Ephesians 4:2
Ep. 64

Ephesians 4:2

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A Verse-by-verse Expositional Sermon on Ephesians 4:2 from November 17.

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You have your Bibles open with me to Ephesians

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chapter four.

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Turn there or look on the screen, either one,

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we'll have the verses for you. And don't

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forget,

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keep reminding of you, the first three

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chapters of Ephesians give us heavy theology

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and doctrine of

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who Christ is and who we are in Christ. And

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then the second half of the epistle to the Eph

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esians

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is now that we know who we are, how are we to

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live? So it's divided right in the middle. And

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so

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now we're moving into how are we now to live?

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If you look there in verse one, Paul implores

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us.

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Remember, that word in the Greek is begs,

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literally, to walk in a manner worthy of the

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calling

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with which you have been called, the high

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calling to come to repentance and faith in

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Jesus Christ

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and be a Christian. And we took two sermons to

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consider. What does it mean to walk worthy?

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And in general, walking worthy means living a

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life that matches our position in Christ.

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And how do we learn to live up to who we are?

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How do we do that?

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If you remember from last time, I told you

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that the Greek word for worthy has to do with

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balance, one of my favorite words I say to you

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all the time. It's a word used of equalizing a

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scale.

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We are to equalize our behavior in accordance

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with our identity as Christians. If you

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profess

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with your lips to be a Christian, how are you

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living out that profession? Paul is calling us

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to live as who we are. We are children of the

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king of kings, to live up to our position.

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So again, we ask the question, okay, brother

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Philip, how do we do that? How do we walk

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worthy?

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Well, the answer comes next, as it often does,

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in verses two and three, and let's read them

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together.

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How do we walk worthy, Paul? With all humility

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and gentleness, with patience,

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showing tolerance for one another, in love,

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being diligent to preserve the unity of the

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Spirit

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in the bond of peace. Those are five things in

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there that are characteristics of the worthy

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walk. Look here, humility, gentleness, also

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translated in other translations, meekness,

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and patience, also translated long suffering

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in other translations, showing tolerance in

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love

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and in unity, five characteristics. This is

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where it starts, and humility, the first one,

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is basically the overarching principle, and it

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really encompasses the other four.

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They really all fit together, one another, and

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yet, yet at the same time, they're different.

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And so we're going to walk through a

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progression with these characteristics.

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Wherever you find true biblical humility,

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there will be gentleness, there will be

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patience.

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It will result in tolerance for one another,

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in love, with the end result being that last

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thing in verse three, unity. So they're all

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tied together, but there's shades of

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differences.

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But again, the key to the whole thing is

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humility. Now, true humility

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is a very elusive thing. We talk a lot about

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humility in the Bible, but do we really

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understand it?

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Just exactly what is humility. Somebody said,

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"It's that thing that when you finally got it,

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I'm humble," then you lost it right there.

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Like I said last week about the humble brag,

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remember? So maybe it's when you don't know

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you've got it that you really got it,

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but that isn't necessarily true either,

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because some of us know we haven't got it,

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because we know it's proud. So it is a very el

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usive reality, and yet at the same time,

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it is a very necessary thing if we are going

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to walk worthy of the calling with which we

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have been

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called. Now, a prime example is, of course,

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Jesus, the self-existent second person of the

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Trinity

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who created all things, who sustains all

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things in the universe. He came here before in

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glory,

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exalted infinitely above any human being who

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ever lived, and yet Paul says this in Philipp

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ians 2,

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verse 8, about Jesus being found in appearance

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as a man. He, look at that word, humbled

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himself

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by becoming obedient to the point of death,

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even death on a cross. I want you to think

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just that he became a man. Starting as a fetus

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in his mother's womb, consider the condesc

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ension

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of the one who existed from all eternity as

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God, allowing himself to become totally

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dependent

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upon his earthly mother as a fetus, as an

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infant, as a toddler. It's extraordinary.

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It's mind-boggling. There's no reality like it

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in all of human history. And in Matthew

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chapter 11,

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verse 29, he said, "For I am gentle and humble

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in heart." Consider Jesus born in a stable.

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After he left home to start his ministry, he

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never owned a home. He never owned property.

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He never accumulated any wealth. He was buried

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in a borrowed tomb.

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And it's extremely convicting to know what

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John teaches us in 1 John 2, 6,

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the one who says right here, he abides in him,

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ought himself to walk in the same manner as he

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walked. And there's that word walk again,

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lifestyle. He walked in humility every day.

