Now, there's, of course, disagreements over

28:45

what the

28:46

good wine is within the church, but I think it

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's clearly more than just taste the way I

28:52

understand

28:52

this. Paul told Timothy, Roger Dale read it

28:55

this morning in 1 Timothy 5-23, "No longer

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drink water

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exclusively, but use a little wine for the

29:02

sake of your stomach and your frequent ail

29:05

ments." So,

29:06

it had a medicinal value to it. My mom can

29:08

tell you, the doctor told her when I had to

29:11

whooping

29:11

cough when I was a kid, giving him some

29:13

whiskey in the spoon to calm that down. Over

29:17

and over and

29:18

over in both the Old and New Testaments, the

29:21

staple of drink of people was wine. They

29:24

couldn't go

29:25

to the store and get monster energy drinks or

29:27

bottled water or any of that thing. And, of

29:31

course,

29:31

the consummate example is the inescapable

29:34

reality that Jesus used alcoholic wine when he

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gave his

29:38

command and instituted the Lord's Supper for

29:41

all time. So, we find in Scripture two things.

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There's

29:46

wine alcohol as a destroyer, mocker, something

29:51

that causes a great sin of drunkenness. But on

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the

29:56

other hand, we see alcohol as acceptable in

29:59

many places in Scripture. So, what do we do

30:03

with that?

30:03

Well, it's like so many things. That little

30:08

grape that hangs on the vine as a potential

30:13

for good

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and it has a potential for great evil, kind of

30:18

like the Internet has a potential for good,

30:21

it has a potential for great evil. How you use

30:25

it is what makes the difference.

30:28

It's really pretty simple for the Christian.

30:32

Don't get drunk. It's not hard. Now, what

30:39

defines drunk?

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Well, one definition I found is this, any

30:44

point in which the alcohol takes over any part

30:47

of your

30:48

faculties. When you lose your inhibitions,

30:51

when you act in a way that you don't normally

30:54

act,

30:54

and that's a gray area. And guess what? There

30:56

's no set amount because the amount of alcohol

31:00

to make

31:00

a person drunk is different for different

31:03

people. Some people can get drunk from just a

31:06

little small

31:06

amount of alcohol. And man, they could get

31:09

plastered. The eighth wonder of the world,

31:11

Andre the Giant, a professional wrestler,

31:14

whose hand I shook as a kid, by the way,

31:16

he was famous for the tremendous amount of

31:20

alcohol that he could consume at one sitting

31:24

without passing out. And it would make most

31:28

people pass out fairly quickly. But I mean,

31:32

he was seven foot four and 490 pounds. And but

31:36

he was always drunk. But those who always

31:39

tried to meet the challenge of drinking with

31:41

Andre, nobody could ever hang with Andre in

31:44

drinking.

31:44

The issue of drinking alcohol for the

31:47

Christian comes under the heading of what we

31:52

call Christian

31:55

liberty. Okay, now listen carefully. This is

32:00

an area where we can have disagreements

32:07

with one another. And guess what? It's okay to

32:12

have disagreements. But in this area,

32:17

Paul, I think, gives us the wisest

32:19

instructions in Romans chapter 14. In Romans

32:23

14, he's dealing

32:25

with these massive issues of Jews and Gentiles

32:29

being together now in one church. And there

32:32

are

32:32

all these threats to their unity. For example,

32:36

strong Jewish believers understood that the

32:40

ceremonial law was no longer binding upon them

32:44

. But weaker Jewish believers were still

32:47

struggling

32:48

with that. And you can understand that they've

32:50

been taught all their life of a certain way in

32:52

prescription for the ceremonial law. Mature

32:56

Gentile believers understood that idols were

32:59

not really

33:00

gods. And so they understood that they could

33:04

eat meat that had been offered to idols that

33:06

they sold in the market. And it was okay. But

33:10

in both cases, the weaker brothers' consci

33:14

ences

33:14

were troubled. And then they were even tempted

33:19

in their environment there to violate their

33:24

own

33:24

conscience to eat the meat, even though they

33:28

felt bad about it. Same thing with the Jews

33:33

who did the ceremonial law. Never good. Never

33:36

good. I'm going to get to that in a minute

33:39

to violate your conscience. So knowing that

33:42

the mature saints would understand these

33:44

struggles,

33:44

Paul addresses them most of all. Let's look at

33:48

it real quick in Romans 14 and see what he

33:52

says.

