Ephesians 4:17-20
Ep. 73

Ephesians 4:17-20

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A Verse-by-Verse Expository Sermon on Ephesians 4:17-20 from February 2

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I invite you to turn with me to Ephesians

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chapter number four and verse number seventeen

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We are moving to a new section today and

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studying this next section is going to be

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verses seventeen

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to twenty-four and let's just begin by reading

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that text. We won't get to all of it today,

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but we'll get to some of it. Starting in verse

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seventeen, the apostle Paul writes, "So this

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I say and affirm together with the Lord that

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you walk no longer just as the Gentiles also

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walk

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in the futility of their mind, being darkened

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in their understanding, excluded from the life

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of

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God because of the ignorance that is in them,

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because of the hardness of their heart, and

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they,

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having become callous, have given themselves

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over to sensuality for the practice of every

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kind of

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impurity with greediness. But you did not

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learn Christ in this way if indeed you have

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heard

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Him and have been taught in Him just as the

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truth is in Jesus. That in reference to your

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former manner of life, you lay aside the old

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self which is being corrupted in accordance

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with the

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lust of deceit and that you be renewed in the

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spirit of your mind and put on the new self

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which

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in the likeness of God has been created in

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righteousness and holiness of the truth." Now,

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I have concluded now at the age of 56 that it

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appears that I will never, for the rest of my

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life, get over the sheer amazement that I

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still have to this day at the change that

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regeneration

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produced in my life. I still haven't gotten

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over it. I still marvel at it. In fact, I

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guess it's

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primarily because of my past. It really is

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hard for me to identify with anybody who is

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not sure

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as to whether or not they have been genuinely

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regenerated. It's hard for me to identify with

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a professing Christian who is like that. And I

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'm not talking about those momentary lapses of

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doubt that creep into your mind. "Boy, I did

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that. Am I a Christian?" We all battle that

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sometimes.

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But even when you have those times, if you're

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a Christian and you're truly regenerated, it

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doesn't

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take you long in prayer and forgiveness of sin

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to get right back to the absolute certainty

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that you

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have experienced the most incredible, the most

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significant thing that can ever happen to any

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human being, which is to be drawn effectually

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by the Father and have your dead spirit

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regenerated

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into spiritual life and have been granted the

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gifts of repentance and faith and been saved.

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There's nothing in all of the human experience

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that comes close to that. And it's hard for me

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to imagine that you would not be sure about

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that, whether or not that has indeed happened

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to you.

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Because when you come to saving faith in

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Christ, you become a totally different

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individual.

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That's exactly what happened to me. In fact,

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think of this. The change that occurred in you

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,

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when you were regenerated and saved, is

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actually more dramatic than the change that

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will occur in

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you when you die. You know why? Because you

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already have right now your new nature,

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Christian,

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and right now the new you has already been rem

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ade on the inside. And you're already in your

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inner

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man, and always as a caveat, inner man means

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mankind, so that's you two ladies. Just always

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feel

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like I got to say that, but I don't, but I do.

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You're already fitted for heaven, Christian.

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Right

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now you are all ready right now a citizen of

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God's kingdom in your inner man. All that

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death

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does, physical death, is free up the new

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nature that you have right now to enter into

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the presence

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of God in heaven, as I said earlier, not only

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with no sin, but with a perfect righteousness.

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The

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righteousness of Jesus Christ cloaked in that

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robe of His righteousness, so the greatest

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change

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has already happened to you when you were

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saved. The only other thing we're waiting for,

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along with

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the saints who are in heaven right this moment

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, are our glorified bodies, and that doesn't

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happen

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until Christ returns, and He has it yet,

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because we're all still sitting in here, right

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? Second

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Corinthians chapter 5 verse 17, "Therefore, if

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anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature. The

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old

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things have passed away, behold, new things

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have come." So Paul, as you know, works very

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hard in

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all of his epistles to make this point. In his

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epistles he talks a lot about new, a new will,

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a new mind, a new heart, a new power, a new

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knowledge, a new wisdom, a new understanding,

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a

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new life, a new inheritance, a new

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relationship, a new righteousness, a new

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desire, a new citizenship.

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He uses all of those words to describe new. In

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fact, it can all be summed up in the biblical

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phrase, "newness of life." That's what we have

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. And you really need to grasp the fact that

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your

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new nature is not an addition to your old

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sinful nature, so now you're walking around

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with two

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natures. That is not the biblical view. This

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is not a matter of addition to your old nature

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. It is a

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matter of transformation of your original

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nature, sinful nature, transformation of that

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nature in

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totality to a whole new nature. And the first

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question that comes to mind in the area of

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theology is, "Well, if I have a totally new

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nature, why do I still sin?" Right? That's a

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fair

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question right there, right? And here is where

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we run into the nuance of the makeup of every

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believer in the world while we live out our

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lives in this world until our very last breath

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. We're

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going to talk about that today. So, listen

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carefully. You're my every genuine believer,

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your inner man, the inner you, has been

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totally, completely transformed into a new

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nature. And

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listen carefully. One totally new nature but

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comma. We live out our lives with this totally

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new

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nature on the inside, which always desires to

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do what is pleasing and right before God. John

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McArthur

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helpfully illustrates here. We have this

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totally new nature, but on the outside we're

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walking around

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with an old stinky coat. And that old stinky

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coat is what the Bible calls our flesh, our

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humanness.