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And that is something that is so opposite to

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the culture of our society in this day and age

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.

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Our culture does not accept humility. We exalt

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pride, especially here in America.

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When do you hear great speeches from any

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politicians about humility? Never.

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In fact, all through history, with Satan

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behind the scenes, of course,

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most societies have looked down on humility as

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weakness, as something to be despised.

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We think of the humble person as the milk

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toast beta male who's afraid of his own shadow

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. That's

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what comes to our mind as Americans in the

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culture. But does that define true humility

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as we learn about it from Scripture? In our

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country, we love to talk about the things that

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we are proud of. We always say how we're proud

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of so and so. And there's a place for that,

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certainly with your children, especially in

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your grandchildren. They do make an

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accomplishment.

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We're proud of you. I'm proud of you. You

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should say that to your children and

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grandchildren. But

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we take here in our country boasting and par

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ading and exalting people to a whole other

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level.

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We are forever pinning awards on everybody. I

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mean, today every kid gets a trophy just for

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participating. It wasn't like that when I was

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a kid. Hollywood and the music industry love

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giving

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out awards. And millions of people watch the

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award shows and watch them be awarded when

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they do.

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You have to understand why this is. We are

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proud by nature. As sons and daughters of Adam

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as fallen people, we come into this world

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fallen and we're proud by nature. But here in

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Scripture,

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God has called us to the exact opposite. He

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has called us to humility

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while the world throws pride at us constantly.

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As you know, pride was the first sin ever

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committed.

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The angel Lucifer decided that he would exalt

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himself above God. You can read about it in

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Isaiah 14. You can read about it in Ezekiel

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chapter 28. The whole story is in both those

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texts. And

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remember, you've heard many preachers say this

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and I'm going to say it again. He got the eye

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disease.

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I will be like the most high. I will be ex

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alted. I will, I will, I will five times he

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said it.

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And then one time God said, no, you won't and

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threw him out of heaven. Pride was the first

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sin.

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I will be exalted. I will exalt myself and

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people are still staying and doing that.

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Today, C.S. Lewis said this, for pride is

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spiritual cancer. It eats up the very

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possibility of love

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or contentment or even common sense. But in

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Proverbs 11 verse two, it says,

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when pride comes, then comes dishonor with the

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humble is wisdom. Proverbs 16 five says this,

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everyone who is proud in heart is an ab

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omination to the Lord. Assuredly, he will not

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be unpunished.

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Proverbs 16, 18, pride goes before destruction

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and a haughty spirit before stumbling.

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Proverbs 21 for haughty eyes and a proud heart

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. The lamp of the wicked is sin. So the

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scripture is

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clear about pride. On the other hand, true

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humility, biblical humility is a virtue of the

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Christian.

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It should always grieve believers to see other

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Christians or even ourselves engaged in pride.

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So how do we overcome pride? Well, let me tell

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you, if you really sit and think about it and

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you

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don't see it overcoming pride as a battle that

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you have to engage in with yourself every

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single day,

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you are a long ways away from getting to what

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we're dealing with here. It's a battle. It's

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in us.

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Pride is a sin because it is the sin of

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competing with God. Pride lifts me up and

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steals from God

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his glory. In fact, God says in his book, I

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will not give my glory to another.

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In fact, if you think you can compare yourself

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with God, Isaiah two has a word for you.

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In verses 10 and 11, listen to what he says.

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Enter the rock and hide in the dust

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from the terror of the Lord and from the

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splendor of His majesty. The proud look of man

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will be

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abased and the loftiness of man will be

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humbled and the Lord alone will be exalted in

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that day.

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Whether you believe that or not, it does not

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affect the reality of it and one day every

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knee

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will bow. Every tongue will confess that Jesus

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Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father.

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The scripture promises that every president,

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every king, every prime minister, every low

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person,

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every high person, it doesn't matter. It'll be

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every human being who ever lived in history.

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God alone is worthy of exaltation. God alone,

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no one, ever, else, nothing you've ever done,

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nothing I've ever done, nothing we've ever

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done or will ever do that's worthy of glory

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or worthy of honor in comparison to God.

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Nothing. The Puritans were right to place the

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emphasis

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from scripture on designating all of us,

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including themselves as worms compared to God.

