Ephesians 5:1-2
Ep. 80

Ephesians 5:1-2

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A Verse-by-Verse Expository Sermon on Ephesians 5:1-2 from March 23.

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All right, if you have your Bibles, let's turn

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over to Ephesians chapter five and verse

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number one, we turn over to a new chapter

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today.

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This is such a tremendous epistle as we've

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been learning so much.

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And I want to remind you, especially after

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being in the high mountains of the Gospel

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of John last week by the Ernie as a bivoc

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ational pastor, sometimes when I can't get Eph

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esians

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done, I pull an old John and we've been going

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verse by verse through something I preached

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years ago through John to help me out when we

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have one of those what I call a John week.

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But I want to remind you what this section is

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all about.

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And actually, Roger Dale mentioned it in

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Sunday School, and I want to reiterate it is

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important.

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Verse three chapter of Ephesians, town

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doctrine, high theology, talking about the big

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subject

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of predestination and election, and

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importantly, who we are as Christians in

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Christ.

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And then there's a dividing line.

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After chapter three is over, we go to four,

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five and six, and the Apostle Paul is saying

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to us, OK, now that you understand who Christ

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is, now that you understand the person in

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work of Christ, now that you understand who

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you are in Christ, now four, five and six,

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this is how you are to live, OK?

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And Paul continues here what we're going to

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look at today to be very practical.

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And he's teaching us and continuing to teach.

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If you go back and remember in chapter four,

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he implored us, remember that word beg impl

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ored

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us to walk worthy of the calling with which we

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have been called.

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That's how he started chapter four out and the

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and the second half of this book.

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So to put into your mind that that what we're

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looking at today is is under the doctrine

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of sanctification.

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This is not justification.

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This is sanctification.

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This is the high standard of Christian living

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given to us by the word of God.

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And you can be very sure that since all of us

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as Christians are in a daily struggle with

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the world, with the flesh and with the devil,

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I promise you, we are all starting with me

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going to be convicted by what we hear today.

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And that's good for us because all genuinely

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regenerate Christians know that we need to

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be convicted.

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We need conviction from the word of God in

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order to spiritually grow in order to live

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daily for the glory of God because of the

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great struggle that we have that God has ord

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ained

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for our with our flesh and be conformed to the

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image of Christ.

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So I mean, think about it.

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I tell you all the time.

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I'll continue to tell you as a Christian, you

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know the meaning of life.

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You know the purpose of life.

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The overarching meaning of life for the

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Christian is to bring glory to God and enjoy

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him forever.

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That's what we're striving for.

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So let's start out.

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What I want to do is I want to read this next

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section that we're going to study in verses

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one through seven.

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And we're not going to get very far in this

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section.

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We won't get past verse two, but I want us to

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get our minds right back in the flow of

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Paul's thought.

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Chapter five, verses one through seven,

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therefore the imitators of God as beloved

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children and

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walk in love.

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Just as Christ also loved you and gave himself

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up for us and offering and a sacrifice to

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God as a fragrant aroma, but immorality and

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any impurity or greed, it's not even be named

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among you as is proper among saints and there

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must be no filthiness and silly talk or core

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suggesting, which are not fitting, but rather

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giving of thanks for this, you know with

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certainty

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no immoral or impure person or covetous man

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who is an idolater as an inheritance in the

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kingdom of Christ and God.

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And there's a lot there that needs explaining.

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So we're going to start slowly to pick this

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apart.

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And first, I want you to look at that phrase.

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Look there in verse one, the imitators of God,

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literally that word, be mimics of God.

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A mimic is not somebody who just picks up

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general patterns.

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A mimic is somebody who copies specific

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characteristics.

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That's heavy.

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Think about it, imitators of God.

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It's kind of like when Jesus said, be perfect

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even as your father in heaven is perfect.

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Or when Peter said in 1 Peter 1 15 and 16, but

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look at this, like the holy one.

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That's God who called you.

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Be holy yourselves also in all your behavior

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because it is written, you shall be holy for

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I am holy.

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That's from Leviticus 1144.

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And so from the big picture view, that right

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there is really the Christian life summed

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up in one phrase, be imitators of God.

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Be like God, and obviously that's going to

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need some further explanation, is it not?