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Okay? Paul says in Romans chapter 7 verse 17,

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interesting how he phrases it. "So now no

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longer

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am I the one doing it, sinning, but sin which

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dwells in me." He says the same exact basic

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thing in

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verse 20. And he's not shifting blame there.

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No, that's not what he means. He's meaning

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this.

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It's not the inner redeemed spiritually alive

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me that is sinning or even desiring to sin.

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It's not the new nature that sins. And it's

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not the old nature because as a Christian

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again,

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you don't have an old nature. You don't have

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two natures. You only got one. You got one new

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nature encased in this stinking old coat of

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flesh in which dwells no good thing. The Apost

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le Paul

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also says your new nature has to endure and

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struggle and fight with that stinking old coat

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of flesh that you have on you and the sin that

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dwells in it until it goes to heaven to be

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with the

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Lord. That, folks, you got to understand it

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this way. That is the struggle that God

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Almighty has

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ordained for every Christian to live in every

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single moment of every single day in this life

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.

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Why? He does that, makes that struggle happen,

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ordains that fight between flesh and spirit

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as a means to conform us all to the image of

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Christ from Romans. That's why he does it.

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That's why I stand. It's just not easy street

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when you become a Christian as the fake preach

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ers

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will tell you. Now, are y'all all with me so

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far? Because it's critical for you to

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understand how

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this works in order for you to properly live

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out your Christian life in a way that brings

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glory

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to God. In other words, we're not a remodel

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job here. We're not just something to which

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something was added. Okay? We don't, again,

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say it a hundred times, we don't have two nat

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ures.

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We don't. Some people teach that. We have one

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new nature, a new spiritually alive, inner

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redeemed

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eye, daily, constantly struggling and fighting

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to put off, to lay aside, as Scripture says,

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that stinking old coat of our flesh, our hum

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anness. Now, Paul is going to attack this issue

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starting

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right here in verse 17 of Ephesians 4. This

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verse, until the end of the book, Paul is

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going to

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tell us, give us some tips, if you will, on

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how to get that stinking old coat off of us.

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Okay?

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Because getting that old coat off of you is

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something you go through every day.

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You don't just get it off and it stays off.

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You keep putting it back on. You and I do that

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. Okay?

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We learned all about the new man in the first

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three chapters and now we're going to learn

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how the new man lives in the last three

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chapters and we've been doing that since we

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started chapter

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four. Putting on the new man, putting off the

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old external stinking coat of the flesh of the

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old man

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every day is the goal here. Just like Paul,

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look at Romans 6, 13. He says it well right

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here.

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And do not go on presenting the members of

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your body to sin as instruments of unrighteous

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ness,

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but present yourselves to God as those alive

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from the dead and your members as instruments

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of righteousness. That right there is how to

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put on a new suit on the outside instead of

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that old

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stinking coat of flesh for the new man on the

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inside, because that new man on the inside

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always

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wants to do what's right. Always. That's why

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the Bible is loaded with their force,

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because God desires us to behave in accordance

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with who we are in Christ.

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Now, when you are balanced in your theological

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thinking, and I bring up the subject of living

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in obedience to the Word of God, when you hear

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that rightly and you hear that in a balanced

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way,

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legalism never comes into your mind. Ever.

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Ever. What comes into your mind when I say

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that is that

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obedience to Christ and his commands in the

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Scripture is only the natural and the right

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response of a totally changed new nature. That

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's what it is. It's not a burdensome thing.

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It's a new desire that you never had before

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you came to Christ. You look at the commands

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of Christ

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and you don't say, have to. That's not what it

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is. It's that you want to. It's the difference

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between you have to and you want to. I have to

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go to my secular job. Okay? All right? I am

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great

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people, my family, you know? It's great. I

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have to go there if I want to eat, right? But

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I want to

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come here on Sunday. I want to come here on

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Wednesday night and pray with the saints.

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There's nothing that could stop me from coming

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here unless I get hit by a bus and I die. Okay

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?

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So let's get down into this text. I'm going to

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show you some of this further. If we do,

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I want you to remember now. Paul started out

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this fourth chapter, remember, imploring us to

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walk in

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a manner worthy of the calling with which you

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have been called. So we've been doing that for

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16

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verses, looking at what that looks like. We're

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still getting examples starting here in verse

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17 of what that looks like. So look at it.