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We are worms. We are lower than worms. If you

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don't understand that,

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you're not understanding the God of the Bible.

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All right. It says next in Isaiah 2.12,

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"For the Lord of hosts will have a day of reck

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oning against everyone who is proud

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and lofty and against everyone who is lifted

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up that he may be abased." That is a serious

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word.

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The same theme goes on for the rest of that

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chapter. And what he is simply saying is this,

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God is going to judge pride in particular. The

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people of Israel and Isaiah's day,

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go back and read. They paraded pride just like

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we do today.

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I mean, think about our nation for a minute.

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Keeping up with the Joneses. That is a

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uniquely

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American saying that many people are wholesale

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engaged in, whether they have a lot or a

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little,

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as far as earthly terms are considered. So

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many people in our country are very concerned

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about having the best car and the biggest

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house and the best clothes and the newest

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electronics

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and the nicest stuff. They're consumed with

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that. And the underlying reason for that right

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there

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is pride. Thinking of ourselves is better than

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other folks. Looking down on others,

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because through your stuff, you are trying to

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display how successful you are and how others

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below you are not. Now, don't get out of

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balance. There are things that we need, right,

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to survive,

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to live. But as you well know, there is a big

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difference between what you need and what you

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want.

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Big difference. And when getting what you want

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is for the sake of having more

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and better than other people so that you can

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exalt yourself, that's pride.

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And also don't get out of balance with making

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good money and enjoying the blessings of God

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when you do make good money. Making a good

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living and having nice things are not a sin at

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all.

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There's no virtue in poverty for poverty's

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sake, but it's what you do with what you have

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that is the issue. If you're a Christian and

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you're living your life with the prime

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motivation

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of bringing glory to God with your life, what

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you do with what you have will be very

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different

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from keeping up with the Joneses. You won't

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care about the Joneses, one eye open, if you

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're living

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for the glory of God. Remember James 4-6, "God

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is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to

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the

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humble. God is against pride. God is for

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humility." Proverbs 15-33, "The fear of the

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Lord is

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instruction for wisdom and before honor comes

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humility." Proverbs 27-2, "Let another praise

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you

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and not your own mouth, a stranger and not

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your own lips." Let somebody else do that.

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If you have any tendency whatsoever to be

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proud, go back and read Ephesians 2 and who

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you were

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before you came to Christ, dead in your tresp

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asses and sins, by nature a child of wrath and

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it goes

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on and on. And the only reason that we've been

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changed, the only reason we have faith in the

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Lord Jesus Christ is the sovereign hand of God

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invaded our life to change us. And really,

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if you think about it, every sin before God

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really has its root in pride. If you trace it

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all the way

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back, because all sin is a defiance of God and

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His right to be God. Wherever you find

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problems,

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whether in the family, in the workplace, in

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the church, if you trace the root of the

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problem at

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some point in your tracing, you're going to

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find some pride. That's why when anybody used

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to go to

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a brother Huey Mote with a problem that they

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had with another person, most of the time

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before you

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left, you were the problem according to him. A

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lot of times people didn't go back with a

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problem

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about another person for the second time. They

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got enough dose in that first time. No matter

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what

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you've done in your Christian life by way of

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ministry or service or Bible reading or church

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attendance or prayer, if you have never walked

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in humility, you have never known what it

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means to

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walk worthy of the calling with which you have

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been called. That's why the very first point

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Paul

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brings up here in verse 2. How are we going to

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walk worthy of this calling? Paul verse 2 with

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all humility. I mean, you can't be saved

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without humility. Jesus said in Matthew 18,

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verses 3 to 4, "Truly I say to you, unless you

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are converted and become like children,

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you will not enter the kingdom of heaven."

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Whoever then, look at that word,

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humbles himself as this child. There's your

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example. He is the greatest in the kingdom of

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heaven.

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When you come to Christ in repentance and

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faith, you don't bring anything with you,

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but your sin. That's all you have to offer him

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. You acknowledge before him that you deserve

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nothing

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except his wrath. You recognize in yourself

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your complete spiritual bankruptcy at that

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moment.

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You come with no works whatsoever to present

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before him. You come as a beggar seeking only

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mercy and grace from him. You can only

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approach God for salvation in complete

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humility as a sinner.

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That's why the gospel offends so many people

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when you give it to them. That's the only

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right attitude that you can have in order to

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come to Christ on his terms is humility.