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Verse 21 to 23. "It is good not to eat meat."

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And remember, that's meat offered to idols

34:05

that

34:05

the pagans were doing. They had leftover meat

34:06

in the meat market. "Not to eat meat or to

34:11

drink wine

34:12

or to do anything by which your brother st

34:17

umbles. The faith which you have has your own

34:22

conviction

34:22

before God. Happy is he who does not condemn

34:26

himself in what he approves, but he who doubts

34:31

is condemned if he eats, because his eating is

34:35

not from faith and whatever is not from faith

34:40

is sin." So what is he talking about? Well,

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there's a few things we can glean

34:45

out of this passage. And this is going to be a

34:47

very quick run-through of this. I can do a

34:51

full

34:51

exposition, but number one that sticks out in

34:55

those verses is, "We don't ever want to cause

34:58

a

34:58

weaker brother to stumble." That's first and

35:03

foremost. However, if, Christian, you

35:07

understand

35:08

your liberty, such as being able to drink

35:10

without getting drunk and that it's not a sin,

35:13

then Paul

35:14

says, "Enjoy this good thing that God has

35:17

given you." Look what he says. "Happy is the

35:20

one who

35:20

does not condemn himself in what he approves."

35:22

That's what he means there. Hey, in your

35:25

liberty,

35:26

you want to do that? Enjoy it. But in addition

35:31

, for the stronger brother, you maintain a

35:34

healthy

35:35

conscience by also not causing your brother to

35:40

stumble with your liberty. But on the other

35:44

hand,

35:46

again, look in verse 23, "But he who doubts is

35:51

condemned if he eats." And his illustration

35:54

there is eating the meat to idols for the Gent

35:57

iles there. Because his eating is not from

36:00

faith.

36:00

And whatever is not from faith is sin. So just

36:03

apply that to alcohol. So put drinking in

36:07

there.

36:08

Drinking, if drinking any alcohol at all viol

36:13

ates your conscience, Christian, do not do it.

36:18

Because then, guess what? You will be sinning.

36:23

Whatever is not from faith is sin, he says.

36:27

That's what that means. And that would be the

36:30

thoughts and action of your conscience that

36:32

condemns you. Are you with me on that? You

36:35

understand that? A good example is something

36:38

that I learned from my mentor in the faith,

36:41

Huey Moke. I just somehow, I don't know, I

36:44

just knew

36:44

when the four years I spent at Foster Road

36:46

asked this man as many questions as you

36:48

possibly can.

36:49

And I did. I was peppering him with questions

36:52

anytime I could get with him. And we would

36:54

talk

36:54

about this subject. I asked him about it. And

36:57

he said, "Number one, he would say, most

37:01

important

37:02

is I don't want to cause any believer to

37:05

stumble." He said, "Put that top of mind right

37:09

out the gate.

37:09

I don't even want anywhere close to doing that

37:12

." So for that reason, he said, "I would never

37:15

drink

37:15

alcohol in front of anybody in any of these

37:18

situations that we get into social or

37:20

otherwise,

37:21

because I may not know what the conviction of

37:24

that person is. So as a general rule, play it

37:29

safe.

37:30

Don't do it. And guess what? If you don't, no

37:34

believer will ever stumble because of you,

37:37

guaranteed. But however he used to say, with

37:43

my liberty, if I want to drink alcohol without

37:46

sinning in the privacy of my home with no

37:48

possibility of causing anyone to stumble,

37:51

I'm free to do so. I have the liberty to do so

37:55

. And that's not hiding anything. That's just

37:59

being

38:00

wise with your liberty. Now, there are those

38:04

who disagree with that assessment. And I say

38:08

to them,

38:08

guess what? It's okay. We can disagree. This

38:14

is an in-house issue within the church,

38:18

that Christians should be able to discuss this

38:22

and debate this without losing their minds

38:27

over.

