Ephesians 4:2 Part 2
Ep. 65

Ephesians 4:2 Part 2

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A verse-by-verse expository sermon on Ephesians 4:2 from December 1.

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We can follow along in your Bible, or you can

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follow along on the screen.

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It seems like a month since we've been here,

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since we were at the other place last week.

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Return now, and if you remember, we started

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this fourth chapter.

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We did two sermons to cover the first verse,

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and now we are on our second sermon in the

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second verse.

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Now, it doesn't always take this long, it's

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not always this slow,

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but some texts require us to go through each

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part,

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and each word in a manner in which we can

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really soak in this very important passage.

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And we're actually looking, if you remember,

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in verses 1 to 3,

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in the context of one outline that we're

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working our way through.

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And this whole text comes to us under the

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heading of what we've already seen,

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walking worthy of the calling with which you

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have been called.

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So let's start today just by reading all three

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verses.

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Also, Paul writes, "Therefore, I, the prisoner

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of the Lord, implore you,"

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remember that's "beg you to walk in a manner

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worthy of the calling with which you have been

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called."

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Okay, what is that? Well, with all humility

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and gentleness,

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with patience, showing tolerance for one

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another in love,

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being diligent to preserve the unity of the

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Spirit in the bond of peace.

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Now, I want you to consider this thought as we

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get going.

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The Christian life is not so much a matter of

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what you do.

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In the very first place, before you get to

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that, it's a matter of who you are.

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And remember, to walk worthy, and specifically

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that word "walk" that we see here in our text,

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is simply the idea of daily conduct, daily

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behavior, daily living, walking in the Spirit,

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you remember.

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How do you live your life out as a professing

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Christian?

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And as we have learned, the how to do that, in

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particular here in this text, is what we find

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some examples of in verses 2 and 3.

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And please notice in those two verses that we

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just read, Paul never discusses an action that

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we do.

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Just scan those verses. He never discusses in

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those verses 2 and 3 a work.

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All he ever discusses in these two verses is

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an attitude,

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because the worthy walk again in the first

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place is not so much a matter of what you do,

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I'll say it again, as it is a matter of who

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you are.

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And what do I mean by that?

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Well, there are plenty of people who can do

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the deeds of Christianity, we'll call them

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outwardly,

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and not be the person inwardly.

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That's the main hypocrisy that the Bible

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speaks of.

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It is possible, watch this, for a person to

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produce what we could call action fruit.

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Outwardly, only outward praise to God, like we

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just did, we praised God in here as we sung.

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Outward good works, good deeds, outward even

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witnessing.

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You can have, as a professing Christian, that

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kind of outward action fruit,

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without actually having the attitude fruit on

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the inside.

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So what is the attitude fruit?

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Well, at the very top of the list is the fruit

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of the Spirit.

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Show these love, joy, peace, gentleness,

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goodness, faith, meekness, self-control.

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Those are examples of attitude fruit.

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Those are at the high bar of attitude fruit,

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the fruit of the Holy Spirit coming out in

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your life.

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Now, if you have action fruit without attitude

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fruit, that is called legalism.

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You are legalistically doing the outward deeds

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without the inward reality.

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But if you first have attitude fruit in check,

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love, joy, peace, gentleness, goodness, faith,

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meekness, self-control,

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and others, as we're going to see, that then

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will produce the right kind of action fruit.

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That is genuine spirituality when you have

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both things working at the same time.

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So let's apply that and those thoughts to

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walking worthy of the calling with which you

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have been called in this text.

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That doesn't start with the action. You see

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that? You look at those verses.

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The action is going to come later. We're going

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to get to the action in this chapter at some

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point.

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And it all starts with the attitude.

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The Christian life works this way. Really,

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where it all starts, of course, is with the

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Holy Spirit

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that invoels the Christian believer. He, and

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yes, the Holy Spirit is a he, the Holy Spirit

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is a person of the Trinity.

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He works through your attitude.

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And then, as he works through your attitude

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fruit, that produces the right action.

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You with me? You getting this?

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So what are the attitudes that Paul gives us

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under the heading of the worthy walk here in

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verses two and three?