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Well, for starters, we are to be like God, if

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we're going to be like God, it's pretty

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obvious that we need to know what God is like,

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right?

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And if we want to know what God is like, as

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the young man said this morning in Sunday

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school, we've got to study and know God's

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character.

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And as we study the Bible, what do we

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constantly see from Old Testament to new?

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We constantly see the character of God unfold

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ed before us and revealed to us in the pages

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of Scripture.

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Be holy as I am holy.

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As I said, and Peter just quoted for us, goes

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all the way back to Leviticus.

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And you may be thinking, well, oh, the Philip,

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that's easy to say.

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You may be imitators of God, but that's really

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hard to do.

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And it is, and in fact, you can't do it in

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your own power and strength.

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You can't grit your teeth and summon your own

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will to the best of your ability to be

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like God and like so many things that we learn

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in Scripture that sound crazy to say, I'm

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going to say something crazy to you right here

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, that the place where you start to be

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like God is by realizing that you can't be

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like God.

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That's where you have to start.

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That sounds crazy, right?

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You start with a broken and contrite spirit.

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You start as a new creature in Christ Jesus,

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hating your sin, hating an overwhelming sense

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of your sinfulness overtakes you.

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And you begin to realize that, oh, yes, I can

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't wait for the faith to become sight and

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to see Jesus in heaven equal with that.

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I can't wait to be rid of my sin.

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I long to be free from this flesh.

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And that in this life, while you're living

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life, begins to bring about real, true desires

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that you never had before, real, true, actual

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desires for righteousness in new behavior.

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And here we hit another one of those fantastic

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biblical paradoxes.

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On the one hand, we are to be like God.

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And on the other hand, we know we can't be

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like God.

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And when you get there in your thinking, you

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also know, OK, those two things are true.

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There has to be, there has to be some other

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power that makes this possible.

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And that brings us back to what Paul prayed

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for the church at Ephesus and really for the

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church for all time in Ephesians 316, look at

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it again, that he would grant you according

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to the riches of his glory to be strengthened

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with power through his spirit in the inner

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man.

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So wait a minute, I'm a Christian, but I'm

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still a sinner.

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I can't be like God, but this Bible is telling

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me that I must be.

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And if I can't be, but I must be, then I'm

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going to need some help on the inside to do

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what I can't do.

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And who can do that?

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The Holy Spirit who strengthens us as Paul

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just prayed with power in the inner man.

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And what is the result of that?

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Well, just a few verses down the end of verse

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19 and chapter three, you also may be filled

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up to all the fullness of God.

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Remember that's his prayer.

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And that is the progressive, continual plan of

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God, as I said, and conforming us to the

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image of Christ in the process of sanct

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ification.

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And so we have to absolutely, totally depend

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on the work of Christ and the spirit of God

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and the ministry of the spirit to do what we

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can't do, but what we must also at the

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same time do.

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And as I've said many times, nobody really,

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really likes this, but when we do good and

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we have victory, God gets all the glory for

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that, but when we fail and we sin, we get

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all the blame.

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Now on the surface, you hear that that does

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sounds like a raw deal, but when you really

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think about it right as a Christian, that

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doesn't bother you one bit.

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We can say it this way.

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Be imitators of God, but realize that's God's

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work, not yours.

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You understand?

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We are totally and completely dependent on the

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spirit of God.

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Now, as I always tell you, the work of sanct

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ification is synergistic.

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S-Y-N, it is us and God, but without God, it

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doesn't happen, not for a second.

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And if you are a Christian, he is absolutely

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doing that work in you.

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Okay, so with that reality right now in your

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thinking, now we can just get real practical

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with these thoughts, just think about it.

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If God humbled himself in Christ, can't you

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humble yourself?

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If God is different and set apart from the

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world, can't you be different and set apart

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from the world?

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If God is light, then can't you be a light in

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this present, very deep darkness of this

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world that we're living in?

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If God is love, then can't you be love?

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All the while realizing that the spirit of God

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himself is working all this out in you.

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Consider what we learned in just these three

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first chapters of Ephesians about what we

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have as believers in Christ.

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We have a new standing before God all time.

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We have a new life.

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We have a new righteousness.

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We have a new father.

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We have a new inheritance.

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We have a new citizenship.

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We have a new master.

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We have a new freedom.