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And then when the miracle of regeneration

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happens and you repent, you believe in Christ,

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and once you're in the family by grace through

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faith alone, there's no other way to walk

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worthy

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of this great calling once you're in humility.

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The primary standard of Christian living, the

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very

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top characteristic of every Christian should

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be humility. Now go back to our text.

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Remember, there are five characteristics here

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in verses two and three of a worthy walk, so

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don't

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plan to get too far into the five. The goal of

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everything though here is in verse three,

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the unity of the spirit and the bond of peace.

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That's the goal that we're heading to. Paul

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continually wants us to know that God desires

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unity in his church. We saw that over and over

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here in the first three chapters of Ephesians.

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Remember, we are one man, one body, one family

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,

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one household, one habitation of the spirit.

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We are to be opposite of the world in the

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church.

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You know yourself because we all live here.

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The world is full of disharmony. How many

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people

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do you encounter in workplace, wherever you

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are, Monday to Saturday, on social media,

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full of bitterness and anger and resentment?

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And here in our culture, it's every man for

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himself most of the time. But we, as the

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church, we are to be an oasis of unity on

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display before

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the outside world. Even though we are a small

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church here, one of our greatest traits as a

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church

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is that here we have unity. And that's not a

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statement of pride, it's just the truth.

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We do. We know it. We're here every week. We

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live in this church family because remember,

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the bigger the church, the more problems you

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have. The last possibility of unity you have.

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And we just happen to be a whole lot less

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sinners bumping into one another every time

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we come together than many other churches. But

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we do have unity. There are churches as small

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as ours that don't have unity. So we have to

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strive more than anything to keep the unity

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that we have in our church. So that we can say

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to others outside, not look what we can do,

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but rather look what Christ can do with a

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group of sinners saved by grace, but sinners

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still.

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You can have unity in this church that you

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rarely find in the outside world with groups

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of people.

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Because for sure, if everybody in a church is

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walking in pride, you'll never have unity in

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that church. When everybody is out for what

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they want and what they can get, unity is out

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of the

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picture. But where you have people walking all

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individually in humility, there you will find

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unity. And as always, listen carefully, not in

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perfection. Perfection for any Christian

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doesn't happen until you get to heaven. Not in

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perfection, but all of us walking in humility

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in the direction of our life. Not perfectly,

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but striving for that goal. Sometimes att

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aining it,

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sometimes not. Getting back up on the horse

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and trying again when you fail. Paul exhorts

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us in

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Philippians two, three, do nothing from

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selfishness or empty conceit. Look at that

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word, but with

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humility of mind, regard one another as more

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important than yourselves. Unity happens in

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a church, in a family, in a workplace. Peace

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happens. We are all together regarding one

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another

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as more important than ourselves when we are

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looking first to the needs of others before

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our own needs. That brings about a unity and a

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peace that is naturally, humanly, unexplain

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able.

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It doesn't exist outside a group of unified

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believers. That just doesn't happen in the

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world.

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But that is what God wants in his church, that

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kind of unity. And for sure, that's something

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that we

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have to work at and be intentional in because

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it does not come naturally to us. But for

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Christians

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and the power of walking in the spirit, it is

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possible. You can. Now, this phrase here in

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verse two, look at it all humility. In the

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Greek, that means total humility, nothing else

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,

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no exception in everything. Man, that's very

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convicting. This means that the standard that

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Paul is giving us is humility in every

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attitude, every relationship, every act, every

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deed he is

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saying we are to to manifest humility. And if

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you don't think you have to struggle and

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battle

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and work at that every day, again, I'm going

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to tell you one more time, you're a long way

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from it.

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And here's the second part to that Greek. It

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means low. It sometimes refer to as for poor

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people,

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low, low class in society. It's also used to

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speak of unimportant.

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And what it's getting at is that is how we're

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to think of ourselves as low

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as unimportant. That's directly opposite of

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how the world wants you to think of how our

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culture

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wants you to think. Think about all the people

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on social media wanting to be Facebook and

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Twitter

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famous. Think of all the people who actually

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strive to boost their self-esteem based on the

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number of likes that they get on social media.

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That isn't especially a big problem with our

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young people. When social media engagement

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goes wrong, it can lead to suicide. And it has

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many

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times based on the likes and shares that

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somebody doesn't get or based on the bullying

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on social

29:02

media. When somebody posts something, it's a

29:04

terrible problem. And the root of it all,

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pride.