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Myth me there, verse 17. So this I say. Now in

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other

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translations, that's translated, this I say,

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therefore, which puts greater emphasis on it,

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and affirmed together with the Lord that you

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no longer, that you walk no longer just as the

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Gentiles

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walk in the futility of their mind. So here

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Paul is saying directly, walking worthy is a

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different

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walk. He's telling us that we are to live,

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daily living, differently than the world lives

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.

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And this therefore moment, if you will, is in

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response to all that he said in the first 16

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previous verses. I'm going to go back all over

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that. You can go back and listen to it if you

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want to

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on the internet. It says, if he is saying big

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picture, big picture, hey, God has created

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this amazing, unique entity in the world that

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is known as the church, the church of Jesus

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Christ.

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And because of this unique creation with a

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unique lifestyle that it has of humility,

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with a unique unity that we see in no other

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institution that has a unique love for others.

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And it's led by uniquely gifted men because of

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this miraculous creation that God has designed

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in

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the world, which has spawned all of the

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wonderful things have come in grace down

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through history,

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hospitals and schools and all the things that

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we know. Because of what God has done and you

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are

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in the church, this is how you are to walk as

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a member of his church. This is how you're to

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live.

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And in principle number one of your Christian

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walk that he's giving us here, he's saying,

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don't walk like the rest of the world walks.

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This Christian life is a uniquely different

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life, very different from every other

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lifestyle that exists on the face of the earth

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.

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You church are a unique group. You are not

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only in the local church here, you are in the

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church of

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Jesus Christ in the world adopted by grace

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into God's family. The world is proud and full

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of pride,

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but you are humble. The world is hateful, but

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you understand and practice love according to

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God's

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definition of love, not the world's definition

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of love and certainly not Hollywood's

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definition of

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what love is. And consider this, the world

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doesn't know absolute truth. The world doesn't

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even understand

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the big picture reality of who we are and who

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God really is and why it is we exist as a race

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of human

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beings or any any aspect really of the reality

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of the whole spiritual dimension. They have no

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understanding of that, but you do. Through the

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Word of God, through his bringing you to

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spiritual life,

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through one of the roles of the Holy Spirit,

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illuminating the Word of God to you. From God

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as

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we learned a few verses back, ordaining and

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giving to the church gifted men to be able to

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teach you

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the Word of God. And what Paul is getting at

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is because of all these things and more and

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because

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of God's design of your uniqueness in the

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world, this is how you are to live. This is

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how you are

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to walk. You walk differently than how the

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Gentiles walk. He says specifically here, look

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at verse

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17 and let's get into the term Gentiles for

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just a second. First, it's used in the New

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Testament,

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very simply to speak of all people who are not

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Jews. That's every ethnicity on earth that is

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not

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Jewish. That's pretty easy to understand,

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right? That covers everybody, right? But

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further than that,

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it has a religious meaning. I want you to look

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over at first Thessalonians chapter 5 and

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verse,

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I'm sorry, chapter 4 and verse number 5 for an

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example of what I mean. And how we are to not

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walk like it says here, not in lustful passion

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like the Gentiles walk, who do not know God.

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So on the one hand, Gentile in the Greek, eth

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nos, from where we get our word ethnic, refers

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to all

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non-Jews in that ethnic sense. But also, as we

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see here in this verse in 1 Thessalonians 4 or

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5,

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it speaks of a people notice who do not know

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God. And so back to Ephesians 4, 17. Paul is

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saying,

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do not live your daily manner of life as

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people who do not know God. You know God.

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So don't live like people who don't. That's

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what he's saying. Let me tell you, this was a

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challenge

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for believers in Paul's day because the lif

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estyles of the Gentile pagans in the city of

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Ephesus

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were extreme and they were right in front of

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them every single day. And so many of them had

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come

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from that life. And for the Ephesians, it was

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really very similar in a lot of ways

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to how we have a society here in America today

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, albeit in a very different way. Because think

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about it, for us, we are constantly inundated,

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especially through all forms of social media

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with everything that this fallen world has to

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offer. All that you can imagine and that you

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don't want to imagine is in the palm of your

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hand every day. We've never had a society like

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this.

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You can get to present things and see things

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and hear things and read things on that little

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device

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in your hand that no other culture in the

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history of the world has had that kind of

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thing ever.

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And I mean, there are atrocious things that

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you, if you want to dig and find, there are

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absolutely the worst elements of humanity

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inside your phone if you want to pull that up.

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But let me tell you a little bit about Ephesus

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and it's going to give you some parallels

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to what we have. This, of course, is the city

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of the church at Paul's writing here too, Eph

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esians

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written to the city, the church in Ephesus.

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And it was a very evil city. So I'm saying the

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most

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evil city in Asia Minor at that time. And it

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was also a pagan religious center or Mecca,

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if you will. There were multiple temples in

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this giant city. There were idols,

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but everything really was primarily and most

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focused on the temple of Diana,

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also known as Artemis, same God, little G God.

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And if you are sitting there when I say that,

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and you're thinking about a statue of Diana

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that looked like Princess Diana in a statue,

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let me tell you, because it was a big black,

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horrific looking thing that scholars debate

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that this statue either had multiple breast or

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multiple sacrificial bull testicles on its

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chest.