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What are the attitudes? Well, you remember we

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started on the one in the previous two sermons

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, humility, right?

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That was right out of the gate.

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And then gentleness also translated meekness,

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patience, showing tolerance for one another

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and love being diligent to preserve the unity

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of the spirit and the bond of peace.

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All of those are attitude fruit.

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Now, there are a lot of professing Christians

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who don't get this.

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For many Christians, walking the Christian

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walk, living the Christian life means simply

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this.

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The actions of going to church, the actions of

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putting money in the money in the plate,

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reading the Bible even occasionally.

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Of course, the good old, I don't cuss, smoke,

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drink or chew or go with girls who do, right?

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You got that in line.

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So for many professing Christians, those kind

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of external only outward definitions behavior,

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that is Christianity, that in and of itself.

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In reality, when the attitude is right, what

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those things are simply outward manifestations

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of true saving faith on the inside.

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When the attitude is right, then you have

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attitude fruit.

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Again, the biblical issue is not what we do

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apart from who we are in Christ.

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It's what we are that results in what we do.

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And that's why when Paul calls for us to walk

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worthy of the calling with which we have been

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called, he then immediately in verses two and

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three goes straight to these sets of attitudes

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.

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Now, the first of those attitudes, again, that

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we looked at in the first two summits was

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found in verse two, humility.

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And if you remember, that is a very strong

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Greek word there, the emphasis of total

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humility, that the word is strong.

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It's the complete absence of self.

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It is the total absence of selfishness.

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And that is the bottom line of Christian

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living.

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And we talked all about many of the different

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ways in which we are tempted to be proud in

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those last two messages.

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If you didn't hear them, you can go back

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online and listen.

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I won't cover all that again.

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But remember, humility in this text is the

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umbrella over all the rest of these attitudes

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that we're going to look at.

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And one produces another.

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Next, look in verse two, we see the word gent

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leness.

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Now, that word is better translated, meekness,

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and it is in some other translations, meekness

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.

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And you cannot have meekness without humility.

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There is no such combination as pride and meek

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ness.

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Meekness does not go along with pride.

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They are mutually exclusive.

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Meekness is a byproduct of humility that we've

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already looked at.

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Where there is humility, there will inevitably

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be meekness.

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And you can keep going, and we will in this

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text.

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Where there is meekness, there will be

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patience.

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That's next on Paul's List.

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And where there is patience, there will be

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showing tolerance for one another in love.

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And where those things occur, there will be

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the diligence of preserving the unity of the

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spirit and the bond of peace.

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So you see, it's a progression that Paul is

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giving us in these two verses.

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But today, we're only going to focus on meek

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ness.

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Again, gentleness here in the New American

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Standard that I'm preaching out of translation

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.

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Same Greek word for both.

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Gentleness, meekness. Same Greek word.

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What is meekness?

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Well, the world outside of the Christian faith

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doesn't really understand the depth of the

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meaning of this word.

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The world defines meekness as a deficiency in

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courage.

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It really overall defines meekness as weakness

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.

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But the Bible in Galatians 5 defines meekness

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as one of the fruits of the spirit.

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I just told you that a little minute ago.

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For the Christian, meekness is a very valuable

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and critical virtue that we all must possess.

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But the attitude of meekness, apart from the

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energy of the Holy Spirit, is seen by the

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world as cowardice, or timidity, or a lack of

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strength.

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So again, that's very different from the

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biblical definition.

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And that's what we are most concerned with,

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right?

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We want the biblical definition.

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Because just like you can't walk worthy

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without humility, again, you can't walk worthy

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without meekness.

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So we need to know what meekness is.

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Now, in general, the Greek word means

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something that is mild and gentle.

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That's why the New American Standard uses the

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word gentleness in here.

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It's the opposite of a person who is a venge

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ful person when they are wronged.

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It's the opposite of somebody who seeks

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revenge, or retaliation, or is vindictive, or

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a person who harbors resentment and bitterness

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all the time.

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Always bitter about things that are happening

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to them.

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It's the opposite of a vengeful, violent

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reaction, too.