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I wish we could go back to no social media. I

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put us out there on social media because that

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's

29:17

where the people are. That's the public square

29:21

now. But putting us out there means putting me

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out

29:26

there. And I would just rather it be like the

29:29

old days and it just didn't exist. So I didn't

29:32

have to do it. But those days are gone forever

29:35

. They're not coming back. And we have to be

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wise

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about what we put out there on social media.

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And always we have to ask ourselves some

29:46

questions

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before we hit share or send or whatever the

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button is you're pressing. First question is,

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before I put this on there, will this glorify

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God?

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Or how about will this bring reproach upon the

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name of God that I'm fixing to share?

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Or how about will this affect my witness as a

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Christian before I share it? Let me tell you,

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I'm far from perfect with that, especially on

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Twitter. I get a little more dicey on Twitter

30:15

if

30:15

you follow me on Twitter, especially in a

30:18

political year like this one. But I'm striving

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to be better.

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But that should always be the standard that we

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're striving for in all of our engagement,

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both inside the church and out. The world says

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we ought to always think of ourselves as

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something

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great. Big emphasis on self-esteem has to be

30:40

high. And you want to raise good confident

30:44

children who

30:44

are confident in their self, but Scripture

30:46

tells us self is our problem. It's exactly the

30:51

opposite

30:51

of what psychology tells us. The Scripture

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says we are to live selfless lives. The

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Scripture calls

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us to die to self. And Paul is telling us here

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to think of ourselves as love. Remember, he

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says

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in Romans, we are not to think more highly of

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ourselves than we ought to think. How ought we

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to think with all humility? An interesting

31:16

note here is that the word for humility was

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coined by

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Christians because that word never appears in

31:27

classical Greek. Neither the Romans or the

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Greeks

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had a word for humility. They didn't have one.

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And the reason why? They despised

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the attitude of humility. They just used a der

31:42

ogatory word in its place. They saw humility

31:47

as cowardly and they mocked anybody who

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thought of themselves in that way. But in the

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Christian life,

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it's the opposite. Humility is to be the

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primary virtue. What did Paul say? Even though

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he was,

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wow, extremely very well educated, he had

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traveled the world. He was extremely gifted as

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a speaker

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and as a writer. He said, there's only one

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thing I boast in. It's Christ. If I'm going to

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boast,

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I'm going to boast about Christ. I'm going to

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boast in Christ. And of course,

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just look at the life of Jesus, the standard,

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acquainted with grief, hated without a cause,

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homeless, betrayed, condemned, mocked,

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numbered with criminals beaten and nailed to a

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cross.

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It was his life. Even though he was God in

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human flesh,

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he walked in total humility when he was here

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as a man, tempted in all points,

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as are we yet without sin, the Bible says. And

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look at Psalm 138 in verse 6.

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It says, although the Lord is exalted, yet he

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regards, look at that, the lowly,

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but the haughty he knows from afar. You see?

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That's what we're to be striving for. It's all

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over

33:10

the Bible. Not exalting ourselves, not

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thinking we've made it. We're big time looking

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down on the

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people below us. It's the opposite. And we are

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to think of ourselves, listen carefully, not

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as

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doormats for people to run over. That's not

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what we're talking about. That's not the idea,

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but as low in biblical humility, with

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understanding, with wisdom.

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As Paul says, "Enact serving the Lord with all

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humility of mind." If you don't see yourself,

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Christian, as anything more than a humble

33:46

servant of the King, you will never walk

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worthy of the

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calling with which you have been called. "I am

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what I am by the grace of God," Paul said.

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That has to be our mantra every day. That's

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what our attitude should always be.

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Now, let me close out with just three short

34:06

points of application for you.

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I'm going to give you three characteristics of

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true humility. Okay, you ready? Number one,

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self-awareness. You ever met anybody with no

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self-awareness? We all have, right?

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True humility starts with self-awareness. Hum

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ility is, one commentator says,

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"The virtue by which a man becomes conscious

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of his own unworthiness."

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Humility starts with really looking at

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yourself honestly. And that involves, listen

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to me,

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a daily, honest confession of your sins before

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God. You don't have to go to anybody else but

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him.

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One mediator between God and man, the man

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tries Jesus.