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They can't figure out which one of the things

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that it was. If you go Google it, you'll see

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why.

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I won't go into all the details of why they

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had the debate. But it supposedly fell out of

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heaven

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and the pagans worshiped it. The temple of

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Diana was the seventh wonder of the world.

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And it had an art museum. We were talking

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about art in sunny school this morning. It had

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an art

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museum that was with few equals in the world

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at that time. And it was also an asylum for

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criminals

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because one quarter mile around the outside of

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the temple was like what we have now stupidly,

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the sanctuary cities for illegals, but they

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had a sanctuary city for any kind of criminal

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one quarter mile around the temple. So and

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they were safe in that zone. So you can

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imagine the

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crowd that was collected around that temple.

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At the same time, interestingly, I found that

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the

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temple itself was a good place for a bank

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because security was hard to come by in those

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days. But

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putting a bank in the middle of the temple was

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a great idea because all the people would be

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afraid

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to go in there and rob it, lest the God come

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down on their head. So they would have temples

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into

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banks and there was a lot of money in these

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temples. And the pilgrims, they would come

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from miles and

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miles around and droves to go to these temples

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for worship. And there's no other way to say

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it.

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What was happening in the worship were orgies,

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massive, with hundreds of people at one time.

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I mean, if you invent a pagan religion that's

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based on sect, you don't have a problem with

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membership numbers in the Gentile pagan world.

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Everybody's ready to sign up. And it was also

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big business because including all these

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little idols that they would sell. And you

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could bring

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the little idol God home and you could put it

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on your shelf and the necklaces and jewelry. I

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mean,

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there was a lot of commerce and buying and

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selling happening. So Diana was a goddess of

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fertility

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and sex. And so the temple was packed with

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priestesses and prostitutes and singers and

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dancers. And let me tell you something. It got

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as wild and as literally anything goes

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as you can possibly imagine in your mind

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inside this temple worship. And I won't go

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into detail because this is a family show. So

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you can just get the gist here. The music

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worked people up literally into frenzies. And

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I have no doubt there was demonic

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possession going on in these deals. But they

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would engage in mutilation and self-mutilation

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.

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That's a sign of demonic activity. Heraclitus

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of old said about this, about this temple.

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It was the darkness of vileness. The morals

27:56

were lower than animals. And the inhabitants

28:00

of

28:01

Ephesus were fit only to be drowned, he said.

28:06

So you got all that going on. And imagine the

28:10

little church in Ephesus. It was on its own

28:14

little island in the middle of this virtual

28:19

cesspool of immorality. That's why Paul is

28:22

preaching so hard to these Ephesians about

28:25

these issues that we're looking at. And that's

28:28

why Paul says in verse 17, "Hey,

28:31

you have got to be different from what's going

28:35

on around you. You can't walk like they walk.

28:39

You can't do like they do. Living this new

28:42

life is not easy. Nobody's telling you that it

28:45

's easy,

28:46

but it is necessary. As you are representing

28:49

the church of Jesus Christ in the world here

28:52

in the city of Ephesus." Peter says this in

28:55

first Peter chapter 4 and verse 3. He's kind

28:58

of getting

28:58

at the same thing. "For the time already

29:02

passed is sufficient for you to have carried

29:05

out the desires

29:07

of the Gentiles." In other words, you got

29:09

enough of that stuff in your past life. That

29:12

time is gone.

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And then he goes on to name some of those

29:16

behaviors lest they had forgotten. And of

29:17

course they hadn't.

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Our society in general today is hostile to god

29:25

liness, right? And Christ's likeness because

29:27

why? It is dominated by pride. It is dominated

29:31

by carnal ambition. It is dominated big time

29:35

by

29:36

selfishness and greed and lust and evil. Its

29:39

opinions are wrong. Its aims are selfish. Its

29:43

pleasures are sinful. Its influence is

29:46

destructive. Its politics are corrupt. Its

29:49

honors are empty.

29:50

Its smiles are bony. Its love is fickle, but

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we are to be different in that in this society

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.

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We are not to have anything to do with living

30:03

like that. Notice how Paul phrases this in

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verse 17.

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"So this I say and affirm together with the

30:13

Lord." He's saying, look, I'm passing this

30:17

information on

30:18

straight from God. This is God's standard that

30:22

is coming straight from him. And Paul's, of

30:26

course,

30:26

all of his New Testament words were inspired

30:28

by the Holy Spirit, but he's just emphasizing

30:31

and reminding you, hey, this isn't in my

30:34

opinion here. This is coming, what I'm saying

30:37

here is

30:38

coming straight from God Almighty. And what we

30:40

're going to see in verses 17 to 24 is a

30:44

contrast

30:45

between the old walk and the new walk, between

30:49

the old man lifestyle and the new man

30:53

lifestyle.