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We have a new victory, a new security, a new

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peace,

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a new unity, a new fellowship, a new joy, a

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new spirit,

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a new power, a new ability, a new calling,

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a new purpose, and a new love.

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All of that just in the first three chapters

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of this book of Ephesians is laid out as a

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foundation.

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All of that, Christian, is ours in Christ.

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And now he says, look at verse one,

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thinking of that, therefore,

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the imitators of God as beloved children.

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Then he says in verse two, walk.

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Remember your daily manner of life, walk in

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love.

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And guess what?

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Under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit

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and the gifting of brilliance that God gave

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Paul for writing,

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he laid that foundation of love

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in the first three chapters of Ephesians as

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well.

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Look at the end of verse four in Ephesians one

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,

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and into five, in love.

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He predestined us to adoption as sons

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through Jesus Christ as himself.

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And then in Ephesians two, why did he show us

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mercy?

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Ephesians two, four.

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But God, being rich in mercy because of his

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great love

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with which he loved us.

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Ephesians three, 19, Paul is praying.

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And to know the love of Christ which surpasses

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knowledge,

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our whole position is predicated on God's love

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.

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And if this is true, when we get here to

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chapter five

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in verse two, he says, you better walk in love

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just as Christ also has loved you.

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In other words, based on all what I'm telling

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you,

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he's saying, you ought to be able to see

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that this should be characteristic for you as

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a Christian

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to walk in love.

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Now, I wanna show you four points

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out of these seven verses that I read at the

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beginning,

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and they end with a warning.

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The very first two verses are positive.

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You can glance over them.

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Verses three through six are very negative.

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And then verse seven gives us a warning,

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but we're not gonna get past verse two for

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today.

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So the first point is this, the plea.

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Go back to verse one.

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And then the first part of verse two.

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Therefore be imitators of God as beloved

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children

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and walk in love.

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Now, stop right there.

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What I'm fixing to tell you is not anything

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that you haven't heard before.

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But remember, preaching is not designed

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to impart information to you that you retain

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from that moment for the rest of your whole

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life

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and you don't have to hear it again

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and in accord with which you will live.

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That's not what preaching is designed to do.

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The secret here, as Brother Ed Lacey used to

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say,

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is to keep telling you the same stuff you

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heard before

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over and over, but you forgot it

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in terms of your behavior.

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You understand?

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So you gotta keep hearing it.

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And I gotta keep hearing it.

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And I gotta keep learning it.

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To emote, intermittent repetition is the best

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instructor.

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I'll quote that till I die.

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If it isn't operative in your life,

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what you're learning here, you better listen

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more.

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You better listen more deeply.

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Because every time you hear it, guess what?

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You're more accountable than you used to be

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before a holy God.

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Look at verse one.

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"The imitators of God."

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That's not a suggestion.

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That's a command.

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And remember, you're being commanded

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to do something that you can't do.

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But as I said earlier,

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that is where the spirit of God comes into

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play.

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And check out what comes first.

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Therefore, we always gotta figure out

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what is there for, right?

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Well, that makes us look back to chapter four

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in verse 31.

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Remember this, let all bitterness and wrath

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and anger and clamor and slander

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be put away from you with all malice.

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Obviously, all of those things are the

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opposite of love, right?

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And when you're bitter towards somebody

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and you have a grudge and you're angry

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and you yell at them publicly, remember that's

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clamor,

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yelling publicly or talk about them behind

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their back,

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that slander, where's the love in any of that?

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On the other hand, next verse chapter four

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verse 32,

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be kind to one another, tenderhearted,

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forgiving each other just as God in Christ

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has also forgiven you and we covered all of

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that.

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And we said, remember, what does a lack of

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forgiveness do

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to make you bitter, which will eat you alive

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and angry

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and you'll slander people and you'll hold grud

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ges

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and what is the reason for that?

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Because you won't forgive, remember?

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And the reason you don't forgive

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is really you don't really love that person.

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So what Paul is saying in our text for today

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is,

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put away all of the anti-love stuff in your

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life.

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He doesn't mention love in verse 32.

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Look again, chapter four verse 32,

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he mentions, what does he say?

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Kindness, tenderheartedness and forgiveness.

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And so just to be sure you don't miss where

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that comes from,

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he gives to chapter one of verse five right

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behind this

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and he says, therefore.