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Now, at this point, I've got to take a little

35:07

break and remind you,

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there's two levels of forgiveness in the

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Christian faith. Number one,

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you come on Bible repentance and saving faith

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to the Lord Jesus Christ. Imposition,

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judicially, you're forgiven of all of your

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sins. Past, present, and future. Christ takes

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all of your sin upon himself on the tree, on

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the cross. Now, all of God's wrath is poured

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out

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upon Christ as your substitute on the cross.

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All of his righteousness is imputed to you,

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and all of those sins are forgiven. That's imp

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osition, but there's a second level

35:38

of forgiveness. We're living here. We're

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breathing in and exhaling out God's air,

35:44

and as we do as Christians, our inner redeemed

35:47

spirits are completely and always wanting to

35:51

do every second of every day that what is

35:53

right and fitting before God, but we're enc

35:55

ased in

35:55

bodies of flesh, of spirit wars against the

35:58

flesh, the flesh wars against the spirit.

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That's how God has ordained for us to grow as

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Christians, to go through this struggle.

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And so therefore, since we do sin every day as

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Christians, saved by grace, but sinners still,

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we need to go before God in daily prayer and

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acknowledge that reality. And then you can

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turn and say, "And I thank you, Lord, that all

36:19

my sins are forgiven." You get to go right to

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the gospel and preach the gospel to yourself,

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which you should do every single day, because

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we

36:26

can mask who we really are, not only with

36:29

others, but do you know we can even deceive

36:32

ourselves?

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We can convince our own selves, even as

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Christians, you know, really, I'm doing pretty

36:38

good. I read my Bible this morning, I prayed.

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I mean, that's why daily you need to get real

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with God every day. As I've said many times,

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think about, just think about it for a second.

36:52

There is no sense putting on a show for God.

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He's omniscient for heaven's sake. He knows

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what

37:00

you are going to say or think before you do.

37:03

So you might as well just lay it all out there

37:05

for

37:05

Him, because He knows it all anyway. And be

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honest with Him every day, on a daily basis.

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Look, as Christians, we are always pressing on

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toward the mark, as Paul teaches us, but don't

37:18

kid yourself. You are not at the mark. I am

37:20

not at the mark. We are not at the mark. We

37:24

have not

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arrived. We don't arrive until we get to

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heaven, but we are striving. We are striving.

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We don't

37:34

obtain the prize this side of glory, but we

37:36

are striving to live in a way that brings

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glory to

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God. So proper self-awareness daily about

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where you are right now in your Christian life

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when you

37:47

pray and you should daily, when you get away

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from daily, I can tell you that's where you

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start doing

37:55

things like comparing yourself with other

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people. That's what you start to do. I mean,

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we can always

38:02

find people worse than us, right? Really, I'm

38:05

not that bad. I'm like that guy, right? Kind

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of like

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when you're in school as a kid and you brought

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home a C, and what did you say? Well,

38:16

everybody else

38:17

got Ds and Fs, right? There's always a lower

38:22

standard that you can compare yourself to. Don

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't do

38:28

that. Just compare yourself with yourself. It

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's bad enough when you go before God in prayer,

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deal

38:38

honestly with Him. He wants you to do that. He

38:41

doesn't want you to put on a show before Him.

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If you do that daily, I promise you you will

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be headed in the direction of a healthy,

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mature,

38:51

spiritual Christian life. Number two, Christ-

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awareness. If you are not the standard who is,

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Christ is.

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When we compare ourselves with others or even

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with our own selves, that's when we get proud.

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But compare yourself with Christ, and you'll

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go straight to humility when you do that.

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Remember, I quoted earlier, I'm going to say

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it again. This is very convicting. 1 John 2-6.

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The one who says he abides in him, ought

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himself to walk lifestyle, live in the same

39:35

manner as he

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won't. There's your standard. That's the high

39:42

bar that you're to be reaching for. And if you

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ever

39:46

say, "I've reached it," you need to go back to

39:48

the starting gate because you haven't in this

39:50

life,

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but you're to be reaching for it. Comparing

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yourself with Christ is the most spiritually

39:56

healthy thing that you can do because it keeps

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you in check with who you really are.

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And then we broaden it out to number three,

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the last one, God-awareness. What's the

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difference?

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Well, I want you to think about this. When we

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see Christ in the Scripture,

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most of the time, except for parts of the book

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of Revelation and other parts in the epistles

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and

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stuff, but most of the time, especially in the

40:25

Gospels, when we see Christ and we encounter

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Christ in the Scriptures, we see him as a man.