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And first we're going to look at four

30:55

characteristics of the old walk. And this

30:58

is how he's going to lay it out. And one of

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the things I want you to notice as we go

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through

31:02

these verses, and if you have your Bible open,

31:05

you can scan through and see this,

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how many times we see references to how we are

31:11

to think. Not feeling, not emotion,

31:17

but the use of our mind. Just in this small

31:20

text, we see words like the mind, the

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understanding,

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learned, taught, and the point is, first and

31:29

foremost, you have to think differently

31:33

than the unbelieving world. As a man thinks,

31:37

though is he, right? When we think differently

31:41

,

31:42

we will act differently. Salvation, first of

31:46

all, is a change of mind. It's a new thinking

31:51

process.

31:52

It's a thinking that draws us to God that we

31:55

didn't have before. Consider right now

31:58

how you think differently about sin than you

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used to think before you came to cry.

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I'm telling you, boy, I sure do. I didn't give

32:13

a rip about sin in my teens and early 20s.

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Somebody come tell me, "Bah, you sinning." So

32:18

what? I mean, I do what I want, right?

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After salvation, we think very differently

32:25

about sin. We think very differently about

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God. We think very differently about Jesus. We

32:31

certainly think very differently about

32:34

death and about life and about heaven. I mean,

32:36

really, when you just boil it all down,

32:38

we think differently about all of the very

32:40

most important things of life than we used to

32:44

think.

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That's really at the heart of what the word

32:48

repentance means, to change your mind. And in

32:53

changing your mind, you change direction to

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having a new thinking process. So believers

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think one way

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and unbelievers think another way. And next

33:06

here in our text, Paul is going to give us

33:09

four

33:09

elements of the thinking of unbelievers. And

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you know this one well. We've looked at it

33:14

before.

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Number one is self-centered thinking. Look

33:17

again, verse 17, that you walk no longer just

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as the

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Gentiles walk in the futility of their mind.

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The futility of their mind. Again, the mind is

33:34

the

33:34

issue. Whatever you think, whatever you want

33:40

in life, that's what governs your behavior.

33:45

And that

33:46

thinking, I don't know if you've noticed

33:48

living it here on earth, in the natural man,

33:51

that natural way of thinking is always self-

33:54

centered. How am I going to get ahead?

33:57

How am I going to be number one? How am I

33:59

going to get what I want? The Greek word for

34:02

futility

34:03

here means that which is empty, useless, fut

34:08

ile, and vain. Maybe the best word for it is

34:12

probably

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useless. The thinking of the unbeliever is

34:16

useless. You know why? Big picture. I'm

34:20

talking big picture

34:22

because the thinking of the unbeliever is

34:24

going nowhere. It's where it's going. It

34:27

accomplishes

34:28

nothing. It gains nothing. Not in the big

34:31

picture, most important realities of life. It

34:35

's going

34:36

nowhere. Their thinking is going. I don't care

34:37

what they're thinking about or how complicated

34:39

it is

34:40

because it is therefore useless if it's going

34:42

nowhere, right? Would you agree? Think about

34:46

what

34:46

people talk about in the unbelieving world on

34:51

your job or wherever you are Monday through

34:54

Saturday

34:54

when you're around people who are not

34:57

believers. What is their discussion about?

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Well, just listen

35:01

to it carefully. It's all the worldly things

35:04

that are out there that are going to pass away

35:07

.

35:08

It's always discussions about things that have

35:11

no meaning or even going to have an existence

35:14

at all in the kingdom of heaven. I mean, just

35:17

think about it. And not even necessarily

35:20

simple

35:20

things. Think about it. People talk about

35:23

restaurants that they eat at and movies that

35:26

they've seen, sports, the weather. We talk a

35:29

lot about the weather. The list is very long

35:33

about these things. And I'm not saying that it

35:35

's wrong to talk about those things even as a

35:37

Christian,

35:38

but I'm saying that when that's all you're

35:41

talking about, when that's all you've got to

35:44

talk about,

35:45

that's useless. Is any of that going to play

35:48

any role in your existence in heaven?

35:51

Everything that we used to think about and

35:54

engage our minds in our thinking

35:56

in our old, unregenerate life, think about it.

35:59

It was all useless from the eternal

36:04

perspective.

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This can kind of be summarized in that old

36:08

saying you've probably all heard. You've never

36:10

seen a hearse pulling a U-Haul. You ever heard

36:13

that saying? Well, and let me tell you that

36:17

normally

36:17

people say that because they're talking about

36:20

the money or stuff that a person has. So all

36:25

that stuff doesn't mean anything. If you're in

36:27

the hearse, you don't have a U-Haul behind a

36:29

hearse,

36:29

can't take that stuff with you after you're

36:31

dead. But let me tell you something. That not

36:33

only means

36:34

your stuff, but it's all the things that are

36:38

of no eternal value that can fit into that U-

36:42

Haul

36:42

that you're not going to take with you. And

36:45

that's a long list of things. Uselessness can

36:49

categorize

36:49

all those things in the big picture. Paul says

36:52

in Romans 8 verse 20, "For the whole creation

36:56

was

36:56

subject to futility." Same Greek word that can

37:01

be translated, uselessness. Let me ask you.