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You see, in order to be those things,

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kindness, tenderheartedness, forgiveness,

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be imitators of God and walk in love.

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You see the flow there?

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Because love is kind, tenderhearted and

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forgiving.

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And we can measure our love by the thought of

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forgiveness

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because think of it this way.

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That is the way that God presents his love,

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right?

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God so loved the world that he gave us

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beautiful trees and mountains to look at.

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God so loved the world that he gave us

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beautiful sunrises and sunsets to see.

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God so loved the world that he made

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all these delicious fruits and things to eat.

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All of that is great.

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He did all of that under the heading of his

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common grace,

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which nobody deserves, but amazingly,

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every human being gets under common grace.

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But what's missing out of that?

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Those descriptions of God's love.

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God so loved the world that he took million,

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of vile, undeserving, wretched, God-hating,

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rebellious sinners, and he died on the cross

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to bear their sins and to forgive them

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and to impute them with his righteousness

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and bring them to eternal heaven forever when

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they die.

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That's how God so loved.

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Now that's way better than trees,

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mountains, sunsets and food, right?

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You see?

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And the point is, love is best measured

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in its ability to forgive.

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Even when we were dead and our trespasses and

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sin,

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God made us alive in Christ.

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Why?

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Because of his great mercy based upon his

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great love

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with which he loved us, the Bible said.

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Whereas John says, "For you don't love,

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you're not of God."

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Remember?

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And no matter what gets done to you,

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we always have to go back to that bombshell

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verse

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that we dropped the last time we were here in

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Ephesians,

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chapter four, verse 32.

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This is nuclear missile.

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Forgiving each other just as God in Christ

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has also forgiven you as a killer.

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Think about everything you've done in your

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life.

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God at the cost of the life of his son,

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forgiven, single, one of your sin, my sin.

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And think about this.

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John MacArthur has a great insight right here.

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Let's talk about for a second

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within the family of believers.

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No matter what harm another believer has done

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to you,

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you think about what I was talking about

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earlier

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about things pastors go through in churches

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and what people go through in churches

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when there's church hurt, we call it.

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No matter what a believer is done to hurt,

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harm, slander,

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or offend you, Christ has already paid for

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that sin.

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Think about it.

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So if you're thinking, "Boy, I'm gonna get

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them back,"

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or what they said, or what they did,

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you better think, "Why?"

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Jesus already suffered for what they did for

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you.

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What more do you want?

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What more blood do you want to pull out of

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that stone?

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That goes in the yikes folder, right?

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And so we have to come and keep it in mind.

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And the struggle is real for us

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that we are to forgive others just as God and

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Christ

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has forgiven us.

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Not only about you, but when I consider the

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holiness

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of God, I offend God a lot.

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But as a believer, do you know that incredibly

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,

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God doesn't ever say, that's it,

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I have taken as much as I am gonna take from

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you.

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That's the last time I'm done with you.

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He never says that.

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Because he knows that his son has taken every

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bit

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of the wrath that I deserve for my whole

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lifetime.

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So he never says that to us, Christian.

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But there's nothing left for him to do to me.

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'Cause it's all been done to Jesus,

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on my behalf, on Calvary's tree.

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And with that infinite example that we have

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in Christ of love and forgiveness toward us,

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Paul is now staying here is the way that I

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want you

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to walk for the rest of your life based on

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that.

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God through his holy spirit is saying, tell

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them, Paul,

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here in the last three chapters of Ephesians,

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tell them to imitate me.

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Walk in the same kind of love that never holds

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bitterness

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or a grudge or slanders with anger and malice.

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Let me tell you,

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if you're holding a grudge against somebody,

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it really isn't their problem, it's your

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problem.

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If you're a Christian, you have to drop it.

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If we're gonna walk in love

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as we've been instructed here, we have to

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forgive.

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And here's a tidbit in line with what we've

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already seen.

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The depth of your love is indicated

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by how much you forgive and also though,

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how much you know and realize and understand

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that you have been forgiven.

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Now, people with a past like mine have a

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little bit

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of a leg up on because it's a lot easier for

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us

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to realize how much we've been forgiven

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because we were so terrible as people

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before we came to Christ.

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But I'm here to tell you, this is for

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everybody.

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Whether you grew up in church or not.