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One of the shades of the biblical definition,

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and there are several shades of this

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definition, would be, listen to this one,

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a quiet, willing submission to God and to

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others without the rebellion and revenge and

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retaliation that characterizes the natural man

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.

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That's one shade of the definition of meekness

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.

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Now, the secular Greeks used the word to speak

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of a person who was friendly or tender-hearted

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or mild or gentle as opposed to somebody who

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was rough, hard and violent.

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But the word in its totality is characteristic

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, most of all, more than any human being who

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ever lived, of Jesus.

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If you look there in 2 Corinthians, 10-1, Paul

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says,

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"Now I, Paul, myself urge you by the meekness

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and gentleness of Christ."

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Different word for gentleness there.

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Matthew 11-29, Jesus said, "Take my yoke upon

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you and learn for me, for I am gentle."

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Same Greek word for meek, some translations

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say meek and humble in heart.

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Jesus is describing himself there.

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This term is used 12 times in the New

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Testament, and like I said, it's one of the

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fruits of the Spirit in Galatians 5.

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Paul said in 1 Timothy 6-11,

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"But flee from these things, you man of God,

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and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith,

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love, perseverance, and gentleness."

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That's meekness.

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It's also very important for you to understand

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and for me to point out that being meek does

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not mean that you are a coward,

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and that you just lay down and let people walk

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all over you.

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Because the very next verse in 1 Timothy 6 and

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verse 12, what's the first word there?

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Fight!

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Fight the good fight of faith.

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Understand this.

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A meek person is anything but a coward.

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If you look at that list of the

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characteristics of people going into the lake

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of fire, number one is coward.

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That's the first on the list.

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A meek person will fight at the drop of a hat.

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Listen carefully for the right cause, for the

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right issue.

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That's the key.

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A meek person does get anger.

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Yes, they do.

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A meek person gets indignant over the right

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issue.

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Meekness is, is a mild, quiet, peaceable,

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gentle spirit.

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Meekness is not vengeful, not retaliating, not

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bitter, except when the need arises to be

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righteously angry.

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Look at James 3 and verse 13.

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James asked the question, who among you is

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wise and understanding?

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Is it the man with the PhD behind his name?

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Is it the man who has read all the bright

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books?

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No, look next for the answer in this verse.

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Let him show by his good behavior his deeds in

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the gentleness that's meekness of wisdom.

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Verse 17, same chapter says, but the wisdom

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from above is first pure, then peaceable,

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gentle.

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That's same word for meek.

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Reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, un

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wavering, without hypocrisy.

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So, so meekness is given to us as a Christian

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virtue over and over and over again in the New

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Testament.

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But to round out the fullest definition, here

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is the main ingredient of biblical meekness.

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It's the idea that meekness is this strength

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under control, power under control.

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Now, again, meekness is the byproduct of true

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humility.

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And a person who has truly come to Christ on

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his terms of repentance and faith and

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believing the gospel knows all about having a

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broken self-will.

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If you've come to Christ his way, you have

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experienced a brokenness before God.

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You can't come to Christ his way, which is the

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only way to come without having a true sense

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of your spiritual bankruptcy before God.

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You have come to him in repentance and faith,

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nothing in my hand might bring only to your

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cross I clean with that attitude if you've

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come to Christ correctly.

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So humility and meekness go hand in hand with

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that kind of spiritual brokenness.

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But when it comes to meekness, John MacArthur

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gives an illustration that I found extremely

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helpful.

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He says this, meekness is not the destruction

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of the lion, it is the taming of the lion.

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All of the lion's strength is still there.

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All of his power is still there.

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All of his energy is still there.

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But it's all under the control of the master

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of the lion tamer with the whip and think

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about it.

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It's quite a different thing to see a lion, a

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wild lion running free in Africa than to see a

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lion under the control of the lion tamer at

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the circus, isn't it?

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That's two very different pictures right there

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.

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But think about this, the lion in the circus,

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he has all the same ferocity and energy and

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power and strength.

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But all of that is always under the control of

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the tamer.

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And it's the same with meekness for us.

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No longer, once we become a Christian, does

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the lion in us seek to be in control of

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everything in our life with our own self-will.

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You got me?