37:05

Is the stock market going to matter one bit

37:08

when you get to heaven?

37:10

How about your 401k? Is that going to matter

37:16

an inch? How about who wins the Super Bowl? Is

37:19

that

37:19

going to matter in heaven? Let me tell you,

37:22

listen carefully to me. Be balanced. There's

37:24

nothing wrong

37:25

with having stocks in 401k. In fact, you

37:27

should. The younger of us, we're probably not

37:30

going to be

37:30

any social security. So you better have a

37:32

retirement plan. If you want to live

37:33

comfortably and eat,

37:34

instead of dog food, real food, when you get

37:36

to be an elderly person, you should think

37:39

about those

37:40

things. Isn't that wrong with watching the

37:41

Super Bowl? I'm going to watch every minute of

37:43

it when

37:43

the game comes on. I always do. That's not

37:47

what I'm saying. What I'm saying is in the big

37:51

picture,

37:51

if those kinds of things are all you ever

37:55

think about in your little simple box of this

37:58

life

37:59

outside of Christ, then I'm telling you that

38:01

your thinking is futile. Your thinking is

38:05

useless.

38:06

In fact, people don't like to hear it, but I'm

38:08

going to tell you, you are living a useless

38:11

life.

38:11

You are living a wasted life because all of

38:15

those things are going to pass away

38:18

and going to be no more one day when we get to

38:21

heaven. They won't exist.

38:23

That is what Paul is meaning here in verse 17.

38:28

But the Gentiles also walk in the futility of

38:33

their mind. They walk in the useless things.

38:36

It's all they ever think about. For most

38:39

people,

38:40

most days are like Groundhog Day. Y'all

38:41

remember that movie with Bill Murray? And

38:43

every morning,

38:44

he got up and it was the same day that it was

38:47

yesterday, over and over.

38:48

Most people who are outside of Christ and have

38:52

no relationship with Christ,

38:54

they get up and they do the same thing every

38:57

day. Get up, eat breakfast, go to work, come

39:00

home,

39:01

pay, watch TV, rinse, repeat. Weekend comes,

39:05

same thing. Go out to eat, da-da-da. Same

39:10

stuff,

39:10

cut to grass. Once a year, if you're fortunate

39:13

, go to vacation to the Redneck Riviera,

39:15

come home sunburnt, then do it again next year

39:18

. Then do it again next year, over and over,

39:21

with absolutely never, ever any thought of the

39:25

eternal. And don't talk to him about death.

39:28

He won't want to talk about that. I love

39:31

talking about death. I can't wait to be in the

39:35

presence

39:36

of Christ without any sin. I'm ready for it

39:38

whenever he wants to take me. Let's go. I'm

39:41

ready. Okay?

39:42

That should be your thinking as a Christian.

39:44

Not that you're saying, "Hey, right now, let's

39:46

go."

39:46

You know, okay. No, you know what it is for me

39:49

? Whenever you want me to, whenever you want me

39:54

to,

39:54

whatever is your preference, if you want me to

39:57

live to be 95, let's do it. If you don't want

40:00

me to

40:00

make it down Hopper Road to Blackwater Road,

40:03

let's do it because it's what you want. That's

40:06

how I

40:06

look at death. That's how you should look at

40:10

death as a Christian. And so, no matter what

40:15

even success,

40:17

worldly success that you achieve, you might be

40:23

an Elon Musk mind and have billions and

40:27

billions

40:28

of dollars. If you are outside of Christ, that

40:31

's a useless life. Think about King Solomon,

40:34

richest, wisest of men, the man with the most

40:37

prestige of his time, the most money,

40:40

the most women. He had everything that his

40:43

heart desired and he summed the whole deal up.

40:46

After having everything that he could possibly

40:48

want at the touch of his fingers,

40:50

he said, "Vanity, vanity, all is vanity." None

40:54

of that means anything to me, big picture.

40:58

Shakespeare said this, "Life is full of sound

41:02

and fury, signifying nothing."