38:27

The main thing to remember out of this passage

38:31

is if drinking alcohol at all violates your

38:34

conscience, don't do it. Don't forget that or

38:37

you'll be sinning. Now, to wrap this up,

38:41

while the Bible does say, we read it, wine

38:46

makes a man's heart glad, never ever fall into

38:52

the trap

38:53

of using alcohol for the purpose of finding

38:56

joy, contentment, and happiness and gladness

38:59

in your

39:00

life. Again, that only comes through the

39:02

filling of the Spirit. And we're going to get

39:04

into what

39:04

that means next time. We don't have time today

39:06

to get to the second part of the verse. And I

39:09

want

39:09

to be clear. And this goes for any sermon that

39:14

I ever preach. If you got any issue with what

39:18

I said

39:19

today, please don't be afraid to come talk to

39:21

me about it. If you got any questions about it

39:24

,

39:24

please come ask me about it. Don't, don't

39:26

wonder. Maybe I haven't been clear enough.

39:28

Maybe you need

39:29

some more clarity on this. Or even if you

39:31

disagree, come, let's talk about it. It'd be

39:34

fine. I promise

39:35

you, we won't, there will be no violence if

39:38

you disagree. Okay. As the Bible says, come,

39:41

let us

39:42

reason together. We need folks to be able to

39:46

sit and have conversation in areas where we

39:51

may disagree

39:52

without all the hostility that we see so much

39:54

of in the church today, especially on the

39:57

Internet.

39:58

If you're on Christian Twitter, even Reformed

40:00

Twitter, the fighting that goes on

40:02

in secondary issues is just, it's out of

40:05

control. Having discussions and even debates

40:09

that are not primary, like Virgin Birth,

40:14

Trinity, Deity of Christ, those are primary.

40:16

There's no

40:17

debate over those things. You don't believe

40:19

those primary things. You're not a Christian

40:20

at all,

40:21

period. I'm talking about second level, third

40:23

level things. Being able to discuss those

40:26

things in

40:27

a reasonable way gives evidence of one of our

40:31

primary goals as a church family here at Prov

40:36

idence

40:36

and also individually growing in spiritual

40:42

maturity. That's what we want to be doing.

40:46

If you're a believer, if you placed your faith

40:48

and trust in Christ Jesus who died for your

40:52

sins

40:52

and you've been born again, that's what you

40:55

should be shooting for, more and more of every

40:58

day,

40:58

spiritual maturity. In the areas where we can

41:04

and sometimes disagree, if we're spiritually

41:08

mature, we should be able to sit down and talk

41:11

about these things. You give your reasons for

41:14

scripture and I don't care whether it's eschat

41:16

ology or whatever it is, sit down and reason

41:20

together

41:20

from the Word of God as we grow together

41:24

towards spiritual maturity. Next time,

41:29

whatever that time

41:30

is, I am not going to guarantee you that it's

41:32

going to be next Sunday because who knows what

41:34

a week

41:34

I'm going to bring, but I plan to be back in

41:38

Ephesians 5/18 next Sunday and we'll get down

41:43

into

41:43

what does it mean to be filled with the Spirit

41:47

and you read ahead as we look toward next

41:50

Sunday.

41:51

Let's pray together. Father, we thank you for

41:54

this day. Apostle Paul's teaching on this.

41:58

Lord,

41:59

help us to understand this the way you would

42:01

have us to understand it. Help us to buy our

42:06

actions.

42:09

Lord, let it play out in our life in the way

42:11

that is right, in a way that is biblical,

42:15

in a way that is pleasing to you. As

42:18

Christians, that's our goal. Our goal is to be

42:22

pleasing to

42:23

you with our life. Our goal is to bring you

42:25

glory with our life. Our goal is to grow in

42:28

spiritual

42:29

maturity. Help us to do that and as always, if

42:31

there are any here who have not come to

42:34

saving faith in Christ, I pray you would draw

42:36

them to yourself and they would come talk to

42:38

me

42:38

and say, "Hey, I need to talk to you. I got to

42:41

tell you something." Lord, we will rejoice

42:43

with

42:44

all those in heaven at one center. Thank you

42:47

for this day. Thank you for your church. Thank

42:51

you

42:51

for the opportunity to preach to your people.

42:54

Bless the ending of our service and we pray

42:57

that all that we've done today has been done

42:59

in such a way as to bring you all the glory.

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Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

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