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We don't run free like the wild lion to

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accomplish our own ends, however we think is

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best.

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Because we now are submissive to the control

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of our master, King Jesus, and his way for us

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to live our life.

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It's not losing its power, it's harnessing the

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power.

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It's like a wild horse, you ever seen wild

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horses running just, they're wild and free and

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the power that they have is running as fast as

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they can, it's just out of control.

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But it's only when the power of the horse is

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brought under control that it can be used in a

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way that has purpose.

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And it's the same with us.

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When the power that we have is under control,

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it's very useful.

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In the heart of every believer is a lion.

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And that lion has every right to roar.

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That lion has every right to react.

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That lion has every right to pounce, but not

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on those things at its own self-willed

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discretion.

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Not on those things, but only under the

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direction of the one who rules our will, our

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King.

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So don't think for two seconds that meekness

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is indifference, or cowardice, or weakness, or

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fearfulness.

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It's not.

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It's not impotent or cowardly at all.

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Jesus was not cowardly, but Jesus was meek.

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Do you know, Christian, that you have every

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right to get mad.

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You have every right to be angry.

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Because we're going to see coming up in this

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fourth chapter in the 26th verse, it starts

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out.

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Be angry.

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Be angry, but you better watch that comma.

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And yet, do not sin.

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So be angry, but you can't be sinfully angry.

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What we're talking about here is the right

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kind of anger.

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It's being angry for the right reasons.

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You can be angry for the right reason or the

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wrong reason.

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In one case, it's power under control.

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In another case, it's power out of control.

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And the Bible knows about both of these two

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options.

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Look at Proverbs 25 and verse 28.

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It says this, like a city that is broken into

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and without walls is a man who has no control

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over his spirit.

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A totally out of control spirit is

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consequently vulnerable and falls into every

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snare and every pit and every temptation and

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every failure and every weakness.

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That person has no self control.

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That person has no rule over his own spirit.

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That anger out of control power out of control

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is never a weakness.

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But on the other hand, look at Proverbs 16 32.

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It says he who is slow to anger is better than

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the mighty.

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And he who look at this rules his spirit.

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And he who captures a city.

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So that is a person who rules his own spirit.

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The power is there.

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The lion is there.

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The energy is there.

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It's all under control.

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It's never out of control.

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People with the same power and strength and

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energy out of control.

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You know what they do?

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They create nothing but chaos.

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They create nothing but sinfulness with their

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anger.

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Meet people control those things.

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They control the lion within them so that it

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only roars and it only pounces when it's

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supposed to.

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Make this does not make you cease to condemn

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evil either.

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Again, righteous anger under control because

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it's now under the control of God.

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Meekness is when we take the lion that is in

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us and we submit it to God so that it only

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gets angry about that which offends God.

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And not me.

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The lion, this is the hardest part.

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The lion roars in defense of God.

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Not in defense of me.

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If somebody offends me, that's not a problem.

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Go ahead, I mean I expect it.

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I mean we're living in a fallen world with a

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lot of fallen people.

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Vengeance is mine says the Lord I will repay

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is the verse I have probably quoted in my

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prayers more than any other verse.

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I have to say it to myself again and I have to

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remind myself about it again and again and

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again and again and I probably will to the day

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that I die.

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That's what we have to keep in mind at all

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times.

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No retaliation.

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No revenge.

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Revenge is the Lord's.

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He will repay.

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No self-seeking when it's against us.

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But the lion roars when it's against God.

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When God is offended.

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That's the idea.

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A righteous indignation when God is dishonored

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.

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Exercise that power rightly and even when we

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do it's all under control and it's under the

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control of God.

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It reacts when it ought to react.

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At the right time.

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For the right reasons.

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For the right length of time.

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In the human realm.

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Excuse me.

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In the human realm.

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Examples would be like.

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When babies are being murdered.

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In the womb.

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You can have a righteous indignation in the

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human realm.

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When children are being manipulated.

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Excuse me.

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What's happening something flying around up

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here.

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When children are being manipulated.

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And to supposedly choosing to be another

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gender.

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And to the point of having their bodies mut

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ilated.