41:06

That's an unregenerate perspective. The best

41:10

that man can do is temporarily entertain

41:13

himself

41:13

with his toys. And those toys aren't going to

41:16

mean anything when King Jesus comes back

41:19

to saying straight, big picture. They're all

41:23

temporary pleasures and they're all going to

41:26

come

41:26

to an end. When you sum it all up with the

41:30

thinking of the lives of all who reject the

41:33

Lord Jesus

41:34

Christ, again, their thinking is empty. It's

41:39

useless. It's going nowhere and it produces

41:43

absolutely nothing that has any real

41:46

significant eternal value. In fact, Jesus said

41:53

, "Apart from

41:55

me, you can do what? Nothing. I don't care how

42:00

philanthropic you are. I don't care how many

42:03

children homes you bring. If you don't do it

42:05

for the glory of God in Christ with that

42:07

motivation,

42:08

it's all going to burn up one day." Now, the

42:12

second thing here that characterizes a Gentile

42:15

pagan

42:16

lifestyle and the old man is, they are

42:19

ignorant of the truth. Not only are they self-

42:22

centered and

42:22

useless. Look at verse 18. "Being darkened in

42:26

their understanding, excluded from the life of

42:31

God because of the ignorance that is in them

42:34

because of the hardness of their heart." Now,

42:38

today, people take being called ignorant as an

42:42

insult, of course. I mean, somebody walks up

42:46

to

42:46

me and you're ignorant. You're going to take

42:49

it as an insult. But no society in the history

42:51

of mankind

42:52

has been more educated than we have. I mean,

42:55

we are filled with college graduates. And it's

42:59

like

42:59

kind of Sonny told Michael and the Godfather,

43:01

"Oh, would you go to college? You get stupid

43:04

if you

43:04

remember that part." And we got a lot of those

43:07

. But as the apostle said this, "They are ever

43:12

learning

43:13

but never able to come to the knowledge of the

43:17

truth." I don't care how much chemistry and

43:21

biomechanics that they know, all people have a

43:27

natural inability to understand the things of

43:33

God.

43:33

Natural man receives not the things of the

43:35

Spirit of God, but they are foolishness unto

43:38

him. Now,

43:39

as I said, they may acquire a whole lot of

43:41

worldly knowledge, a whole lot of stuff.

43:44

But in the things that count the most in the

43:49

human experience, no matter how much worldly

43:53

knowledge they have, big picture again, they

43:56

have a useless mind that cannot grasp absolute

44:00

truth.

44:01

Can't get it. Think it's stupid. Think it's

44:03

foolish. Think it's fairy tale. Look again at

44:06

verse 18,

44:07

being darkened in their understanding.

44:10

Literally means to make blind is what that

44:14

means. They are blind in their understanding.

44:17

Look next, excluded from the life of God.

44:20

Other

44:20

translations say alienated from the life of

44:23

God. Let me tell you, if you are alienated

44:26

from God,

44:26

you can't know the truth. Not if you're alien

44:29

ated from God, you are dead to God. You are

44:31

literally

44:32

the walking spiritually dead is what you are.

44:35

And if you are excluded from the life of God,

44:38

then there's no life of God in you. Look next

44:42

in verse 18, because of the ignorance that is

44:47

in them because of the hardness of their heart

44:50

. And that reminds me of what Paul says in

44:53

Romans

44:54

chapter 1, verses 21 and 22. "For even though

44:59

they knew God, they did not honor him as God,

45:04

or give thanks, but they became futile in the

45:08

speculations, and their foolish heart

45:12

was darkened." Same word, professing

45:15

themselves to be wise, they became fools. And

45:20

then he goes into,

45:22

"And God gave them over, and God gave them

45:23

over, and God gave them over." If you read the

45:25

rest of

45:26

that text in Romans 1, in other words, they

45:29

chose the way that they wanted to go. And then

45:34

God

45:34

confirmed them in their choice. "And then

45:39

every time that the pagan man acts against God

45:43

, every time

45:46

he takes another step of willful rejection of

45:51

God, another step of willful rejection of God

45:55

."

45:55

You know what he does? He pours more concrete

45:59

into the hardening of his heart. And as he

46:02

goes

46:03

through life, the heart gets harder and harder

46:06

, and he feels less and less guilt about the

46:10

things

46:10

that he's doing. And he feels less and less

46:14

remorse all the way to the point that they

46:17

become,

46:17

as it says in 1 Timothy chapter 4, verse 2,

46:21

all the way to the point of being seared

46:24

in their own conscious as with a branding ire.

46:28

And that's how verse 18 in our text in,

46:34

"Because of the hardness of their heart." You

46:38

think of serial killers who have no guilt

46:41

whatsoever.

46:42

It's slaughtering people. The demonic I am

46:44

certain is involved, but it's also the contin

46:46

ual

46:47

hardening of a heart that feels no remorse at

46:50

the pain it's inflicting. Now, there's a third

46:52

thing.

46:53

Look at verse 19. It starts out, "And they

46:56

have become callous." And when they get to

47:01

this point

47:02

in this progression, they have become

47:05

shameless. Callous here means you have become

47:10

numb and

47:11

desensitized to sin. The King James says, "Who

47:16

being past feeling?" They just don't feel

47:21

anymore.

47:21

They're completely apathetic. They're

47:24

completely insensitive. They don't care. They

47:28

have no standards.

47:29

They don't care what the consequences of their

47:32

behavior is. And they don't care and don't

47:35

mind

47:36

shocking people with their behavior. Have you

47:38

noticed any of that in our society today?

47:40

You don't have to look too hard. Shamelessness

47:45

. They can't be shamed. No matter what they do,

47:50

that's a terrible place for a person to be in

47:53

their life. And that leads us to our last

47:56

point.