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And for all of us to get to a proper place

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of realizing how much we have been forgiven,

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we have to do a deep dive in studying,

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one, the holiness of God,

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two, the depravity of man,

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and three, all the depths of the substitution

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ary atonement

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of the Lord Jesus Christ on the cross.

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And you will never plumb those depths in this

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life.

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I promise you, the depth of what the person

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in work of Christ means, you'll never plumb

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the depth.

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Our brains can't take in the fullness of what

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happened

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and the three hours of darkness

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as the wrath of God was being poured out upon

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the sun.

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You can study it as much as you can.

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You can understand it as much as you can.

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And the deeper you go in studying those three

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doctrines

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from the word of God,

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the more deeply you will understand

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how much you have been forgiven.

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Which in turn will definitely affect

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how much you forgive.

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You see how this work?

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So to summarize with a general statement,

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Paul is saying God loved us and forgave us

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and that's the way we are to be with each

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other.

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No bitterness, no anger, no wrath, none of

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that.

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So in that sense, be like God, he's saying.

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And we've been given the Holy Spirit

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to enable us to do this.

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Being an imitator of God sounds wild at first

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when you hear that.

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But not when you break it down in the biblical

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way.

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First again, it's impossible, it's only

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possible

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because there was a miracle that happened to

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you

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as a Christian.

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Regeneration, being born again is not

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something

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that you do.

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You have faith and then you're born again.

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People have that backward.

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Being born again is something that happens to

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you.

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It's all of God, it's monogistic.

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You're born again, your dead spirit is made

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alive

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when you became a Christian.

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And then 2 Peter 1.4 gives us a stunning truth

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that is true of every single believer.

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For by these, he has granted to us precious

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and magnificent promises so that by them

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you may become partakers of the divine nature.

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I can't even, I blows my mind.

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You can be like God, I can be like God

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from the aspect of understanding that it's

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true.

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Holy Spirit of the living God lives in,

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and dwells you as scripture says.

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And then secondly, this is possible by sanct

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ification.

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As the Spirit of God himself is continually

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working

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in your life and in my life again,

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what's the purpose to conform us to the image

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of Christ?

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And Paul is just telling us repetitively here

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in Ephesians,

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if you're gonna call yourself a child of God,

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then act like it, will you?

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That's what he's saying.

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There's nothing worse than when I hear

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somebody say,

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boy, so and so, claims to be a Christian.

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And then I get a laundry list of the examples

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in their behavior and their day-to-day life,

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how they don't act conform.

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That's terrible to hear.

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I didn't have time to find the exact quote,

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but I remember reading that one time there was

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a soldier

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and his name was Alexander and there was a

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fierce battle.

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And he got caught deserting the battle.

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He was running away from the battle.

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He was coward and they caught him.

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And they brought him before the supreme

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warrior,

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Alexander the Great.

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If you know anything about him from history,

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Alexander the Great was told why they brought

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the deserter before him.

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And he looked at the cowardly soldier in the

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eye

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and he said, soldier, drop your cowardice or

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drop your name.

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Don't use Alexander for a name

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if you're gonna come to the battle.

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You claim a name in Jesus.

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So Christian, you must walk to the best of

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your ability.

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1 John 2.6, very, very convicting.

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The one who says he abides in him ought

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himself

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to walk in the same manner as he.

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There's John telling us the same thing.

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This is not just New Testament folks.

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This has always been God's standard.

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God's law in the 10 commandments.

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That is not a crushing example of legalism.

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As you know, the three fold use of the law

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from Reformed theology, the law is a mirror.

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It shows us God's righteousness.

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It shows us our simpleness and is used as the

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school master

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to drive us to the gospel.

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The second use being the restraint of evil.

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The very law that we have in the United States

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is based in the law of God.

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And then three, the law of God is given as a

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guide

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of God's holy nature and character

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as a guide to follow for how we are to live

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in a way that's pleasing to God.

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And there are actually 10 aspects of love

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that are verbalized in the 10 commandments.

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The first table of the 10 commandments is love

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toward God.

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The second is love toward others.

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And I want to show you this.

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Let's look first in Exodus 20.

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Verse three, love is loyal.

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You shall have no other gods before me.

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And God is just saying, would you love me

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enough

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to not leave me for some other God that doesn

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't exist?