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That's when you can have a righteous anger and

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speak out against that evil.

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That's when the lion roars and takes a stand

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against evil.

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When people made in the image of God.

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Have that kind of evil thrust upon him.

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That's the right time.

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Those are right reasons for righteous indign

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ation.

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And then when it comes to God himself.

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An example would be.

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When Christ is mocked in the media.

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You ever seen that?

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When Christ is made fun of in television and

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art and film.

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You should be angry about that when you see

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that.

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When somebody speaks of King Jesus in a stupid

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way or a flip it way.

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You should be angry about that and point that

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out.

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Jesus was this way.

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The same Jesus who I quoted earlier and said.

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I am meek and lowly of heart.

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The same Jesus who avoided conflicts so very

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often during his earthly ministry.

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The same Jesus who Peter said when he was rev

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iled.

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Reviled not again.

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The same Jesus was spit on and punched in the

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face and had his beard plucked out.

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Without retaliating or seeking revenge.

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The same Jesus with the quiet and meek spirit

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when God the Father was dishonored.

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He walked into that temple and himself made a

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whip of cords.

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And drove people out of the temple and turned

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over the tables of the money changers.

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Whipping with the whip he ran them all out and

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he was yelling at them get out.

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You have turned my father's house into a dine

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of thieves.

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This is to be a house of prayer.

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He was righteously angry and he took action.

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The same Jesus who is the model and the

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standard of meekness.

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When he was confronted with the hypocrisy of

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the Pharisees that so offended God.

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He just blistered them with his words.

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White washed sepulchres on the outside but on

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the inside you are full of dead men's bones.

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He said to them to their face.

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And you can read every word of the gospels.

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And you will never find Jesus speaking a venge

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ful word or a word of condemnation against

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anybody.

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For something that they had done to him

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personally.

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He only spoke in reference to how they treated

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God.

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And he set the ultimate example for us.

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We see him with that whip in the temple and he

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's cleaning that temple out.

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Because the father's house was being defiled.

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But when his own temple was defiled his body.

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And he was whipped, beaten and nailed to a

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cross.

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And they were mocking him as he hung there

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naked and bleeding.

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All that he had to say about those who

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participated was Father forgive them.

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For they don't know what they're doing.

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That's meekness.

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That's the supreme ultimate sovereign power

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under control.

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His total selflessness is what it is.

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Jesus never reacted to that which came against

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him personally.

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He only reacted to that which came against his

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father.

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Think about what Jesus could have been.

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Think about what he could have done when they

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were surrounding him and telling him.

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He didn't know what he was talking about.

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Think about what he could have done that night

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in the Garden of Gethsemane when they came to

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arrest him.

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He even said in Matthew chapter 26 verse 53

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"Do you think that I cannot appeal to my

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father and he will at once put at my disposal

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more than 12 legions of angels."

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And when you count what made up for a legion

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in the Roman army that's more than 72,000

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angels.

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He could have called them at once.

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And don't forget in the Old Testament one

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angel wiped out 185,000 Syrians.

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But he didn't do it, did he?

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Not in defense of himself personally.

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And he knew once they arrested him where he

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was heading.

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He knew it perfectly.

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That's meekness.

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Supreme power.

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Power we can't conceive of under control.

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Because look what he says next in verse 54 of

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that chapter.

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"How then will the scriptures be fulfilled

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which say that it must happen this way?"

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This is the will of God.

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I'm not calling the angels down.

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I have set my face as a flint toward Golgotha.

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So meekness will take out a whip and defend

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God when he is dishonored.

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It will be angry, but meekness will never take

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revenge against what happens to itself.

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Would you just think for a minute how many of

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our movies that we've been watching all our

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lives

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are all about somebody getting revenge on the

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other person in the group?

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I mean we have many traditions at my house.

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One of them is every Thanksgiving for many

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years on AMC, the Godfather Marathon.

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And we watch it every year.

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What's the main theme of the Godfather movies?

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It's the revenge, you know, Sonny.

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Hit us, we got to hit them back, remember?

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So that's ingrained in our culture.

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And that's because getting revenge when we are

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wronged, guess what?