47:58

A reprobate mind. Look next in verse 19. "H

48:02

aving given themselves over to sensuality for

48:09

the

48:09

practice of every kind of impurity with greed

48:13

iness." Shameless thinking leads to shameless

48:18

action.

48:18

First of all, you center on yourself as we go

48:20

through this progression. And then in that

48:22

useless,

48:23

purposeless existence without God, you turn

48:27

God off. Then that hardening of heart process

48:31

begins.

48:32

And that gets worse and worse until you point

48:36

that you have no sense of shame. And you will

48:39

do

48:39

anything you can get away with. That's how I

48:43

used to live. Anything I can get away with.

48:46

Let's go.

48:47

And after that point, praise God, He saved me

48:50

from this. God turns you over to a reprobate

48:54

mind.

48:55

Look again at verse 19. "They have given

48:57

themselves over." God does this, but they do

49:00

this too,

49:01

to sensuality for the practice of every kind

49:03

of impurity with greediness. In other words,

49:05

they can't get at it fast enough. They are

49:08

greedy to do evil. A reprobate mind, which we

49:12

also learn

49:13

about very well in Romans 1, folks, it's a

49:17

mind that is no mind. It's a mind that doesn't

49:21

think

49:22

straight. Do we not see that in our society

49:25

today? People that don't think straight?

49:30

And you can't even begin to understand how can

49:32

they think like that? How can they vote like

49:37

that?

49:38

People who think a man can change his gender

49:42

into being a woman? Those are people who have

49:46

reprobate

49:47

minds. People who think that the deviant

49:53

sexual preference of homosexuality is equal to

49:59

an identity

50:00

like an ethnicity. They have reprobate minds.

50:06

Homosexuality is not an identity like a people

50:10

group. It's a sexual deviancy that is an ab

50:14

omination to God. Our culture has millions of

50:18

these kinds

50:18

of people. And it's interesting in the Mac

50:21

Arthur study Bible that says this, that some

50:24

souls

50:25

may not reach the extremes of these verses, 17

50:28

through 19, is due only to God's common grace

50:32

and the restraining influence of his spirit.

50:34

In other words, not every person gets to this

50:37

extreme that we're talking about. But listen,

50:41

Paul here in this church at Ephesus is wanting

50:44

to

50:45

demonstrate the extreme because of the extreme

50:48

that was happening right in front of these

50:50

people

50:51

on display in Ephesus. And it's been happening

50:53

in world history ever since to different

50:56

degrees.

50:56

And we certainly have it in our world today.

50:59

And he's saying what part should the church of

51:02

Jesus

51:03

Christ ever have in listening to anything that

51:07

those people have to say? The previous

51:12

presidential

51:13

administration glorified for the whole four

51:17

years the thinking of reprobate minds. Don't

51:22

ever forget

51:23

that they had transgender visibility day on

51:27

Easter Sunday with she-men running all around

51:31

the White

51:32

House law. And some would fake breasts with

51:34

their shirts off and they paraded it on TV for

51:37

everybody

51:38

in order blasphemy with the rainbow flag

51:42

flying high. No shame those people had past

51:46

feeling.

51:47

And what I'm saying is what part should we as

51:52

the church ever play in accommodating that

51:58

in our society? We should call it out. We

52:00

should call it out for what it is. Now lastly,

52:06

Yonah got me worked up. Look at verse 20. Paul

52:12

turns to the church after saying these things,

52:17

but you did not learn Christ in this way. What

52:25

part do you have in all?

52:30

Put that old man off daily. Look at verse 22.

52:34

That in reference to your former manner of

52:38

life,

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you lay aside the old self. Look at verse 24

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and put on the new self which is in the liken

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ess of

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God as be created in righteousness and

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holiness of the truth. Paul's point is this,

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you are

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different. You are to think differently. You

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are to act differently. That is not our life

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anymore.

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So don't act anything like that. That's what

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he's getting at here in this text. Now in the

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second

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half of this text, putting off the old, he's

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going to turn and give us a little bit about

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putting on the new. Get that old coat off and

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putting on the new suit. But we'll get to that

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next time. Let's pray. By the way, thank you

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Lord. We read these and I'm sure if somebody

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came in

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here who was not familiar with Christianity,

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they would most likely be horrified by hearing

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all this

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and rightly so because they don't think

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straight. They haven't been given the illum

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ination of the

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Holy Spirit. They can't think straight. They

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have no ability to do so, but God be praised.

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These are words of life to us. We as

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Christians hear these words and say, "Yes Lord

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, amen. That's

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right. That's the truth. I want to live that

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way in order to bring you glory." How we

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should be.

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More thankful than anything we're thankful for

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. For the reality of this amazing miracle of

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regeneration

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that causes us to think this new way that we

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never thought before. We give you all the

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honor and

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the praise and the glory for it. In Jesus'

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name we pray, amen.