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Your spouse says, would you love me enough

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to not leave me for another, right?

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How much more so with God?

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Love is loyal, that's what he's saying.

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Secondly, love is faithful.

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Faithfulness is really loyalty extended.

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Look next in verses four through six.

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You shall not make for yourself an idol

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or any likeness of what is in heaven above or

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on earth

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and in the water under the earth.

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You shall not worship them or serve them

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for I the Lord your God, I'm a jealous God,

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visiting the iniquity of the fathers and the

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children

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on the third and fourth generation of those

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who hate me,

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but showing loving kindness to thousands who

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what?

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Love me and keep my commandments.

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So love is loyal and love is faithful.

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God is saying, if you love me, you're not

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gonna leave me.

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You're gonna stick with me.

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You're gonna be faithful.

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Next, love is reverent.

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Look at verse seven.

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You shall not take the name of the Lord your

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God in vain

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for the Lord will not leave him unpunished

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who takes his name in vain.

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You ever hear somebody say,

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you can't talk about my wife like that?

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You can't talk about my husband like that?

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Well, do we feel that way about God?

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When his name is dishonored,

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taking his name in vain is not just cursed

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word.

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We talked about that before.

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Next, love is intimate verses eight through 10

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.

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Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy.

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Six days you show labor and do all your work,

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but the seventh day is a Sabbath of the Lord

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your God

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and in it you shall not do any work.

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And then he goes on from there with the

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specific.

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And of course in the new covenant,

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the spirit of the law is carried over to right

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now.

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Sunday, the first day of the week, love is

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intimate.

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God says, look, you work six days

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and I give you the ability to do that and

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create wealth.

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But on this special day of the week,

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you set it aside to worship me.

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You set it aside to be with me

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in the gathering of God's people for worship.

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So there in the first table of the law,

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it's all about loving God,

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loyally, faithfully, reverently and intimately

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.

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That's easy to understand, right?

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Would, how did Jesus sum that up?

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Love the Lord your God with all your heart,

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soul, mind and strength, right?

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And then what did he say next?

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And love your neighbor as yourself.

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And that's the second part of the commandments

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.

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Love towards men, look at verse 12.

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Love is respectful.

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Honor your father and mother

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that your days may be prolonged in the land

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which the Lord your God gives you.

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Love honors, love respects.

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The best example is of your parents.

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Next, love is harmless.

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It produces no injury.

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Verse 13, you shall not murder.

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Love doesn't murder.

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It doesn't hurt anyone.

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It's harmless instead of hurting.

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It helps.

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Next, love is pure.

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Verse 14, you shall not commit adultery.

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Adultery defiles, but love seeks only purity.

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Next, love is unselfish.

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Verse 15, you shall not steal.

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Love doesn't steal, it gives.

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Number nine, love is truthful.

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Verse 16, you shall not bear false witness

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against your neighbor.

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If you lie against your neighbor,

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what you're trying to do, you're trying to

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hurt him.

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If you love your neighbor, you'll tell the

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truth, right?

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And you'll fulfill that commandment.

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Lastly, love is content.

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Verse 17, you shall not covet your neighbor's

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house.

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You shall not covet your neighbor's wife

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or his male servant or his female servant

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or his ox or his donkey or anything

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that belongs to your neighbor.

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Simply put, you're content with what you have.

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You realize God is sovereign over the material

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things

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in your life and the standard of living that

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you live.

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And you don't want somebody else's stuff.

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In fact, when somebody gets a new house or a

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new car,

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love says, that is fantastic.

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I am so happy for you that you got that

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and that the Lord has blessed you

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and Americans in the land of Pliny

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are on the struggle bus with that one, right?

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So love towards others is respectful, harmless

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, pure,

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unselfish, truthful, and content.

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That's the 10 Commandments.

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And when you combine the first part towards

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God

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and the second part toward man,

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you discover even in the 10 Commandments,

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the same thing, be like God.

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It's saying the same thing.

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The law is the reflection of God's character.

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So that sums up our first point, the plea.

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The imitators of God walk in love.

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I'm gonna close and I promise this will be

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quick.

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Point two, the pattern.

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Verse two, just as Christ loved you

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and gave himself up for us as an offering

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and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.

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Now we've already seen how does God love?