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That's what comes most natural to all of us.

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It's ingrained in the culture here in America

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that when we are wronged in any way,

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be it slight or heavy, man, we got to strike

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back.

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That's in the small things and in the big

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things.

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Conversations at work.

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How about the politics of the office at work?

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Every office got office politics.

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If you don't think they do, you're not paying

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attention, you know?

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So-and-so made this stuff up about me and now

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I'm not getting that promotion.

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Watch what's fixing to happen next.

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I'll get him, right?

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Now, as usual, I'm not saying this is easy,

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folks.

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But if we are displaying true meekness, the

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lion only roars when God is the offended party

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.

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Let me close today with a few questions to get

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you thinking more deeply about this in a

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practical way.

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How do you know if you're meek?

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Well, you can start by asking yourself, do you

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ever exercise self-control?

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Is your anger and power under control ever?

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Is your anger and power and energy always

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under control?

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Do you rule your spirit, as we saw in the Pro

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verbs earlier?

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Or do you find yourself always flying off the

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handle at other people when they wrong you or

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say something sideways that you don't like?

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I show them, right?

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You can't do that to me.

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What does that dude think he hits?

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Those kinds of responses.

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Now, let me tell you something.

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Sometimes I win at this.

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Sometimes I lose.

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Big time.

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Big time loser, okay?

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Alright?

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And we got to be honest, right?

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And so we don't float no silly superficial,

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you know, whenever I'm floating on top of a

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hair right around in here like some kind of

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saint.

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Be honest, you know?

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There's no point in not being honest about

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your weaknesses and your frailty.

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Paul is addressing the issue of lawsuits

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between believers.

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Have you ever seen this in 1 Corinthians 6 in

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verse 7?

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Look what he says.

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Actually, then it's already a defeat for you

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that you have lawsuits with one another.

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Look at this.

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Why not rather be wronged?

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Why not rather be defrauded?

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You know what he's saying?

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Take the wrong done against you.

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Take it.

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Man, it's tough, right?

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Take the wrong.

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Sometimes I can do this.

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Other times, especially depending on the issue

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, I'm in the front seat of the struggle bus.

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For real.

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You know?

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Take the wrong.

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That's just not what naturally comes to us.

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That's what Paul's talking about here.

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Here's another question.

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Do you get angry when God is dishonored?

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Hmm?

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You can ask my kids and my wife, my grandkids

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and my kids, and they say, "Oh, my God."

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I say, "Whoa, don't use his name like that."

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Say, "Oh, my goodness."

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Don't say, "Oh, it seems trite, but it's not."

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You don't use his name that way in any way

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that's out of line.

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The things that people do to dishonor God make

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for a long list, along with what we've already

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mentioned.

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How about false doctrine, dishonors God?

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How about false teachers dishonor God,

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especially the ones that make lots of money

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doing it?

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And that one really gets me riled up.

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I mean, cut me loose in there and let me

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preach.

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I don't want to name it and claim it deals.

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It should make you angry when you see men flee

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cing people in the name of Jesus for their

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money.

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How about any harm done to children or the

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elderly who are defenseless image bearers of

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God?

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Do you think that brings up God's wrath from

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him?

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It should for us.

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I mean, the things that we can be righteously

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angry about are wrong.

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It's a long list.

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Here's another one.

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Do you respond to the word of God humbly, no

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matter what it says?

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Like what I just read to you about, "Take the

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wrong."

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How do you respond to that, right?

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How's another one?

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How do you always make peace in contentious

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situations in the family, in the workplace?

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Meek people always make peace.

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That's the exhortation here in verse three.

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Look at it.

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This is what we're heading to.

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This is the conclusion of the progression of

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these attitudes.

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Being diligent to preserve the unity of the

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spirit in the bond of peace.

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Or do you just keep fighting about whatever it

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is, whatever problem somebody gave you?

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How about when somebody falls and fails?

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Do you gossip and talk about them?

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Or do you follow Galatians chapter six in

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verse number one?

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Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any

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trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a

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one in a spirit of gentleness.

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That's meekness.

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Each one looking to yourself so that you too

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will not be tempted.

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Are you a peacemaker?