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Think about it. We just went over the feeding

40:35

of the 5,000 last week in the book of John. We

40:37

see him there as a man with this great miracle

40:39

,

40:41

and he was the only perfect man. But as a man,

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he always gave the right answers.

40:48

We give so many dumb answers, especially me.

40:53

And he always said the exact right thing at

40:58

the exact right time, every time. He always

41:03

had the perfect attitude in response to every

41:08

single

41:09

situation. I fail at that so often. He knew

41:14

exactly in every case how to help everybody

41:19

who needed help in exactly the right way that

41:22

they needed to be helped. And I fail at that

41:25

too,

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in so many ways. But we see him in the Word in

41:30

every situation as a man acting in all those

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ways

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and more. And there, as he was a man when he

41:40

was here, there's our standard, our ultimate

41:43

standard

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right there. But then you broaden it all out.

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After you read another amazing account and

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another

41:53

amazing account of Jesus' life and how Jesus

41:56

navigated life when he was here, as you do

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that,

42:01

you begin to realize this is God. That's how

42:06

he can behave this way.

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This is God who came to earth in human flesh.

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We weren't expecting to act any other way.

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And when you back it all the way out, then you

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really become aware of your lowliness.

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What happened when Isaiah compared himself

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with God? When he saw God high and lifted up

42:37

on his throne in Isaiah 6, the very first

42:40

words out of his mouth, "Woe is me." Remember?

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He saw God and he said, "Woe is me, for I am

42:51

undone. I am a man of unclean lips, and I

42:56

dwell

42:56

amidst a people with unclean lips." That was

43:00

his first reaction to being in the presence

43:03

of a holy God. How did you get that immediate

43:06

awareness, Isaiah? How did you come to that

43:08

humility? He says next, "For my eyes have seen

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the king," he said. And instantly, "Woe is me

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."

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That was his reaction. That's the right

43:18

perspective. When Paul said, "I am the chief

43:22

of sinners,"

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that's the apostle Paul who wrote two-thirds

43:25

of the New Testament, who wrote this epistle

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of

43:27

Ephesians. That was self-awareness from Paul.

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Do you remember when Peter looked at Jesus

43:35

after he pulled in that huge net of fish after

43:39

fishing all night and they hadn't caught

43:42

anything?

43:42

And Jesus said, "Put it on over on this side."

43:44

And Peter said, "Okay, just do what he wants."

43:49

When Peter saw all those fish in that net, he

43:51

said, "First thing, depart from me. Oh,

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Lord, get away from me, for I am a sinful man

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," Peter said. That is Christ-awareness of who

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he is.

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When Isaiah saw God and he said, "Woe is me, I

44:06

am undone," literally, it means, "Woe is me,

44:10

I am literally unraveling before you as I look

44:12

at you." That's God-awareness. It's the

44:16

attitude of

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Psalm 8-4. "What is man that you take thought

44:19

of him and the Son of man that you care for

44:22

him?

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Who am I in comparison to God Almighty? I am a

44:26

worm." That is a good start, but that didn't

44:30

get to

44:31

the full reality. Humility, chief perspective

44:35

that we're to have. We're calling. We're going

44:39

to

44:39

walk in the way Paul is calling us to. Now,

44:43

next time, we're going to move on to verse 2.

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And gentleness. It's also translated there, me

44:54

ekness. Meekness is not weakness. And we're

45:04

going to

45:04

learn that if you come back after next Sunday

45:07

when we're at Foster Road, Lord willing, and

45:11

we'll be

45:11

back in this book of Ephesians. Let's pray

45:15

together. Father, in heaven, we thank you for

45:18

amazing and profound teaching from the apostle

45:21

Paul. It sets us straight in the primary

45:26

characteristic of humility. Lord, help us.

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Help us to strive every day to be humble.

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Help us to strive every day for unity in our

45:37

church. Help us to strive every day to walk

45:40

worthy

45:41

of the high calling which we have been called,

45:44

the Christian faith, servants of the king,

45:47

children of the king, adopted by grace into

45:51

the family of God. What a wonderment it is

45:54

to be a part of God's family by faith. I pray,

45:57

Father, for your blessings upon your people

46:00

here today. I pray if anyone here has not come

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to Bible repentance and saving faith,

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that you would draw them with your spirit. And

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for the rest of us today, Lord, maybe go

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back out into the world to live for your glory

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. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.