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He forgives sin, right?

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He forgives every Christian's sin, past,

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present,

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and future through Christ's work on the cross.

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So consequently, who's the example of that

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pattern?

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It's Christ.

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Look again, verse two, just as Christ also

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loved you.

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Now I've told you many times,

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biblical love is not an emotion.

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It's never defined as an emotion in the Bible.

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Biblical love.

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It can be emotional, but biblical love is an

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act.

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An act of self-sacrificial giving.

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Selflessness is the main ingredient of true

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love

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as defined by God.

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It is the absolute main ingredient

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of a healthy, successful marriage.

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Selflessness on the part of both.

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Biblical love is not looking for what you can

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get

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out of the other person.

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What you get out of it doesn't play any role

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at all.

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Consider Jesus, who definitely did not love us

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because of where he could get out of it.

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Huh?

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He loved us in spite of ourselves, right?

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All that we bring to the table is our sin.

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This is a love that doesn't exist

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on the basis of any reciprocation.

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It's humble, obedient, self-giving, self-sacr

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ificing love

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that says, I love you, not for what I get out

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of it,

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but because it's my nature to love.

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And what does that come with?

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A new nature.

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Only if you have a new nature can you love b

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iblically.

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But it doesn't come automatically

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even to the Christian.

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You have to work at it,

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just like everything in the Christian life.

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Look again at verse two.

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And walk in love just as Christ also loved you

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and gave.

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There it is.

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Self-sacrifice, himself up for us as an

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offering

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and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.

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To put it plainly, the whole act of Christ

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smelled good to God.

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'Cause it was his kind of love

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that being demonstrated over the cross.

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Jesus, again, was not looking

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for what he could get out in what he did.

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It was totally agape, self-sacrificing love

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on behalf of those that he came to save.

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And Paul uses the familiar language

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of the Old Testament sacrificial system.

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Every burnt offering sacrifice in the Old Co

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venant

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was there to provide this fragrant aroma

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that was to be acceptable to God.

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But remember, in the Old Covenant,

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only if it was offered with the right inward

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attitude

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would it be pleasing to him.

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And Paul uses this idea again

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at the very end of Philippians 4:18.

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Look at it.

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A fragrant aroma, acceptable sacrifice,

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well-pleasing to God.

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Core, the substitutionary atonement of Christ

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was the most perfect, well-pleasing sacrifice

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to God in all of human history.

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In fact, God was so well-pleased

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by the sacrifice of Christ

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that not only was his holy justice satisfied

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for every sin of every believer

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for all time paid for by Christ, punished in

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Christ.

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Not only that, he imputed Christ righteous.

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For every believer for all time,

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thereby making peace between God and man

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where there was only war from the fall on.

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And to prove holy justice was satisfied

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in Christ's work on the cross.

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What did he do to prove it?

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He rose, Jesus, there, yeah.

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His Jesus conquered death, hell and rain,

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which we're gonna celebrate next month.

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When God, the Father looked at the perfection

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in the character of Jesus

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and the peacemaking element of his work.

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And he saw the absolute devotion of love

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for sinners who deserve nothing but his wrath.

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What that did is it rose to his nostrils

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as a perfect, fragrant aroma,

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the only perfect, acceptable sacrifice to God.

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So let me ask you, Christian,

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do you want your life

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to be a fragrant aroma?

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Is that what you want, Esther?

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You must move, strive to be imitated

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imitator of God in the way that we learned it

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today,

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totally dependent upon the spirit of God

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and walk in love just as Christ loved you.

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For his, let's pray.

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Father, we thank you today for these

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tremendous,

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tremendous inspired by the Holy spirit

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and words of the Apostle Paul,

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not only teaching the church at Ephesus,

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but also teaching the whole of the church

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for all of human history and all of church

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history

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to the very last day when Christ returned

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in all of his glory.

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Help us, Lord, where we fail.

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Help us, Lord, to learn.

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Help us, Lord, to take this in and let it

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motivate us

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to live more to be imitators of you

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and walk in love just as Christ has loved us.

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And if there's anyone here

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who is not bowed the knee to King Jesus

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and saving faith and Bible was in it.

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What I pray that you would use the word preach

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this day

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to draw them to yourself.

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Stop them and fear them.

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In Jesus' name we pray.