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Or do you constantly fight and argue with

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other people?

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Instead of ending the fight and finishing the

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argument in a way that makes for peace.

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These are all introspective questions.

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How about this one?

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Do you receive criticism without retaliation,

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whether it's right or wrong?

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That's a tough one.

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You're trying to help somebody and you really

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are in power.

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How about our attitude towards the lost?

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Peter says we are to give an answer to every

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man that asks us the reason for the hope that

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is within us with meekness and fear.

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I heard one preacher say, I can't remember his

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name.

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We looked at him on Wednesday night one time.

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The blue haired, snout rose, nose ring left

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this are not our enemies.

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They are the mission people.

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Now, you can call them out for the evil that

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they do absolutely you can with righteous ind

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ignation.

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But you also should preach the gospel to them

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at the same time while you call that out.

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What's our attitude toward them?

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There before the grace of God go I that weren

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't for God's grace.

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That's the first reaction of a meek person.

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Martin Lloyd Jones said to be meek means you

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have finished with yourself altogether.

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That's tough.

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It's really quite contrary to how the regular,

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especially American person lives.

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Quite contrary, this biblical meekness.

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To think of yourself as not really important

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at all is what this is calling for.

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That's a trait of true biblical meekness.

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The worst thing people can say about me is

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probably true.

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That's the attitude.

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Believe me, nobody here today is more

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convicted by these questions that I have asked

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than I am.

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But when we come to the Word of God church in

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the area of Christian living,

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we're in right now what Paul is giving to us

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right here is the gold standard of Christian

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living.

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The attitudes, the behaviors.

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So if you are a Christian and you are

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convicted by what the Word of God in this area

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is saying to you,

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then what do you do Christian?

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If you say to yourself, "I'm failing in this

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area," you ask God to forgive you.

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You look to Christ.

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You preach the gospel to yourself.

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You remember whose righteousness it is that

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makes you right with God.

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You get back up on the horse and you ride to

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the glory of God striving to live to that gold

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standard.

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That's why these verses are in here.

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Really striving for the gold standard is how

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we spiritually grow.

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You can't grow any other way.

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And we need regular, consistent reminders,

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right?

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That's why verse by verse preaching that makes

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the text of Scripture the subject matter of

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the sermon

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rather than a topic is what's best for us

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because we don't skip these hard things.

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The Christian life is easy said nobody ever

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who truly lives it.

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Lastly, consider our primary example.

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The one who made the world.

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The one who spoke literally billions of

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galaxies into existence with the Word of his

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power.

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The one who the Bible says has named every one

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of those billions and trillions of stars

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who keeps planets and even galaxies spinning

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in a perfect orbit.

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The one who has encoded every human being in

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human history with a different complex code of

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DNA

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and no two fingerprints or ever the same said,

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"Take my yoke upon you and learn from me for I

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am meek."

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And humble in heart.

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Jesus gave us the highest example in all of

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the Bible and the way that he lived his life.

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So, we have seen now starting in verse 2,

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humility, true humility.

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And that true biblical humility leads to true

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biblical meekness.

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And meekness leads to what we will study next

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time but you have to come back to hear it.

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That's correct.

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By the way, thank you.

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It's a hard word this morning for us.

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We can pretend like we do pretty good in this

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area but when we really think about it,

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we know what a struggle it is for us.

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Our flesh fights against our spirit.

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And our spirit wars with our flesh so that we

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may not do the things that we wish in our

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inner redeemed spirits.

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That's what Paul teaches us.

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Struggle is real.

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The struggle is necessary.

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And it is ordained by you to conform us to the

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image of Christ.

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That is what Romans 8 is telling us.

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You are predestined to be conformed to the

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image of Christ.

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And that's hard work for sinners like us.

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So Lord, on the one hand we see that salvation

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is monogistic, it's all of grace, it's all of

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your sovereign grace, no amount of works put

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in it.

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But the works, the meekness, the attitude

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fruit is the byproduct of one who has been

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saved.

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Help us to hold both of those realities in our

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hands at the same time that we might live in

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such a way as to bring you glory.

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In Jesus' name we pray, amen.